Reading in one of the other sections about women and orgasms has motivated me to post my embarrassing question
OK so this is a little difficult but I figure this is the place to ask. I’ m one of the early 50s happily married PLosers who escapes to the clubs during frequent business travel. Hotel rooms (98 so far this year) get real boring. I am a nice person and generous and am open to most contact as well as it keeps things private below the belt. If I wanted something more I would take my business elsewhere. Besides I am very happy with the sex life at home
However age, alcohol, medicines and the stress of the day do take their toll and about ½ of the time I am getting dances I do not get an erection, even though I am otherwise enjoying the sensations.. I become very self conscious of it and wonder what the dancer is thinking, or if they even care. More often then not I will make some joke about age sucking. .
Does a dancer notice or care? Do they see it as a “vote” on them or their dancing skills? Do I say anything or show my appreciation with tips? What are the verbal or non verbal cues. I want to have fun and think that the dancer is at least comfortable.
Thanks for your input
8Tj





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