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    lol. Ok, here's my deal : I've lived and worked in South Florida all my life. I had a baby on June 2, 2006 and I recovered very quickly (otherwise Id never consider this). Not tooting my own horn , but, I look good. Period. Ive done alot of things that most girls my age (21) might be scared of ,ie :skydiving, walking late at night in baaad neighborhoods, etc,. I want to start working after newyears anywhere from boynton to pompano. I am NOT an extra's girl and never will be. The funny thing is, with all the crazy stuff ive done; Im really nervous! More about the girls being bitches than the actual work. I just want to get along w/ everyone and do my job. I can hold my own, dont get me wrong, but I just am not good with girls who act "holier than thou". At the very best, I hope Ill be able to meet some girls like Ive seen on SW. Intellegent, friendly, and best of all, honest. This question might sound cliche but : Does anyone have any advice to kinda take the edge off working in a new club (or any club for that matter) I am ready to work and I want to be as educated as possible on what I do. Thank you in advance ladies for all your help !!!!!

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    I'm not realy sure what your question is, so I'll answer this way. If your question is:

    1. How do I prevent girls from being bitchy when I go in and it's my first day?
    My answer: The only thing I've found to do is not to not do anything to provoke them. If a girl is going to be a beotch, there's nothing you can really do to change it. But at least you can control provoking her. My advice? Keep to yourself, be quiet but curteous, and make sure you have everything so you don't have to ask for anything (deoderant, hairspray, you know, the little stuff). Also make sure to know the rules and "codes of conduct" so to speak at the club. Ask the mngr who a veteran dancer is, and maybe ask her for some rules/conduct things, like at one club I worked at, during the day the girls would never sit down at a table if a girl was there and went up on stage. But at night, it was a free for all. As long as the chair was empty, free game. Stuff like that is good to know to avoid pissing off others.

    2. How do I make myself less nervous ("take the edge off?)?
    My answer: Take a few deep breaths. Keep thinking positive to yourself. You are here to make money, and that's what your going to do. You're not there to make friends and socialize with the girls. If some are nice to you, great. If you end up getting closer with a few of the girls, great. But don't share personal info; don't bitch about girls to other girls, and don't bitch about mngmt. to other girls. Keep that all to yourself, and you will be much better off.

    And I've found a few shots of some good Vodka doesn't hurt either--But DONT listen to me on that one!!!!!! lol.

    Good luck!

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    My advice: Do what you said...do your job and just go home! Plain and simple. Dont' try to speak and be cool..in time girls will warm up to you. I mean, dont' get me wrong, it's all good to be cordial but you're there to work and make $$$ first.







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    Well, I've only been dancing for about a week, so I'm not an expert or anything, but I had the exact same fear as you, that all the girls were going to be bitches and cause problems for me. I would say at my club so far it seems like maybe 50%are bitches, and I'm just going to stay out of their way, while the other half have been friendly and helpful. (Of course, there are 60 some dancers there, so I probably haven't even come in contact with all of them yet.) But I have to say I don't think I've met any yet (with one possible exeption) that really are like the ones on SW. Maybe the strippers who come here are a different breed? But I'm willing to bet that there's a mix at every club, just like there have been a few total bitches at every other job I've had in my life. I'm just going to try and always remember what it feels like to be the new girl, so eventually when I'm a veteran I'll be the one who's nice and helpful to a newbie who's shaking in her 6" heels.

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    Thats a refreshing outlook. I agree as well, intellegent ladies trying to make an honest buck ..or hundred..lol ..seem few and far between. Im glad there are girls who can hang up jealousy issues and just have fun at work (as much as possible) and make their money, and go home. I think to start off Im going to see if I can just work 3 nights a week. That should give me the chance to get a general feel for the place. And with all the great stuff I learned here, I know Ill at least not look like a newbie ...thats the problem sometimes, they pick up on your fear and try to drive you out. But, believe me, I'll come prepared.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    My advice: Do what you said...do your job and just go home! Plain and simple. Dont' try to speak and be cool..in time girls will warm up to you. I mean, dont' get me wrong, it's all good to be cordial but you're there to work and make $$$ first.
    ^^ ^^ Great advice

    The girls will ultimately respect you for not getting yourself involved in club drama.

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    My advice to you is to go to work and focus on making money. Once you're on the floor, you'll be too busy to worry about everyone around you. Make sure you stay out of the drama and do not be rude or invade other's space. Expect girl to hate, cuz they will until they get to know you. That has been my experience anyway. Don't let this get to you. Be nice but don't be too nice.

    Good luck

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    Default Re: Very outgoing but not cool with bitches

    Thank you to everyone. I feel much better about this now. I am a NOOOOO drama kinda lady n'msayin ? lol. Anyway, Im gonna start (hopefully) after newyear's.I think Im gonna go to Platinum Showgirls in Boynton Beach. It's closest to me but down here everything is bad bad bad as far as stripping is concerned. A girl definately needs to watch herself, and I don't just mean the girls. Thanks again and be safe out there ladies !
    xoxo

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