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    So, I have a regular. He sits usually only with me and one other girl, whom I am friends with. He does not drop a ton of money, but definitely helps out on a slow night and is nice to sit and chat with, a low stress customer.

    Recently, he has developed feelings for me and has told me that he is unsure about what to do and doesn't know how to act. During this time period he has started to spend upwards of 3-400 a night on the other girl, when he has never spent that much on me. It bothers me a little, but only because of the money, not because I'm worried that he likes her more or something. I believe he is giving her this money because he knows she'll tell me how much he gave her and he wants to make me jealous. I'm happy for her to make the money, but I don't want to have him as a pseudo-enemy. He's been coming to our club forever, and I knew eventually he would grow tired of me as I am not full of drama and I have a boyfriend, but I don't want it to end badly.

    I feel like I should completely ignore him from here on out. Is that immature?

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    I would say hi to him, but not sit and talk with him at all. Don't be rude or ignore him, just don't pay him any mind and go about talking to other customers. I have actually had something like this happen to me, and I made a lot of money that night because I was so pissed off that it motivated me.

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    yea, i would be kind in saying hi like jenna stated. but if he sees he is NOT getting your attention doing this, it might help him spend on you. she should ask him to have you join them, if she's your friend/you two work together etc. but i agree, don't let it end badly. Let it motivate you to make more money from other guys.

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    Who cares. Let him spend the amount he's willing to spend on you, and the amount for the other girl. You can't make his decisions for him. Perhaps she provides more of a GFE for him, and he's willing to pay for that fantasy. Whereas you provide something else for him. The money isn't your until he hands it to you.

    Ignoring him or whatever is just starting drama. Go on about your business.

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    I'd nicely "dump him", just smile or say hi as you pass by but you're waaay too busy to hang out right now. He'll get the hint. I do think he is spending a lot of money on the other girl to get you jealous and I think this because you said he's never really spent that much in the past. Maybe too, he's trying to break out of him being your customer by not paying you, know what I mean? How we've all talked on here before about once you buy a dance and the person becomes a customer that it's hard to reverse that. Well, maybe that's what he's doing.

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    Hmm. I'd have to agree with Kat. Avoid the drama, and make your own money. The ball is in his court, but who cares? I'm sure he'll get the point; like you said, he knows you know how much she is making.

    oh, and I forgot to ask--do you have feelings for him? Or are you just mainly aggitated about the money? Curious :p
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    i'd be pissed! I'd cut him off, that's just added stress.

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    Quote Originally Posted by absolutbliss View Post
    Hmm. I'd have to agree with Kat. Avoid the drama, and make your own money. The ball is in his court, but who cares? I'm sure he'll get the point; like you said, he knows you know how much she is making.

    oh, and I forgot to ask--do you have feelings for him? Or are you just mainly aggitated about the money? Curious :p

    I have sat with him for long enough (6 months) that I am a little upset that he is just going to stop talking to me or whatever. In essence, I think he wanted me to sleep with him, and now that it has been a while and it is obvious that I am not going to, he is moving on to someone that he thinks might do it. My friend is not like that either though so he is out of luck. I am agitated by the way he is doing it. If he were to say "hey, I want someone who will give it up, so I am done with you", I would be shocked, but I would feel better overall.

    I know the next time he is in and he sits with my friend I am going to be movitvated to make a lot of money, and then he will spend more on her too, so we will both win. It is just frustrating right now.

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    Sounds like some pretty good customer shit to me. Perhaps he's getting something from her, that he wants from you, and he's trying to see if you'll pony up. Whatever it is. Perhaps he's trying to get you to see him OTC.

    Or perhaps she's just lying about what he gives her. Very common

    I'd just stop hanging out with him. Smile and greet him in passing, but don't spend ANY time unless he's paying again. And paying well. Spend your time selling other customers.

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    She's a good friend of mine, so I know she's being honest about what he gives her. The day after he told me that he doesn't want to sit with me, he came in. She told me that every time I walked past the table or went on stage he gave her more money. I told her she should have let me know and I would have walked by more often, haha.

    She gives him the illusion that more might happen down the road. I don't do that, because I'm too honest.

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