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    Default Hahahaha you've GOT to be kidding me.

    I have a regular custy at the club I work at, and he treats me very well. He'll do hours at a time in the VIP, and he always tips extra, too.
    He asked me recently if I'd be willing to take a trip to NYC with him, and if he could take me out to a dom/sub party with him (no sex, just to "show me off" on a collar/leash...), as well as some corporate events where he needed a date. We obviously agreed that I'd be compensated for the trip, though we didn't specify an amount. I wasn't worried though, because he's always so generous in the club.
    So yesterday, we began to finalize our plans, and he began talking about a Best Western that he was planning to book a reservation at. Umm... okay. We talk a little more, and finally I ask him what he thinks would be appropriate to pay me for the 4-5 day trip. His reply:
    "Um. What do you think about $400?"

    $400. I didn't even know how to respond! An hour in the VIP is upwards of $500!!!! Obviously I wasn't expecting $500 per hour, but come ON. I can't waste 5 freakin' days with the guy for 400 bucks! I was sooo caught off guard that I just kind of smiled and said, "Um. Maybe. We'll talk about it in detail more later..." then made some lame excuse to get back to my other customers.

    I'm not sounding too greedy, right? I mean... maybe he assumes the trip is my "gift"? But I DO have to dress up and accompany him to these different events. And I have a guy I'm seeing... a job here... a LIFE here.

    400 freakin' dollars.

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    Default Re: Hahahaha you've GOT to be kidding me.

    Any escort will tell you how lame that is ... besides... you can make that in a night for a hell of a lot less drama in the end (believe it or not).

    What if you find out you don't get along with him (many an escort won't do overnight/weekend bookings due to this)... then it is hell... and 400 dollars would be good for say 20 hours IF you agreed your time is worth $20 per hour whilst you are away.

    You are right. It was far from a good amount far from it and you are NOT being greedy. You are trying to be compensated a good amount for your time.


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    Default Re: Hahahaha you've GOT to be kidding me.

    Yeah! I've made up to triple that amount in a NIGHT working!

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    Default Re: Hahahaha you've GOT to be kidding me.

    Uh, woah. That is an incredibly low offer. I charge $300 to $500 to attend events for one night in my HOME TOWN. I can't stand it when guys think a trip or a free dinner is our pay. This is WORK for you--not some free vacation.

    A four day out of town job in which you are performing duties such as arm-candy for corporate events and walking around as a pet on a leash requires payment. I would charge NO LESS than $1500. And I'm EASY. I'm sure you'll hear from many women on this site who would laugh at that amount.

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    Default Re: Hahahaha you've GOT to be kidding me.

    Oh, don't get me wrong, I'm laughing. I've just decided to post it here for the amusement of others.

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    Default Re: Hahahaha you've GOT to be kidding me.

    Haha. Well, in that case, hardy har har. I am amused.

    Farking losers.

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    Default Re: Hahahaha you've GOT to be kidding me.

    If he's willing to spend $500 in an hour...$400 for 4-5 DAYS is a joke and an insult. Add a zero to the end of that and it would bean acceptable amount....plus obvioulsy all expenses paid INCLUDING your own SEPARATE hotel room(unless you are comfortable sleeping with him).
    $4000 would be the equivalent of 2 rooms a night...and since you've said that he does hours at a time at $500 apiece PLUS tip....$1000 a day wouldnt be out of the question. I wouldnt accept anything less...but thats just me.
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    Default Re: Hahahaha you've GOT to be kidding me.

    i'd just explain to him that he's asking you to leave your job for the week and that you'll need to be compensated for the money you would have made at work, plus whatever extra you agree is fair for the travel and events.

    wtf? 400 bucks?

    i would expect at least 5000 for 5 days plus all expenses paid. expenses being hotel, travel, and food. i wouldn't expect "spending money" or anything.

    all that being said, i probably wouldn't do the trip in the first place. i had a friend who went to vegas with a guy who paid for everything and gave her a shitload of spending money. it was supposed to be 100% no sex. suprize suprize, after the 2nd day of their week long trip he started to get pushy about wanting her to cuddle, "just lay in bed with me", etc. another day or so and he was begging for "no strings" sex. it got worse and by the end it was miserable. nothing happened to her and she made a lot of money, but i wouldn't risk it, personaly.

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    Default Re: Hahahaha you've GOT to be kidding me.

    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny View Post
    i'd just explain to him that he's asking you to leave your job for the week and that you'll need to be compensated for the money you would have made at work, plus whatever extra you agree is fair for the travel and events.

    wtf? 400 bucks?

    i would expect at least 5000 for 5 days plus all expenses paid. expenses being hotel, travel, and food. i wouldn't expect "spending money" or anything.

    all that being said, i probably wouldn't do the trip in the first place. i had a friend who went to vegas with a guy who paid for everything and gave her a shitload of spending money. it was supposed to be 100% no sex. suprize suprize, after the 2nd day of their week long trip he started to get pushy about wanting her to cuddle, "just lay in bed with me", etc. another day or so and he was begging for "no strings" sex. it got worse and by the end it was miserable. nothing happened to her and she made a lot of money, but i wouldn't risk it, personaly.
    Dude, even $5000 is REALLY low. Escorts here get $30,000 for a week. Of course that includes sex. So I'd say 15,000 no sex for a week?

    One guy offered me his black Amex card for the entire week as payment.

    I was THISCLOSE to taking him up on it.

    Damn fiancee.


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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan View Post
    Dude, even $5000 is REALLY low. Escorts here get $30,000 for a week. Of course that includes sex. So I'd say 15,000 no sex for a week?

    One guy offered me his black Amex card for the entire week as payment.

    I was THISCLOSE to taking him up on it.

