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    Angry I am so fucking pissed right now!

    So, one of my friends/ regular asked me what I wanted for Christmas, and I told him I wanted a purse. He asked what kind, and I said coach and described what types of styles I like. Well, we made plans to meet at the mall that weekend and I would pick out a purse.

    Well, he calls me and tells me he found a great deal through a guy he works with. Some woman was se4lling some coach purses that she bought on impulse and wanted to get rid of. Yeah, sounded fishy to me too. I asked him if they were real, because I DID NOT WANT TO TAKE PART IN ANYTHING THAT IS BASED OFF OF CHILD LABOR, AND SWEATSHOPS. He said his friend knew the lady really well, and "fred" said they were real.

    Well, I just met up with him and got the purses ( he bought me two), and didn't want to be rude and look at them right then and there.

    So, I get home, and I take a look. One is a style I've never seen before, both feel like plastic on the inside. I hear that all o fthe metal things on the real deal have the name on it, but only the buckles have the name, not the zippers or anything else. Even the canvas? feels cheap.

    I'm not mad at my reg, he is a sweet old man that just wanted to get me something nice. He's not rich, not poor, but somewhere in the middle, so he spent his hard earned dollars on these two fakes.

    I'm
    1. Pissed that I was so excited about getting a coach purse, and now I have two fakes on my hands
    2. Pissed that someone would take advantage of such a trusting and generous person ( he's been paying my bills for a bit while I go to college full time, instead of working, because my classes this semester are rediculously hard).
    3. Don't know what to tell him or even if I should because his little world where everyone is good and you can trust their word, will be shattered. He even that that I have never done drugs, don't use foul language, hardly drink, and am still virginal and only sleep with guys that I love. The few times I've let a bad word slip, or one time when he caught me smoking a ciggarette, you all should have seen the shock on his face. Poor old guy.

    You guys are probably thinking I must be naive tothink he is sooo innocent, becaus eI met him in a sc. Here's how we met....

    When I met him it was at one of his sons b-days at the club. His two sons wanted to buy him some dances, and he kept saying " I just don't know if I feel right, no offense girl." So they gave me the money, told me to dance, and he told me to take the money and just talk to him. After that he would come in every weekend to just talk, and give me $300 for talking with him for an hour. When I'd get bored and tell him I didn't feel like I was doing my job he'd start buying me dances from the other girls, so all of my friends would bank off of him every time.

    He had his very first shot o fliquor on my twentyfirst b-day ever. He bought me one, but made me wait untill midnight when I was really 21 to have it. He says he's never ever done any drugs or smoked even a ciggerette. He's never in like 50 yrs of marrige cheated on his wife. He always comes in and talks to me about how much he loves his grandkids, and how he hopes they grow up to be like me- except for the dancer part. He is that innocent. He even says he prays for me to do good when he is going to bed every night.

    I'm just so pissed that somebody would take advantage of this guy who helps everybody. And he really does. Everybody.

    What do I tell him, he's gonna be crushed that he was taken advantage of?
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    Shopping and Fucking? Life is short, but youth is shorter. Ride the wheels off, I say." - FeministStripper

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    I would let him know. I'd want to know personally. And not just knock off purses use child labor, a lot of main stream companies such as Nike etc do.

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    I don't buy Nike either. It's really sad that people can treat children so poorly.
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    " If you're young and sexy, why not spend a few years
    Shopping and Fucking? Life is short, but youth is shorter. Ride the wheels off, I say." - FeministStripper

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    Yup, I agree.

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    If you have a good working relationship with him, I'd tell him. If it were me, I'd do it in a way of just letting him know, and I'd be very careful to not come off like I'm complaining.

    BTW, I like Coach too, and the overall quality has always been good. Odds are, if you think it's fake, it's most likely fake. However, since child labor and sweatshops were brought up, I'd like to point out that they are made in bulk in China. Do I believe that they are hand made? Not a chance. I haven't gone out and investigated, but it wouldn't shock me to find out about bad business practices on their part.






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    I've never had a coach purse before. My friends told me what to look for in a real one, and this does not match.
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    Shopping and Fucking? Life is short, but youth is shorter. Ride the wheels off, I say." - FeministStripper

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    Yeah a real coach is never plasticy, from my experience.

