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    My bf's kids are fucking bratty.. they are the most disrespectful spoiled little brats i've ever been around... good thing they are only here two weekends out of the month... i think i would die... I guess thats what I signed up for when i met my man....

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    Can't blame the kids...blame the parents.

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    Yes, thats exactly what you signed up for... kids in a relationship. Sometimes the kids are super sweet yet in your case they are brats. Like VG said blame the parents. The kids are only a product of their environment and how their parents rasie them. This is why I opt not date guys with kids no matter how nice the kids are. Im no role model or mommy figure. Eeek instant family.
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    I can tell you right now, the kids are how they are because of their awful gold-digger mother.. she is a lazy chain-smoking white trash piece of shit. and all my bf can do is do be a great role model and do what he can the time that they spend with him...

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    heh...

    Been there, done that. Never again.

    My ex had two bratty kids, and it ended up being too much for me. He only had them two weekends a month but it was more than I could deal with. I didn't like the instant family bullshit.

    It isn't going to get better Good luck

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    Its really sad... My bf's ex-wife married this rich guy.. they live in a six bedroom mansion... they have plenty of money, she gets child support from her first husband, and tons from my bf.. She dresses the kids in hand me down rag clothes, the little girl's hair is always in knots, the boy wears flood pants... My bf has to properly show them how to take care of their hygene...The little girl has yellowish teeth (from lack of brushing) its disgusting how know one cares for them.... its disgusts me how ratty they look when they come to our apt for the weekend.. i have bought tons of clothes for them.. bc i refuse to be seen in public with messy looking, ratty haired kids...

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    Gross. I had a bf that had a kid who was SO fucked up because he was fucked up, his ex was fucked up, his entire family was FUCKED UP (and I'm not just talking the drugs, here). I will NEVER date a guy with a kid again. Plus you get attached to the kiddos and then it's an even harder break-up!
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    yeah the little girl was raped by her step-brother... its just all so disgusting and white trash.. i mean i love my bf but his kids are awful... i try not to let it bother me... i think i am going to be going on some weekend trips the kids are here.. i only dance during the week, so i couldn't fathom dancing weekends....

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    Quote Originally Posted by KamrynAnne View Post
    bc i refuse to be seen in public with messy looking, ratty haired kids...
    Thats great you bought clothes for them but geez give the kids a break. Its not their fault they have ratty hair and wear ill fitting clothes. Im the father (your bf) is trying the best he can those 2 weekends a month. If you cant accept a man AND his kids maybe you shouldnt be with this man.
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    He has repeatidly told the kid's mother to send them clothes that fit... she doesn't care.. we think she purposely finds the raggiest clothes to send over.... Its just frustrating to see kids like that who's mother doesn't care.. I try not to let it bother me sometimes, but this weekend was awful...

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    Quote Originally Posted by KamrynAnne View Post
    He has repeatidly told the kid's mother to send them clothes that fit... she doesn't care.. we think she purposely finds the raggiest clothes to send over.... Its just frustrating to see kids like that who's mother doesn't care.. I try not to let it bother me sometimes, but this weekend was awful...
    She does it on purpose. She WANTS you guys to be pulling out your hair, fighting and carrying on. I just would stop buying the kids new clothes. Oh, and I hope you dont send the new clothes back home with the mother right???

    Does your bf want the kids full time or is he only interested in the part-time basis..I would think documenting the kids looking like that would be a good thing to document.







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    Why do parents get so fucking petty that they start playing games with clothing? My step-monster, the mother of my little brother, does this shit. We buy him nice clothes and send him over there and he comes back in rags. And it's all just a game. What fucking piece of shit human being does a child that way?

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    yes he has taken pictures before of the kids nails, ears, and teeth... You would think they come from a poor background.. the mother spends all her child support money on herself, not on her children... No, my bf would never get full custody.. at one point he wanted to (before he met me), but the ex-wife refused.. she would rather have the money coming to her and suck it up having her kids all the time... I guess I'm being a little bit of a snob when i said the thing about being in public with ratty looking kids.... since its not my problem..
    Cin- your probably right about her purposely trying to do that so we get upset....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dottie Rebel View Post
    Why do parents get so fucking petty that they start playing games with clothing? My step-monster, the mother of my little brother, does this shit. We buy him nice clothes and send him over there and he comes back in rags. And it's all just a game. What fucking piece of shit human being does a child that way?
    cold hearted bitches to that kind of shit..... I have never met such a snake of a person in my life.....

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    Quote Originally Posted by KamrynAnne View Post
    yeah the little girl was raped by her step-brother... its just all so disgusting and white trash.. i mean i love my bf but his kids are awful... i try not to let it bother me... i think i am going to be going on some weekend trips the kids are here.. i only dance during the week, so i couldn't fathom dancing weekends....


    Well Kamryn, Is the step brother living with them now? The little girl being rape. Could be the reason, why she is acting the way she is. Did anyone report the rape, or did they keep it a secret? If the stepbrother is still in the house with her. The dad being dad has the right to call the police. Report the mother for knowing puting her child in danger. IF this mother is so bad. It will not be to hard to prove it. How are they spoil when they look like crap? If he such a good role model and loving dad. Why dont he fight for custody, and have that woman pay child support. Why let the children go thru life the way that they are!
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    Quote Originally Posted by KamrynAnne View Post
    yes he has taken pictures before of the kids nails, ears, and teeth... You would think they come from a poor background.. the mother spends all her child support money on herself, not on her children... No, my bf would never get full custody.. at one point he wanted to (before he met me), but the ex-wife refused.. she would rather have the money coming to her and suck it up having her kids all the time... I guess I'm being a little bit of a snob when i said the thing about being in public with ratty looking kids.... since its not my problem..
    Cin- your probably right about her purposely trying to do that so we get upset....

    Oh my I wish I Could remember the lawyer name in chicago that represent Fathers rights. Maybe he know a good lawyer in you area. I will look him up, and posted his name to when I find it!
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    Maybe you could also work with your man to promote a health role model?

    If the mother is not taking care of her children because of her selfishness, your man should take her back to court for custody. Take the pictures with you, and record anything else that could be used against her.

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    damn, some women ignore thier kids over a piece of cock. sounds like horrible parenting.

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    Imagine how the kids feel....



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    Quote Originally Posted by Sirona View Post
    Imagine how the kids feel....
    That's the problem. People are too busy looking at the kid's actions as something to be stopped. Not to be understood and concerned about.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KamrynAnne View Post
    My bf's kids are fucking bratty.. they are the most disrespectful spoiled little brats i've ever been around... good thing they are only here two weekends out of the month... i think i would die... I guess thats what I signed up for when i met my man....
    Yes, and I'll say this...if this is going to be an issue for you, bail out now, take my advice on this, seriously. Better for you, him, and them.

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    If your boyfriend is having problems getting custody, etc of his kids...send him to this website: http://dadshelpingdads.com/

    One of our friends started this organization (its still new, but beginning to grow quickly) to help other dads in the same situation (or similar sits) as he was. He's a great guy and after 4-5 long years, finally got his little boy.

    No child should be treated that way...and yes, if the step-brother still lives with them or has "open contact" with them (meaning he comes and stays over frequently) and its not been reported/taken care of...that is a big reason the dad SHOULD get custody and the mom should get some big fine/jail time. Also, documenting the children's poor care and the mom spending the CS money on herself...

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    oh damn, the girl is getting raped by her step brother too?

    how do you know this?

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    It happened once, this was two years ago... The step-brother comes to the mom's house when the kids are here at our place for weekends....

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