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    Argh I am so torn with a difficult decision. I have had a very tempting offer from a potential sugardaddy to be his sugarbaby/ girlfriend for $2500 a week. I'd probably see him once or twice a week and I know he will be expecting sex.
    Has anyone been in the situation or if not would you be tempted...would you do it? Essentially it would just be playing the role of a girlfriend and getting paid for it. Is that so bad? Maybe I'm just trying to convince myself.

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    That is a lot of money, so yeah, I'd imagine it would be tempting if I was a young, single gal (which I'm not). And, unless the guy is grotesque, I think most girls would be tempted. That's not to say everyone would do it, but it is worthy of consideration if sex isn't a big deal to you. Now, if he's wanting all kinds of freaky action or if he's 400 lbs. that's a different story. Hell, if he's decent you could try it out and get the dough for a couple of weeks, if nothing else.
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    I wouldn't have sex once or twice a week for that amount of money, noooo way! I have a couple of sugardaddies and just pretending to give a shit and talk to them on the phone somewhat regularly is a pain enough as it is!
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    Personally, I couldn't do it. But I am nobody to say what's right and wrong. I guess my advice would be that if you decide to do it, be really really protective of your health....and what if he starts trying shit that you are uncomfortable with? Who would stop him if it was just you and him alone? What if a condom broke? What if he's got an STD? What if he's a psycho and you cut him off from the sex, then what?

    Sorry to be gloom and doom , but remember that your health and safety are so so so important :p
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    He's married, right?

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    2500 for sex? Nope, I couldnt do it. If you think the price is right then theres nothing wrong with that. I mean you could go that route and make him get tested and use protection too. Otherwise, it wouldnt be wise to put yourself in a situation that makes you feel extremely uncomfortable. I mean we all are uncomfortable sometimes when dancing for that customer we dont like, but, to me sex is different.
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    yea, i thnk you know you are trying to convince yourself. i think details are needed for you to understand better. at least for *now* you can play the i dont jump into sex that quickly game, i need to be comfrotable, but that will only take you SO far when he wants sex, if he wants sex which it seems he hasn't clarified yet. I would try it out for a week, not having sex or anything, but see what he wants, what's the deal etc. that's a good beginning and if after a week you find it's not for you, im betting you can just tell him so. but to be sure, don't give him your address, or full name. you can always block his number if you need to, so i wouldnt worry about the psycho activity esp since sugardaddies like to be discreet and low-key.

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    I'd do it. that's a lot of money.

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    That is good money...you know its good money, I know it, hell we all know it. $2500 a week for pretending to like someone that you only possible have to sleep with, and only twice a week? Do it. Unless you have some moral qualm about it, why not? Who cares what other people think about it? (not you guys on here!!hehe) I say do it for a month or so, save that fucking money and then if you decide to keep doing it go for it if not stop there. That would be $10,000 for one month...thats a figure to chew on...

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    whenever I have had a SD, for around that amount it's been for company and the convenience of having an attractive lady friend for events, but not sex. I would do sexy things like model lingerie for him, or give back massages, or cook naked. So IMHO, up the ante by like $500 maybe, if there's gonna be sex.

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    i agree with candace...if you're going to do it, don't sell yourself short!

    the possibility of him having an STD would bother me A LOT. Then again, at $10,000 a month, I could pay off all my tuition AND be set for grad school in less than half a year. Holy shit.

    Is it possible for you to accept this arrangement on the condition that he gets tested for STDs? it IS a ton of $$. But I've seen people die from AIDS, and it scared the shit out of me. I won't sleep with anyone until they've been tested. A sugardaddy would be no exception.

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    It's a lot of money. I sure would be tempted. If I could see myself ever actually enjoying the guy's company and liking who he is, I might do it. But if he's just a nasty f*%@ then I'd definately say no.

    How do you feel about sex? Is it a loving act to be shared, or something that as long as it feels good you want it? Spending the evenings with him isn't the issue, everyone would be up to doing only that for 2500 a week. But how do you feel about the sex...?

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    I don't do married men unless the wife says, to my face, that it's okay. There's too much drama involved in an affair.

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    that would be very tempting.