    Damn fiancee.

    ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME??? Oh-- shit, I would have been THERE... love and kisses to the fiancee and everything, but you'll buy him a nice sweatshirt or something. Hell a WATCH. Spending Money is fun when it's someone else's

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    Default Re: Hahahaha you've GOT to be kidding me.

    Some of the high class escorts charge 20,000 for a week.

    400! Wow, I'm totally with you on that one.

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    I am sure if you talk to him calmly and explain that you were confused by his low offer and you are sure he just wasn;t thinking when he offered you 400 that he will be ok .

    Ya know what though this is a good way to test his nature/personality . You are going away with him for a week and you should be aware of his temperment , if he gets an attitude like you are not worth more or that you are riping him off then he IS NOT the kind of guy you should be alone with ..plus he doesn't respect you


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    Default Re: Hahahaha you've GOT to be kidding me.

    When you talk to him say "yeah, 400 sounds good, per hour!!!" If he meant $400 for the whole trip he's delusional!!! What a waste of time, like you really want to go on the trip with him anyway, and to actually lose money, yeah whatever!!! What does he think that this is going to be fun for you? It's freaking work, I wouldn't accept anything less and I mean the bare minimum at $1000 per day and that would only be if we got to go shopping and get whatever I wanted, in addition to the $1000 per day. You're talking about going to a dom/sub party that's going to require you to be "on", not like just going out to a restaurant and just sitting there looking pretty drinking nice wine, you're going to have to dress up, be pulled around by a leash and everything so this dude is out of his mind if he meant $400 for the whole trip.

    I think guys try to push our limits to see what they can get away with. If he thinks you might go for it, he'll ask so you need to put your foot down. Just flat out tell him that you make x amount working in the club for 6-8 hours, which comes out to x amount per hour. You being up there with him is basically being at his beck and call 24/7, so you need to be compensated on an hourly basis for being at his beck and call 24/7, and since he's such a great customer that you'll make a deal with him, instead of charging x amount per hour up there, you'll charge y amount up there. Or something like that!

    Keep us informed of what he says!!! What an IDIOT!!!!!!!!!!

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    Honestly? I just let it go. I told him that I don't think I'd be able to go on the trip after all, and that was that. He questioned a little and I just said that I don't feel comfortable. Anyone who is going to offer $400 (and he was QUITE serious in his offer) is delusional and it's not worth it to try and tell him otherwise. If he thinks that $400 is a reasonable rate, he's NOT going to go up to $1000 a day or higher.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bubble_bobble View Post
    Why all the H8?
    It's not hate, it's just that she felt rather insulted to be offered $400 for a week's worth of work when she gets paid $500 per hour by this guy. If you're a dancer or anyone who works would understand, why in the hell would she want or would this customer even think she'd take a week long trip with him, miss work (lose lots of money) and actually this trip be work for her (it's not a vacation, it's 24/7 of entertaining him) and only get compensated $400!!! That's not even what she makes in 1 hour with his guy. Whether you're a dancer or not-someone who works any other job, work for an entire week for less than what you make per hour? What if you worked at McDonald's for $7.00/hr and they asked you if you'd work the entire week for a flat rate of $6.00 total for the whole week. Would you do it? Hell no!!!

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    Default Re: Hahahaha you've GOT to be kidding me.

    what I took from Bubble's comment was: she's suggesting the guy only offered her 400, not because he's stingy (since he pays well at work), but because he thinks it would have been more like a vacation for her than work. He liiiiikes her and wanted the opportunity to get to know her on a "fun" trip to vegas. Not a troll at all

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    Default Re: Hahahaha you've GOT to be kidding me.

    in the "real world" of freelancing (I do photo /video) the assistants get 2-300 per day (low) and I bill at 300-1000 per day - that's clothed, 10 hr day with no leash!

    I'd say 1500 min, maybe as low as a grand plus 50% tip...but try for 3k or so~

    and that's no contact, no nookie,, no tasty no feelie

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    yah 400 and a leash! what a deal

    dont forget the bestwestern! I seriously would have turned 10 shades of pale when he asked.
    But honestly anyone that woulda included the leash bit would have turned me away.

    With a partner thats one thing but with a customer ..thats another. I guess I just dont trust that shit.

    makes you wonder why he pays the 500 an hour but thinks 400 for days is okay ?

    FYI if you ever get this kinda gig again. Have them put your hotel and airfare expense on a prepaid credit card, and book the shit yourself as a safety measure. this way he doesnt have your personal info and also so you can secure your way in and out

    always get an open end ticket.!!

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    Default Re: Hahahaha you've GOT to be kidding me.

    Yeahhh good call. I might have an opportunity similar to this in about a month or so (with another custy... I ditched this one), and I'm gonna lay out ALL the rules up front, or no dice.
    Although, yeah, that Best Western WAS pretty tempting.

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    too bad he didnt have vouchers for a buffet at the golden corral ., because if so i woulda kicked your ass for not going lol

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    Sorry Babe but he needs to look at it this way. A VIP is approx $500. He prolly spends on average what? 3 hours each time with you. For 5 days. Thats $7500 minimum plus he picks up the cost of all expenses while you are there. Seriously ask for like $10,000 for the week. NO SEX.

    Sounds like you might get totally taken for way to much.... back out now. And if you do go, regular or not, get your money up front at the airport!.

    But thats just me.

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    that's an extremely looooow amount. It also seems like he might be trying to test your boundaries and see if he can take the relationship one step further by you agreeing to do it for cheap ( and trust me he know it's a cheap offer) you may have an interest in him. You should politely but clearly make it understood that you have a life outside of the sc and that this is a business arrangement.
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    this post was from 2006.... it is already over and done with
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