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    I have been seeing this dancer OTC for a few months now and am crazy about her. Here recently though I've been getting some signals that maybe I'm getting played or she's trying to get rid of me. Here's the evidence:

    1. She says she'll call the next day but then I won't here from her for a couple of days.
    2. She doesn't want a relationship, she just wants us to be friends with benefits or fuck buddies so to speak. (which is fine with me). Although we haven't had sex in over a month.
    3. We haven't been alone in almost two months and that was when I was paying $300/hr at the club.
    4. She ditched me at a dance club the other night to hide from her ex-boyfriend.

    We have such a great time together though. I just feel like I keep getting shit on.

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    Consider yourself fortunate that you at least got some sex out of her. When a lot of women give up the sex part-THEY usually want a relationship, but obviously this isn't always the case especially with strippers. Many men would consider the journey conquered after you fucked her, but obviously you must feel some other emotional bond to her. If you understood upfront that was all she wanted from you was a fuck buddy- then NO you are not being played, if she gave you indications that she wanted a serious monogamous? relationship and now is retracting-then yes you probably are being played. There is so many other variables in this situation that have nothing to do with YOU-that it's almost impossible to tell for sure... But if you always are wondering-YOUR PROBABLY BEING PLAYED even though she may not feel the same way.

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    I think you are being played. If you are paying her for companionship or sex I doubt she's really interested in a relationship. What do you really want out of this - good sex at the right price or a GF / relationship?

    If the latter your probably looking in the wrong place. If the former then your concern is when do you meet her, where, and how much. I would never pay a dancer $300 / hr ITC when I have had them for sessions OTC for half that much.
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    Star, Houston prices don't translate to other locations.

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    For this, I consulted my Magic 8 Ball:

    Me: "Magic 8 Ball, is TheGoat being played?"

    M8B: "You may rely on it"

    Hope that helps!

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    i don't think so. do you pay her for sex outside of the club? does she ask you for money?

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    Youre getting played harder than an organ at a catholic church. Why have you not had sex with your "fuck buddy" in over a month? Doesnt this automatically make them a friend. Thanks for making your speech nice and short with a nice lacking in long drug out paragraphs complaining about the ordeal.
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    If you have to ask....
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    I believe at this point you are no longer a fuck buddy and have instead become fucked, buddy.

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    I don't know that you're getting played, really... I mean, don't they usually ask for something when they play you? The OP doesn't really talk about that part. Goat, Do you buy this girl the moon on a lasso when you go out with her?

    If so, and you left that part out, yeah, you got played.

    If not, she probably liked you for a little while. Then you got boring/weird/clingy/whatever and she's off to greener grass. Assuming you're telling the truth, that is. If that's the case, take a hint.

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    Quote Originally Posted by almostputtin View Post
    I believe at this point you are no longer a fuck buddy and have instead become fucked, buddy.
    that is fuckin hilarious bwawahahahahahaha

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    If you have to ask....
    Jenny beat me to it.

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    almostputtin's post certainly hits the nail on the head LOL
    I date strippers, especially if they love to model for me.



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    I'm not shitting on you, and i'm not playing you
    the slutty one

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    Quote Originally Posted by almostputtin View Post
    I believe at this point you are no longer a fuck buddy and have instead become fucked, buddy.

    hahahahha!! love it!

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    Sounds like every guys dream girl ....except for no sex in over a month . Why don't you just ask her ! Guys never talk or show their feelings ....
    Don't you just love me ?!?

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