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    I kind of found this by accident--said it off the top of my head to one misbehaving custy who was trying to grab my tits, and to my surprise it worked! So i re-used it with other grabby ones, and 9 times out of 10 it works for me.

    "why are you trying to get me in trouble?"

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    "you don't want me/us to get in trouble, do you?"

    (for even more shameless fun, adding "i thought you liked me!" on the end of either of those is optional)

    For me, this is most effective either with my best puppy-dog-eyed expression and innocent tone of voice...or said playfully with a smile, depending on the mood and the custy.

    Either way, most of the time it gets an "aww, no, i don't want you to get in trouble" response. Or they simply don't have an answer--and the grabbing usually stops, even with the most obnoxious custys.

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    You must have muuuuch nicer custies than I do. The grabby losers I get always say something along the lines of "the bouncers can't see/I know the owner/it's my money, dammit/blarfle blarfle I'm drunk." All of these responses are then closely followed by "my crotch, my crotch, dear god why."

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    Quote Originally Posted by rozz
    All of these responses are then closely followed by "my crotch, my crotch, dear god why."
    As they should be. Tee hee hee.
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    ^^ no, it won't work on everyone. I try to fine-tune my asshole radar so i don't end up dancing for the worst offenders in the first place though But a lot of the guys who grab are just trying to get away with as much as they can, and will keep going until they overstep the line and get smacked down or called out on it. I'm still surprised at how many of them crumble and back down when i do call them out.

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    I tell them that its an automatic $100 fee if they continue to touch when I already said no. Money is the only language they understand. As soon as I say that--HANDS OFF! LOL. It works very well for me, but they most likely wont get more dances though.


    Its a BIG problem at my club, b/c the dancers let them do it and no staff does anything, so its the only defense I have.
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    grab their wrists and put them on the wall or back of couch or whatever is behind their head and continue the dance while holding their hands like that. some of them even think its a turn on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine
    grab their wrists and put them on the wall or back of couch or whatever is behind their head and continue the dance while holding their hands like that. some of them even think its a turn on.
    I love doing this, and so do my customers! Ever since this other dancer and I decided to assume that grabbys like to be dominated, things have gone so much better for me. I pin them, or tie them up with something from my costume. Or I go all dominatrix on them: "Did I tell you you could move, slut boy? Call me ma'am!" (Usually funny since that is not my look.) I've been considering buying bondage tape just for the grabbys. Or maybe a whip?

    I've gotten a couple regulars this way.

    "We could have so much more fun if you weren't doing that," works really well on the guys who kind of freak out when you pin their arms. Sometimes I'll just stop the dance and pout and say, "I don't want to stop but you're making it really hard!"

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    Quote Originally Posted by AkashaM
    I tell them that its an automatic $100 fee if they continue to touch when I already said no. Money is the only language they understand. As soon as I say that--HANDS OFF! LOL. It works very well for me, but they most likely wont get more dances though.
    Ooh, I like the sound of that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by oodlesofnoodles
    I love doing this, and so do my customers! Ever since this other dancer and I decided to assume that grabbys like to be dominated, things have gone so much better for me. I pin them, or tie them up with something from my costume. Or I go all dominatrix on them: "Did I tell you you could move, slut boy? Call me ma'am!" (Usually funny since that is not my look.) I've been considering buying bondage tape just for the grabbys. Or maybe a whip?

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    LOL! Slut Boy! That's fucking hysterical!!! How do you keep a straight face? That's a classic. You deserve an academy award for that one.



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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine
    grab their wrists and put them on the wall or back of couch or whatever is behind their head and continue the dance while holding their hands like that. some of them even think its a turn on.
    thats fun too!
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    I tell them in a joking way,"The boobies can touch *you*, but *you* cannot touch the boobies!" And then I commence smashing them in the face with my boobs.
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    You ladies have a LOT more tolerance to grabbing then I do. If they try to touch me, they get a warning, and it's a snappy "keep your hands on the couch". If they try again, the dance is over, and the bouncer throws their asses out of the club. It works well for me, as I now have a lot of very polite regulars.

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    yep the dominatrix approach soon makes them forget about being grabby.
    dancers should always be the one in control of the dance not the other way around.
    once u loose the control and they are the ones telling u how to dance or grabbing u have lost all your power

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    Quote Originally Posted by rozz View Post
    You must have muuuuch nicer custies than I do. The grabby losers I get always say something along the lines of "the bouncers can't see/I know the owner/it's my money, dammit/blarfle blarfle I'm drunk." All of these responses are then closely followed by "my crotch, my crotch, dear god why."

    that's what i get when i say the "i'll get in trouble" lines.