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    This is a tough call, but I think women try to be too perfect about these things. I'd not embarass him by bringing it up, it will only hurt his feelings and won't guarantee that he will know the difference next time either. Just be greatful he is so generous to you; the old saying "Don't look a gifthorse in the mouth" applies here. If he starts to "wise up" about one thing, he might about other stuff as well, and he might decide he's not having fun at your club anymore. The male ego, even past 70, is a fragile thing. (I'm more concerned about his other money issues than a few purses. If he is that trusting, there may be someone who is defrauding him in a much larger way than this. But you can't do everything.)

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    Sorry you didn't get the purse you wanted, but I'm kinda with Smoothcat on this one. Customer or not, it's just kind of tacky in my opinion to criticize a gift someone has given you. Unless you're into some kind of humiliation game - but obviously this isn't one of those situatiuons. Save some of the money he gives you and get the real-deal Coach purse that you had in mind. Nothing is more satisfying than getting exactly what you want.

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    Well, he not only got me these two purses, but after giving them to me he asked if I would mind if he got one for my best friend too, because this woman had a few more she wanted to get rid of. So, he'll be calling her, or his friend will, I don't know who has her number, but he'll be giving her another chunk of change for a fake purse for my friend.

    I could always tell him that April would like such and such better, so don't get her a purse, and leave it at that, or I could tell him. I don't know what to do. I was afraid that his feelings would be hurt, but I told him I didn't want a part of anything fake because of how they are manufactured and it's illegal, and I told him that before he even bought these. What would you all do?
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    Shopping and Fucking? Life is short, but youth is shorter. Ride the wheels off, I say." - FeministStripper

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    Hmm tough call. I don't want to sound Martha stewart-ish, but I would get him a small thank you card or something first, and give it to him in the club next time you see him. Then, when he brings up the lady wanting to get rid of more purses, I would use that as the time to explain that you think they are fake, the child labor thing, etc.

    So you covered your bases then. He will like knowing you appreciate his generosity and, *being the good-hearted pure man he is* im sure he would be interested and concerned to know what goes on with the child labor purse thing.....

    good luck with that one

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    You could always go the route of saying:

    Hey-- I really like the purses you picked out. They aren't actually Coach, but I have the perfect outfit for them anyways. Thank you for the present.

    that way-- he knows, you're not critisizing, and he's forwarned.

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    Well, I'm a bit puzzled why it's okay to fake him out with a fantasy about one's innocence but not okay to spare his feelings by making up a story to prevent him from being cheated again. Also, I don't think there's any possible way to communicate it's fake without also implying that you're disappointed it's fake, regardless of whether or not that's true. If he's as sweet as you say, you know darn well he will be embarassed enough to buy a replacement even if you insist he doesn't. If that's what you prefer, he's the one who f**ked up so pursue it. If you genuinely don't care about the purses but don't want him ripped off again, then make something up without revealing it's fake.

    But, of course, that's just me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by evan_essence View Post
    Well, I'm a bit puzzled why it's okay to fake him out with a fantasy about one's innocence but not okay to spare his feelings by making up a story to prevent him from being cheated again. Also, I don't think there's any possible way to communicate it's fake without also implying that you're disappointed it's fake, regardless of whether or not that's true. If he's as sweet as you say, you know darn well he will be embarassed enough to buy a replacement even if you insist he doesn't. If that's what you prefer, he's the one who f**ked up so pursue it. If you genuinely don't care about the purses but don't want him ripped off again, then make something up without revealing it's fake.

    But, of course, that's just me.

    -Ev

    He just assumed I was innocent. Even when he sees me doing bad things, he just gives me a shocked look, but still thinks I can do no wrong. The thing about it is, I actually care about the guy, and I treat him very nicely for all he does for me, like I bake him cupcakes, or deliver food randomly to his work, because I am greatfull for all he's done.
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    Quote Originally Posted by fancygirl View Post
    You could always go the route of saying:

    Hey-- I really like the purses you picked out. They aren't actually Coach, but I have the perfect outfit for them anyways. Thank you for the present.

    that way-- he knows, you're not critisizing, and he's forwarned.

    So I just called and told him this almost exactly. He did offer to buy me one but I did say no. He does want me to go to the mall with him and pick one out for my friend still. I still feel bad. He told me he felt like he let me down. I told him that I still think they are beautiful, but that he shouldn't get one for April from that lady, because the lady had lied to him, and the product wouldn't last very long.
    " Remember during each test there is some girl in Australia jealous of you who wants to do what you're doing."- Lilithmorrigan

    " If you're young and sexy, why not spend a few years
    Shopping and Fucking? Life is short, but youth is shorter. Ride the wheels off, I say." - FeministStripper

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