View Poll Results: What's the age difference in your relationship?

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  • -5 to 10 years

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  • between -4 and +4

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Thread: Is age nothing but a number?

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    Is age nothing but a number?

    I've always dated older guys. But recently I started dating someone 20 years my senior. Before that, I was dating someone 18 years older than me. (Not much difference).
    Anyway, how do you guys feel about this? I read a quote the other day that was pretty enlightening: How old would be if you didn't know how old you are?

    How much older or younger is your SO/spouse than you ?

    I'm about to be 23 and he just turned 42...he looks like he's in his mid 30's though. The sex is the best I've ever had...so I'd like to keep em' around. But it's gotten weird recently, since we both started really thinking of what would result from the relationship. He wants a family and I don't necessarily....any input would be appreciated.



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    My SO is a little more than 10 years older than me. I like it like that.

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    My hubby is about 16 years older than me. Just fine with me.

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    Default Re: Is age nothing but a number?

    My man is ten years older. Considering the typical maturity level of men, I'd say we're just right. I have dated MUCH older men, and had a great time. I think age is just a number, I've met plenty of people who did not fit their age. As for your situation...I'd say be very upfront and honest with him. If he's serious about settling and you have no interest in doing so...be kind and let him know! He's not gonna get any younger...he may need to be dating other women. In the meantime, enjoy the hot sex!

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    Default Re: Is age nothing but a number?

    My ex-wife was ten years younger than me... the prior long-term relationship, she was 5 years younger... now my new gf is 6 years older... that's a first for me.... but yes, age is nothing but a number.

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    my husband is 15 years YOUNGER than me!

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    The guy I'm seeing is 24, and I'm 19. He's almost 5 years older, and I like it

    guys need more time mature (which is really code for learn about women!)

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    Default Re: Is age nothing but a number?

    My husband is 46 and my wife is 43. I'm 19, so..... about a 25-30 year difference.

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    Default Re: Is age nothing but a number?

    My current/ex (you never know day to day) is 14 years older.

    I have dated guys/hooked up with guys 12 years younger, still legal.

    Yes age is just a number until you run into someone who says that but is constantly seeking out people who "age qualify"/look only for much younger people. Personally I think they are twisted.

    You can fall for anyone, when you preclude that because you can't date someone your own age - that for me is disturbing.

    Many of the older guys I've dated could only seem to accept someone 20 yrs younger - problem. I think they have weird obsessions and fantasies because they are fetishizing age. And for me anyone who can't/or says they don't like to date people their own age is so insecure they may greatly take advantagee of you.

    I know no one asked. But some of these age differences strike me as this kind of thing. You could be the same person only 10 yrs older and they wouldn't want you because age is an obsession.

    Men in their 40's who date women barely out of their teens gross me out. In fact, I mention it when I see on the street. Yes I know I can be a bitch. But been there done that.

    The reason I like older guys is they aren't as insecure and know more about how to have sex. However, this works for older women too. How is that not attractive - it is to most good guys I know. It isn't to insecure wannabe molestors.

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    My husband is 17 years older. I love him, thats all that matters.

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    Default Re: Is age nothing but a number?

    Quote Originally Posted by kittygirl
    Men in their 40's who date women barely out of their teens gross me out. In fact, I mention it when I see on the street. Yes I know I can be a bitch. But been there done that.
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    I'm 19, my husband is 46, and my wife is 43.

    Love, when found, is beautiful - age shouldn't matter.

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    I want a guy a few years younger, so that we die at the same time.

    (I know it doesn't work like that, but since men have slightly shorter life spans, that's what makes sense to me).

    I usually date guys a bit older than me right now though, because guys in their early 20's are retarded.

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    I'm not in a Relationship, but the men I tend to date have been 5 to 10+ years older than me.

    Quote Originally Posted by scarlett_vancouver
    I usually date guys a bit older than me right now though, because guys in their early 20's are retarded.
    Amen.

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    Mine is one month younger.


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    Default Re: Is age nothing but a number?

    I had a two year affair with a woman who was 18 when I met her. We wound up living together for more than half that time, after almost a year carrying on a long-distance affair. For the first three months we had very little idea what the other looked like, which was strange. The mental attraction, needless to say, was quite powerful.

    Of course she was too young for me, ultimately--but she was so brilliant that this made up for it, during most of the time we were together. In fact of my four serious relationships we had as close a rapport mentally as I had with any of them.

    I should have known better, I suppose, but I was living in Daytona, where the 28 year old women were about 12 mentally, and in their defense, the guys were if anything worse. The mental connection proved to be irresistable.
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    I dated older guys when I was in high school... I think the oldest was 10 years my senior.... and I dated older women in college... 14 years my senior was the most. Now my guy is only a few months older than I am.
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    Default Re: Is age nothing but a number?

    I used to date a guy 14 years older then a guy 4 years older and now 10 years younger. When I was younger I learned so much from having relationships with older men. Now I want a lust for life and optimism men in my age range don't seem to have. I also like guys who have no baggage because I pride myself on keeping my personal affairs loving but drama free.

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    Quote Originally Posted by velvet View Post
    my husband is 15 years YOUNGER than me!
    Fuck yes!

    My plan is, date older guys from now until I turn 35, then when I turn 35, switch it around and date younger (this is assuming I won't be getting married).

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    I like older men (30s-40s) for serious relationships. The sex with my current lover (who's 43) is the best of MY LIFE.

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    mine is twenty years older... he looks like hes in his thirties... love him to death...

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    Mine is 16 years older, in his late 30s, and constantly has people saying he looks like he's in his late 20s

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    Mine is 9 years younger. And if this doesn't work out, I'm going for even younger!

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    Default Re: Is age nothing but a number?

    My guy is 15 years older than I am. He looks a lot younger and the age difference doesn't seem to pose a problem.

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    My "lover" is 14 older than me. He looks his age but we have great chemistry and understanding.
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    Lady Z and I have been together longer than most of you are old, and we just finished a nice session on a couch that depressed in all the right places, wine drippings, whipped cream (thank you for T'giving and pies), and lots of "mmm" and energy.

    If she had been 20 years younger, it would've been much the same. Or 20 years older.

    Is age nothing but a number?

    Yes.

    (But sometimes it's a damn high number. Anyway....)

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