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    i am SO getting a roll of bondage tape and using it in the club. that's brilliant.

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    My problem is when a guy is grabby and I say no, he says something like,

    "Well, when I got a dance from so-and-so earlier she let me do this......."

    What would you say to that?

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    Quote Originally Posted by $$$magnet View Post
    My problem is when a guy is grabby and I say no, he says something like,

    "Well, when I got a dance from so-and-so earlier she let me do this......."

    What would you say to that?
    "I have more class." Usually they don't have a response, or they threaten to go tell the girl, in which case I don't care because if it's true she's the one who will wind up in crap.

    My latest tactic is climbing up the pole and refusing to come down until they behave. If I come down and they try again I go back up and don't come down. I don't want their lousy $2 if I have to deal with their grabby hands. They usually behave after the first time I go up the pole...a bunch of guys didn't believe that I'd stay up there though, but I lasted the 15 minutes...and then got booked because another bunch of guys were watching and thought I was hilarious
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    If i have a guy getting all handsy on me i usually start by putting his hand back on the couch rather forcefully.

    "Do that one more time and ill beat you sensless with my shoe. You konw those things aren't just for decoration, they are lethal weapons too." followed by a really damn cute smile.

    If it happens again I say. "If you keep doing that ill have to stop the dance. "

    Ive never had anything get past that

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    also, i tell them the rules up front. slight "mistakes" get a polite retelling. i try to be nice about it at first. when it blatently goes against what i said or is an obvious try to "cop a feel" because they think i deserve it or they think it's funny.. then i let them know that grabbing me/touching me in ways that they clearly know i don't want is sexual assult, even if i AM a stripper. i tell them how it makes me feel. i'm completely honest about it. if they push the boundries again or are violent in any way (even before being "told") i'll be violent right back or i'll get a bouncer to break their nose.

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    Yeah I get alot of responses to this attempt at making them stop like "oh I know so and so you're not going to get in trouble" or "no one can see us" (we have private booths for dances) Always somethin.

    In Houston the law is 6 ft distance from custies so in the private booths there's these little mini "stages" in the corner away from the chair that we are technically supposed to dance on according to Houston. Well, of course we don't. But if a custy get's grabbier than I allow I tell him, remember the rules I told you at the start? Well if you don't follow those rules, I'm going to follow Houston's rules and go dance on that box over there. That usually gets them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mia_bella View Post
    My latest tactic is climbing up the pole and refusing to come down until they behave. If I come down and they try again I go back up and don't come down. I don't want their lousy $2 if I have to deal with their grabby hands. They usually behave after the first time I go up the pole...a bunch of guys didn't believe that I'd stay up there though, but I lasted the 15 minutes...and then got booked because another bunch of guys were watching and thought I was hilarious
    You're like a bear in a tree! That's one of the funniest things I've read here recently

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    Quote Originally Posted by rozz View Post
    closely followed by "my crotch, my crotch, dear god why."
    Haha! Too funny! Sounds familiar... Swear to god, last night I had a grabby Mexican. I ended up getting SUPER pissed off cos nothing worked to make him stop, even pinning down his hands. So, I bounced my leg so hard into his groin he said, "Owww... me balls!" (insert Spanish accent here). It was great. I ended up throwing him back down on the couch and digging my nails into his shoulders then slapped him in the face. He went for my cookie-last straw. That dance ended early as fuck. Grrrr.... What a cabrone...

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    I tried this line once only to get, "Yes, I want you to get in trouble." w.t.f...

    I try my best to make sure nothing I say has a comeback.


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    when custys say anyhting about the bouncers not being able to c anything, I always say well there are cameras in here. The rooms are dark enough that they wouldnt be able to know!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by PookaShell View Post
    Yeah I get alot of responses to this attempt at making them stop like "oh I know so and so you're not going to get in trouble" or "no one can see us" (we have private booths for dances) Always somethin.

    In Houston the law is 6 ft distance from custies so in the private booths there's these little mini "stages" in the corner away from the chair that we are technically supposed to dance on according to Houston. Well, of course we don't. But if a custy get's grabbier than I allow I tell him, remember the rules I told you at the start? Well if you don't follow those rules, I'm going to follow Houston's rules and go dance on that box over there. That usually gets them.
    LOL, that's awesome

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