I wanna try this...There is a huge swingers club in Phoenix that I'm really curious to check out. I think it would be really fun. Has anybody ever been to a swingers club? Ever thought about going? Any experiences that you can share??
I wanna try this...There is a huge swingers club in Phoenix that I'm really curious to check out. I think it would be really fun. Has anybody ever been to a swingers club? Ever thought about going? Any experiences that you can share??





Years ago, I went to a place called The Vault in NYC with some friends that were in a goth band.
Lots of different "scenes" being played out and lots of fetishes being catered to. Just about anything you could think of, could be had there. I did not, however, see any real sex going on. I had heard that it happened there, just did not see it because I didn't wander around too much.
I should have had more to drink at dinner before we went there, because they didn't serve alcohol and I was really creeped out and inhibitive.
We didn't stay long and it has since closed down.
yes, keep in mind that swinger clubs are like regular night clubs, in that they have a certain type of crowd in each one. Some are exclusively hot and young and you need to be approved. Then there are sex parties involving different fetishes (like S&M). Some are for older people who maybe are a little heavier.
I went to the last kind with an ex of mine and we did not fit in at all. We were pretty much turned off, but later found a group that we fit in with more.
I've been to several and while they can be interesting...I prefer smaller house parties. The clubs are good if you are into 1)watching 2)totally anonomous sex with strangers or 3)large group sex(since they usually have at least one huge group room that can fit quite a few people)
I'm not really into any of those so the club scene isnt really my bag.
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Yeah, me and an ex when to www.clubkamasutra.com in Philly before they shut it down.
It was an "on-site" swingers club. I wasn't participating, but it was fun to watch.
Of course, yall know I went for the food, lol
They had crab legs, rib-roast etc. And you also got breakfast when it was over. $100 per couple per party.
They had a cool see through dance floor on the third floor, so you could look down into the place where the group action was going on, on the 2nd floor. KEWL!
I've been to Plato's in Ft Lauderdale.
It was interesting. Very clique-ish. And there more old, fat people than young, hot ones.
People always ask me, did I ever learn anything when I was a stripper? Yeah, I did. One man plus two beers equals 20 dollars.
-- Anna Nicole Smith
Myspace is an obsession...much like Stripperweb...
http://www.myspace.com/cameronkeys (real myspace)
http://www.myspace.com/sexyhotdancer(work myspace)
Just remember...if the world didn't suck, we'd all fall off.
Oh yeah, actually I've been to Trapeze too...yes, it was also less cliquish there and more attractive people too. How did I forget that....





I really want to go... I've been to them alone and never actually did anything. It was to check them out. My partner is too shy to go... but I want to have fun!
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Orgies and voyuerism always seem like fun, but I'm too shy. It always seems like the expierience could be really cool, or really, really bad.
Considered being a hostess at but chickened out.
I saw a member's wife try to entice me with pictures of one.
Not a lot of pretty swingers in these here parts...
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I went to the Vault years ago too! My boyfriend and I pictured it be a sexy goth like place with candles and black velvet with beautiful horny people writhing around, ha! It was really just like a big dirty basement, a bunch of naked guys on their knees jacking off to any woman that walked by, an old man being unenthusiastically whipped, a lady strapped to a high chair being eaten out by anyone who wanted to, a few drag queens that strutted in then quickly left, a man lifting his girlfriend's skirt to show her pussy to the aforementioned men on their knees. The energy was so low and felt more sad/pervy than sexy. It wasn't an inspiring place at all. Hopefully there are better ones out there.
Yeah me and Dea used to frequent one of Ct's swingers clubs, til it got shut down. We haven't ventured into the Phx swingers clubs yet, but we're interested in checkin one out.
Blade, that is too funny. I know people who used to be involved with that, too - again, until it got shut down. I might have eventually checked it out, in fact, had it not closed - so hmm, we might have met under very interesting circumstances indeed . . .
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I wouldn't recommend going to one that allows single men. Some of the smaller ones pre-screen too. They don't want people that are too young or attractive, lol! At least that's what I'm told. I went once, it was fun, would go again.
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Originally Posted by Mia M


In addition to having been to a few swinger clubs and parties- I also served drinks in an upscale swingers club for a little
while .... the one word that comes to mind about the experience of seeing "swingers" in their own enviroment is YUCK!
It was all very sad, really.
yes been to many and swingers conventions and every club has its own tone and colour you have to scout out and find one you like the owners usually set the tone.many are on premis many are off premis with parties in a sept. location so again you decide what you like many let single guys in that creates a different feeling and once again you decide if thats what you like many are couples only and single women ar the holy grail of swingers clubs often get in free and are catered to.they all can be fun and sexy even if you don't swing ,can be fun just to watch.many couples belong for years and never actually swing.it takes all types and its important to find the one you feel comfortable with.most have an online site so can be prechecked out to some degree. I have had fun and some good connections were made and some good friends so go for it and find one you like
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A pal of mine in NYC described going to one swingers club at which there was "sex upstairs and a smorgasbord" downstairs. Thinking about this, I decided I might (might) be able to handle the sex but never the small talk around the deli platter. "Oh, yes. Your wife is the blonde with the earings? I think I got a blowjob from her. Nice to meet you, Hal."
Yeah I have been to almost all of the larger ones in Phoenix. Club Chameleon, Encounters, Sociables...I can't remember the names of the other ones but a friend of mine ran an adult magazine and he had to pick up and drop off adds at all of them in one night so I went with him and his wife just to check it out and it wasn't what I expected but it was interesting. Some of them have theme rooms or jacuzzis or mirrors all over . One had a room with a two way mirror where you could watch or join in a big group of people having sex. What struck me was that it was almost more of a nightclub atmosphere with an occasional sex act than just a big orgy. At one place, we got a tour from a 60 yearold topless woman in leather and chains who suggested that the 3 of us hit the showers and head into one the fantasy suites. I was like ,"We aren't together ! We are not a threesome!" and the lady lokked at me knowingly and said, "Mmmm hmmm. They never are." It was hilarious. I think you should check it out. You don't have to participate.....unless you want to![]()
I made out with some hot chicks in the ladies room at the one I went to. We were all hiding out from the nasty old pervert guys!
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Originally Posted by Mia M



My bf's been to a few, some good stories n some bad. The latest bad one was from a visit to a club in San Antonio, he said it was like a Shamu convention lol There are a lot around me in Dallas, clubs and standing private parties alike- I hear good things bout the Velvet Curtain in particular and have been to a bar owned by the same people which was cool.
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