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    I am sure you know more about him than we are assuming so then why wouldn't you do it ?? What is holding you back ? Do it , you can always back out right ? Its not like you are entering a legal contract with this guy , lol. I am not saying take advantage but tell him you are trying decide if it is right for you and that you may decide down the road that is it not you to be a kept women . 2500 a week is a hell of alot of money and might be even more than that depending on which part of the country you are in . Shit even Hef's girls only get 1000 a week !! Well they get to live in the mansion and all that comes with that , free cars and free clothes , make up .....free plastic surgury .......oh well you get my point !! You are a lucky girl sweetie , try it what have you got to lose ???
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    I have been in this situation. I had no qualms about it because I actually enjoyed being around this guy. It was fun being his play girl for a while because we did lot's of fun things together and I looked forward to spending time with him. I'm also very sexually adventurous so playing the role of sextoy was a huge turn on for me lol

    Here's what I suggest. Meet him for dinner and spend time with him OTC to see if you actually enjoy being around him. He may not be the most attractive guy but if he's super cool or fun to be with it can make up for his the lack of looks lol. Test the waters.....if you feel disgusted then don't force it cuz you'll only end up hating yourself for it.
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    I do it for 1000 w/o sex and 2,500 with if we agreed a max of 2x per week.

    Prostitutes here get paid $100 for dinner and about... mrr.. 200-300 for an hour of sex...

    So it seems more than fair to me.


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    I had a situation like this a couple months back. A regular asked me to accompany him on and off for a few weeks in a manner like your proposition. The only reason I accepted was because I felt very comfortable around this guy and was able to get a couple of his friends to reassure me he wasn't some sociopathic serial killer. He didn't pay me outright, but bought me several flattering gifts. I guess it was more of a romantic fantasy world for me than material goods.

    After about 3 weeks, I started to get uncomfortable with how far he was trying to bring me into his life. In short, once the fantasy faded away, I started to feel guilty, and called it off.

    My advice to you would be to accept if you are completely comfortable with the person and the situation. The money is very good, better than the value of what I got if you do it long enough. However, once the weight of leading a double life becomes to heavy, you have to know when to call it quits.

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    if i didn't have a BF, i would do it, with a couple of conditions:

    1) agree beforehand exactly how much & what kind of sex is expected from you
    2) that he get tested for EVERYTHING.

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    Is he yucky or what?

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    You're going to have to weight the pros and cons for yourself. IF he's nice and you are comfortable with it then go for it I would say....would it be sex all the time? would it be going on dates? is he married? is he attractive to you? etc......

    If you are not totally sure about it, then REALLY think it over before you decide anything. Be safe, both of you get tested and like spoiled said, discuss it until you're blue in the face if you have to about what the relationship would be about.

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    That is quite a lot, actually. It's a good deal. However, think about it this way - you are essentially selling your life for it. Being someone's girlfriend involves long hours and a lot of work. We normally don't think of it that way because being someone's girlfriend is something we do for fun and we enjoy the effort and the fruits. If you are not enjoying the efforts and fruits, they are long hours. If it was just having sex a couple times a week it would be way easier.

    Also consider that once you are addicted to the money, it could be upped to three times, four times, etc.
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    Also, would he "allow" you to dance still? Because if you danced maybe 2x per wk plus the $2500, you could end up with $3000-$3500 per week! I'd say give it a shot for a week or so, but remember what everyone has told you, you kinda have to be "on call", sort of like a 24/7 VIP experience, be there to answer the phone when he needs his ego stroked, be available to go out to dinner with him to be his arm candy, he there to have sex, etc.

    A friend of mine had a sugar daddy for 10 yrs and trust me, the sugar daddy would call several times a day. It was great for my friend when the sugar daddy lived in Australia and only had to see him a couple times a year. I think the best sugar daddy is someone who doesn't live in your state, someone who has to fly to come see you! Then you get paid to talk to them over the phone and see each other a few times a month.

    There are a couple of websites to find one too, like sugardaddie.com, saw it on the Dr.Phil show. lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876 View Post
    Also, would he "allow" you to dance still? Because if you danced maybe 2x per wk plus the $2500, you could end up with $3000-$3500 per week! I'd say give it a shot for a week or so, but remember what everyone has told you, you kinda have to be "on call", sort of like a 24/7 VIP experience, be there to answer the phone when he needs his ego stroked, be available to go out to dinner with him to be his arm candy, he there to have sex, etc.

    A friend of mine had a sugar daddy for 10 yrs and trust me, the sugar daddy would call several times a day. It was great for my friend when the sugar daddy lived in Australia and only had to see him a couple times a year. I think the best sugar daddy is someone who doesn't live in your state, someone who has to fly to come see you! Then you get paid to talk to them over the phone and see each other a few times a month.

    There are a couple of websites to find one too, like sugardaddie.com, saw it on the Dr.Phil show. lol

    i use to be a member or sugardaddie.com

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