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    I have a buddy who'll swear up and down that her man isn't her pimp.
    He travels with her, doesn't have a job, tells her where she can work, counts her money, spends it as he pleases as if he made it but she'll claim he's not her pimp but "her guy".

    He's just the newer type of breed that like to be classified as "her guy", "her boyfriend" or "her man" but in reality he's just a pimp.

    Do you all know girls like that?

    Or what about the girls that always holler "fiancee" and have been having that "fiancee" for over 5 years? lol

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    What exactly was the question? Was this rhetorical?

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    I don't know any girls like that.
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    I've overheard dancers talking about their boyfriends who could possibly be in this catergory. I don't know if they hand over all their cash, but they do complain how they buy him a whole bunch of shit then when they leave for work he brings another woman in the apartment.

    That scenario happened to 1 dancer a couple of times.

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    ^Sometimes I wonder if stuff like that is just Darwinism.
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    Quote Originally Posted by thegreatdame View Post
    He's just the newer type of breed that like to be classified as "her guy", "her boyfriend" or "her man" but in reality he's just a pimp.
    Nothing new about that "type of breed." I'd guess that pimping is the world's second-oldest profession.

    There are two definitions for pimp: one includes anyone who solicits business for a prostitute, and another includes anyone who derives income from the earnings of a prostitute. If we use "prostitute" loosely, to include any sex worker, then--Sure, your friend's man counts as a pimp by the second definition.

    But if your girl wants to support her man financially, your calling him a pimp probably isn't going to change her mind. She'll do what she wants, whether you approve or not.

    Sure, I've known dozens of girls in the business who supported their boyfriends, dozens more who'd never dream of doing such a thing, and still more who did it once and vowed never to do it again.

    What's your point?
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    Duuuude I wrote about a girl before who had a guy like this! She wanted to bring him along to club auditions with me before! I was too unassertive to say no and just kinda hinted that there "wouldn't be enough room for him in the car," but eventually when I said no, he got all pissy and in return she got all pissy at me. How did he find out? Because he was listening in on her phone convo, as always! Never let her do anything on her own like a Big Girl, even though she was a year older than him, and even though she was the one footing all these bills! He even brought his deadbeat sister and sister-in-law, along with their one baby each, and these losers were sponging off a 1bedroom apartment for close to half a year. So my friend was stuck supporting her boyfriend, two loser girls, and their two kids...and she wasn't even that great of an earner at her strip club job, either(she was one of the bottom-earners). Oh yeah, and the boyfriend had a job but quit not long after him and my friend moved in together and she was paying the bills.

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    OK here is the link to the thread I wrote before. It explains about the friend and her pimpish boyfriend:

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    Apparently, from a certain legal perspective and in certain places, even living with a prostitute makes one a pimp.

    Pimping is a sex crime in almost all jurisdictions. Some other countries retain the ill-defined offence of "living off the proceeds of others' prostitution", one of the prima facie evidences of which is co-habiting with a prostitute.
    http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Prostitution

    Is the question really, "is he a pimp?", or is it, "is he a parasite?"

    Parasites come in both genders.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PhillyDancer1982 View Post
    Duuuude I wrote about a girl before who had a guy like this! She wanted to bring him along to club auditions with me before! I was too unassertive to say no and just kinda hinted that there "wouldn't be enough room for him in the car," but eventually when I said no, he got all pissy and in return she got all pissy at me. How did he find out? Because he was listening in on her phone convo, as always! Never let her do anything on her own like a Big Girl, even though she was a year older than him, and even though she was the one footing all these bills! He even brought his deadbeat sister and sister-in-law, along with their one baby each, and these losers were sponging off a 1bedroom apartment for close to half a year. So my friend was stuck supporting her boyfriend, two loser girls, and their two kids...and she wasn't even that great of an earner at her strip club job, either(she was one of the bottom-earners). Oh yeah, and the boyfriend had a job but quit not long after him and my friend moved in together and she was paying the bills.

    Hope she has a lot of shine on that armor.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Deogol View Post
    Hope she has a lot of shine on that armor.
    Nahhhh...she broke up with him in the summer because she realized that she "wasn't happy with him." I think it was also because her "first love" contacted her and she was hoping that she could get back with him. Well whaddyaknow, that didn't work out, and a week later, she was back to living with the old boyfriend. Then I wrote her an angry e-mail and called her, venting about things she'd done wrong and stupid mistakes she'd made. I don't know if my words had any effect, or if she made the choice on her own, but a day later, she broke up with him again. (Apparently it was because he said some "cruel things" to her mom.) What's stupid though, is that for the year that she'd gone back to dancing, her apartment with her boyfriend was the ONLY thing she had to show for her money...which isn't saying much, since it was a modest apartment and she was constantly late on the rent(due to people mooching her money). And she left that with him! WTF?? Last I heard, the ex is working again and obviously paying the rent, or he wouldn't still be living there. But still...what a wasted year that she threw down the drain!

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    Default Re: boyfriend or low key pimp

    wow.

    It just tickles me when I hear women brag about their so-called fiancees and husbands and boyfriends, when they know damn well that they are being pimped on the low.

    Anyhow, I was just wondering if any of you get tired of hearing that same crap too.

    Philly, I hope your girl wised up.

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    Default Re: boyfriend or low key pimp

    remember that kind thing happens alot even if the girl isnt in the adult industrythe whole contrlling bf/hubby is sadly common. my aunt was a postal worker (recently retired) and her husband never left the couch despite their arguments...some 30 years of marrage and she FINALY divorced him over it.

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