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    This may seem out of character.
    In my city we do a lot of contact. Like, I'm not talking about the difference of letting a hand brush your breasts. We do hard grinding, 2 way contact, the only thing that is not standard is fluid. When I say standard - the police were in my club once and arrested one girl for genital contact (the customer's hands were on her genitals). Looked right past all the girls doing the standard contact. That's how standard. So, "branching out" - why? To what purpose? I mean - going further than this is fluid exchange. This is not the difference between sitting on a guy's knee and sitting on his lap, or letting his hand brush your breasts when you're not meant to. Anything more than what we're "meant" to do is... well, it's a whole hell of a lot. Like you could just put an ad on Craigslist and let the perverts come to you. Further note that acts of prostitution in the club are illegal. Acts of prostitution in a (for example) hotel are legal. So. How DUMB do you have to be? I understand wanting to "hook" for money. I understand not wanting to hook for less money. I don't understand, for the life of me, performing as a hooker with less convenience and hella more risk for less money just for the privilege of calling yourself a dancer instead. I mean, isn't the appeal of prostitution the fact that it is discreet and private? Just on a descriptive scale. How stupid? Because I'm disgusted.

    Sorry. I heard someone use the term "baby-daddy" unironically. My opinion of the dancing population (save you guys) has plummeted.
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    Ugh....baby daddy...I've heard girls use this too...and here i though this was just a joke term. Nope..apparently it is an acceptable lable in the ghetto...along with the comperable baby-mama. I asked a girl once why she didnt just refer to the guy as her ex and she got THE most confused look on her face. I gave up.

    I feel you on the prostitution thing too. While it isnt legal anywhere here...the clubs are still chock full of it. I'm tired of nopt being able to pay my freakin bills because as a DANCER I'm not willing to suck and fuck. Thats become almost the job description here...if you say you wont do that they honestly look at you like you've just said you refuse to DANCE. Like..."why would you be here if you arent willing to do that????"
    I cant wait until I can retire.......sad...i used to LOVE this job
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    Quote Originally Posted by Janessa View Post
    LOL-I can not believe you just wrote that.
    why? it's true!
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    It's such a shame that the industry has gone this route!!!

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    Yeah, the baby daddy thing. I once heard a girl say (something like) "yeah, so my baby daddy his other baby momma she just moved in with Sparkle's baby daddy." And she was serious.

    I understand wanting to "hook" for money. I understand not wanting to hook for less money. I don't understand, for the life of me, performing as a hooker with less convenience and hella more risk for less money just for the privilege of calling yourself a dancer instead. I mean, isn't the appeal of prostitution the fact that it is discreet and private?
    Denial runs deep, ya know? I mean, they probably started out not being hookers, and their boundaries just slipped over time. Doesn't mean they admit to themselves that they actually do these things.

    I'm sorry it sucks for you.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Lena View Post
    Denial runs deep, ya know? I mean, they probably started out not being hookers, and their boundaries just slipped over time. Doesn't mean they admit to themselves that they actually do these things.

    I'm sorry it sucks for you.
    It doesn't really suck. I was just irritable last night.

    It's not really an extras thing. I mean I get extras. Extras make sense. Like doing "more" than other girls to make money when it's like grinding or allowing more touching or... you know, other variations. But when anything "extra" essentially means... you know fluid exchange... and outcall prostitution is legal and unregulated and incall prostitution (i.e. in stripclubs) is illegal...
    It's really the stupidity that offends me.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    It's really the stupidity that offends me.
    LOL I love the way you think.



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    It bugs me when girls here prostitute on the streets when brothels are legal, safer and you get paid more.

    Like... DUH?


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