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    Well my ATF has pretty much quit dancing I rarely ever see her anymore so I started looking for a new girl to get dances from *I don't like getting dances from multi girls tipping is different tho*. I started talking to this one girl that was funny and very pretty. Well I finally got a couch dance from her and I dunno. I almost felt stupid. This is what she would do, while she was dancing she would move her G-string to the side and run her finger up and down her pussy while making a moan sound and then suck on that finger..... Sooo ummm yeah that was def weird don't get me wrong Pussy is great but I dunno I think its tacky mostly for not even being in V.I.P anyone else with me on that? Or am I just weird? .

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    Ummm... IMHO, I think it is very tacky, but then again, you find all types of personalities in the SC- trashy, classy, flirty, goofy, ditzy... Keep looking and I hope you find another ATF...

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    she only did it because she thought you'd like it...cut her some slack!

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    Actually, one of my first regular girls would do that but she would use my finger and then lsuck on it. It was kind of hot and a bit gross at the same time. If I had just come back from washing my hands It probably wouldn't have bothered me.

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    ya, i'd be with you. totally trashy. esp in a first song. if it had been third song... meh, maybe? lol. this was a topless only club i gather?

    Love it!

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    Enjoy it - don't be scared of it! She's trying to get an edge on her competition - compliment her and tip her well.
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    If you don't like it, why don't you say something like:

    "Honey, you don't have to do that for me...you're doing fine just as you are"

    This way you get what you want and you don't embarrass her.

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    I don't think it's tacky, but I don't think there is anything wrong with not loving it either. I mean, you can nicely ask her not to if you don't like it, or mention in a offhand way before you do a dance that watching a girl touch herself is not really your thing (I don't think it's weird, least of all in a negative judgmental way, but certainly lots of guys are into that kind of thing. She's not way out there like producing a speculum and microscope).

    Although - is it just me, or are you in kind of a "date" mode - like you don't like that she's too "easy"? Like it's one thing in VIP, but she is giving it up too easily, the slut. So, as Emily said, take a step back, and realize that she is doing it because she thinks you'll like it.
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    i'm assuming she has done this before, many time with many guys. It ight be her "thing". That cold be the way she sets herself apart, and Im sure some guys love it. I dunno. Everyone likes different things. Obviously this isn't something that really turns you on, so yeah, try telling her "she doesn't have to do that" or tell her that you really like something else she does. If not, continue the search for a new ATF.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Chrissy68 View Post
    ya, i'd be with you. totally trashy. esp in a first song. if it had been third song... meh, maybe? lol. this was a topless only club i gather?
    Well non V.I.P dances are topless only, but its a nude club. No alcohol either.

    I suppose yeah I should of said something, but I dunno to me for that to be in your "rotation" for a dance kinda was more then I was going for lol! I think I found a new ATF tho shes very sweet and loves to cuddle and loves to be outdoors , Hey it wasn't me asking for hugs this time! Thanks for the input tho guys it was kinda one of those things. I don't normally like to say anything to the dancers if I don't like it just because I think its kinda rude to be like HEY! I DON'T LIKE THAT RAWR!(even if said nicely I don't think I could do that) thats why I didn't say anything.

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    as a customer i would find it tacky. i'd move on to another dancer. as a dancer, i'd never do that.

    however, to each his/her own (as long as it's within the club rules.. which it seems like it wasn't in your case)

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    *still shuddering at the thought of touching my kitty with hands that have been touching money and men all night*

    K, aside form the gross-ness of it, yah a bit tacky...but like sensuality said, it may have been her 'trick' that she does....and if it didn't work for you that's okay just say so.

    I know I have a couple of 'me' tricks that some guys think are just fabulous and some guys look at me cock-eyed and ask "Why'd you do that?" (most think they are just fabulous though!)

    So relax, and tell a girl next time...we don't mind a LITTLE constructive critisism.




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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny View Post
    as a customer i would find it tacky. i'd move on to another dancer. as a dancer, i'd never do that.
    Penny, you took the words right out of my mouth! I definitely agree 100% with what you said-I would never do that as a dancer and if I were getting a dance from someone who did that it would be a total turnoff. Being sexy and sensual is the key here-at least leave a little bit to the imagination!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny View Post
    as a customer i would find it tacky. i'd move on to another dancer. as a dancer, i'd never do that.

    however, to each his/her own (as long as it's within the club rules.. which it seems like it wasn't in your case)

    That about sums it up for me too.
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    If it doesn't feel right, weirds you out makes you think ewwwwwwww
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    Just tell her, "you don't have to do that." If she's smart she'll get the point and see that she doesn't have to do that to give a good dance.
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    Tacky IMO. Either get dances from someone else or when she does it if u dont like it dont smile or look like u r enjoying it when she does it. If u dont wanna come straight out and say u dont like it there are more subtle ways.
    A good dancer will be able to tell what parts of her dance a customer is enjoying by verbal and non verbal cues.

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    I wouldn't call it tacky as much as trashy. It just seems like more and more girls are giving away too much too soon or at the wrong times. I think things like that should be saved for VIP. At least she'd be getting paid alot more for doing something like that. I know there's a girl in my club that walks up to guys and says "you wanna dance, I'll let you taste my pussy." As she sticks her finger in her puss and puts it in his mouth. Um, no. Trashy.

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    That is gross! I think of work as the most germ-y place I go and constantly wash my hands at work. I would never ever do that!

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    If she is already that comfortable with you, can you imagine what she is doing when you are not around. Do you mind how she dances for other guys? She does have bills to pay. If that is not your level, pass her on to me. I think you need a dancer that is more conservative.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GuyPOV View Post
    If she is already that comfortable with you, can you imagine what she is doing when you are not around. Do you mind how she dances for other guys? She does have bills to pay. If that is not your level, pass her on to me. I think you need a dancer that is more conservative.
    What kind of dances are you getting and where, you now have peaked my
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    Hey I'm getting the same dance as the next guy

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    Quote Originally Posted by GuyPOV View Post
    Hey I'm getting the same dance as the next guy
    And pigs fly if that girls dance was conservative

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    ^ Depends on where you club, little lady.

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