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    I just started dancing like a month ago so this is all pretty new to me but so far, so good. I have one problem though: the other night I got a little (or a lot) tipsy from some drinks a customer was buying me and ended up in the couch room with another dancer and a customer. The girl was VERY pushy and said that she wanted to take me home along with the customer. I sat there for a while so I could sober up but I just kept making excuses which I could tell was making her mad. I'm kind of scared of this one dancer now and I don't know what to do if she tries this again. I don't want to bring the managment into this or anything because I would rather handle it myself. What have you girls done or what would you do if you had another dancer pushing you to go home with her?

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    Default Re: other dancers want to take you home?

    Just firmly tell her that you keep your job at the workplace, that you go home with neither customers, nor dancers.

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    Default Re: other dancers want to take you home?

    this happened to me. a girl started kissing my body in VIP. when i told her to stop she said "i thought you were bisexual" to which i replied "and that means i have to accept unwanted attention from both sexes?"

    just be as firm with her as you would a guy making unwanted advances. if she doesn't stop, then tell management. just try to deal with it on your own first.

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    Thanks so much ladies! I really appreciate your responses and I will definitely be well prepared to tell the girl I'm not interested should the unfortunate event ever arise again in the future.

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    Default Re: other dancers want to take you home?

    You said you were pretty drunk right? And you are new to dancing? Is there a possibilty that since you both were "double teaming" this guy in VIP, that she was just pulling some SS for the custy? I mean maybe it was just a game that she was saying to try and get the guy to buy more VIP's from you guys and it was making her mad because you werent going along with it... being that you were drunk maybe you misconstrued her intentions as her actually wanting to take you 2 home when she was just bullshitting to make more money.. its not unheard of for some girls to lie to guys to get money.

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    Default Re: other dancers want to take you home?

    From my experience, it happens a lot--at least in all of the clubs I have worked in.

    I have seen far more dancers who are having sex with other dancers than with customers or even male employees. It seems as though it's not as big a deal to them. I can understand this to a large extent, since dancers have to put up with so much shit from guys at work--customers and male employees tending so often to be dicks (bad pun, not really intended, lol). It would therefore be a lot easier to relate to them.

    OTOH, I have seen many dancers get just as upset at being molested by female customers--just the other night a very, very sweet girl (Jasmine, I call her 'The Wildflower') was very upset because of this. I tried to cheer her up, but it was pretty much too late--it ruined her night.

    Moments later--Echomadison (just now saw her post) is of course right on the money, as well--a lot of dancers without the slightest interest in other women will act like it, since the guys tend to love it. I always talk it up if they do it onstage, for the same reason.
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    No, the dancer definately wasn't playing around. She was telling me about how the customer was her sugar daddy and would wine and dine us both if I went home with them while. The customer didn't even so much as offer to spend a dime while we were back there!

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    a girl started kissing my body in VIP. when i told her to stop she said "i thought you were bisexual"
    Haha, because if you're bi then you like ALL women, right?

    Bah. I've had the same problem, and it's annoying because I'm not bi or interested in sex with anyone from work (male or female), and yet it's so expected...like, "you don't want to have sex with a girl? What kind of stipper are you?"

    I'm totally into gay for pay, but I like it to be kept professional.

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    Default Re: other dancers want to take you home?

    ^^

    I'm down for gay for pay too (so to speak, heh), but uhm, simulated? I have long hair. Can we not just vividly pretend? And even that for only worthwhile money with someone I know.

    I've kinda given up because it seems ok for so many girls I've worked with whom I've never MET...Like a girl whose such a stranger I don't know her stage name even, and she's ok with a customer paying for us to ACTUALLY have sex. When the customer tries to get me on board, all saying "she'll lick your pussy you know" I say "ok, i don't want her to". I don't even pretend I'd be cool with that. If pressed for why oh why I would not want to have sex with a stranger I say "herpes?"

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    Default Re: other dancers want to take you home?

    Me, I'm bi, and most girls at work know it...I'll flirt with the girls I find attractive, but if I know they're not into it, light flirting's the most I'll do...the last thing I want to do is make them feel uncomfortable.
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    Default Re: other dancers want to take you home?

    I think customers and a lot of dancers assume that we are all bisexual or gay. Personally I don't want anything to do with women in a sexual way. I'm fine with playing around, but when they grab for the crotch I get freaked out and don't really want to even play with those girls. It just isn't something I'm into, despite popular opinion.
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