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    Why do I give my phone number to guys when I'm out downtown drunk? I have no intentions of seeing them, don't find them attractive, and am simply not interested.

    Now I have to ignore yet another rash of phone calls, or have to tell him to leave me alone. Then I'm sure I'll do it again. Doh, stupid!

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    If a cupcake was tossed at me... well, I'd only be upset if it missed my mouth

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    Have you considered asking for their phone number instead? Then you can just not call. So much easier.
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    Or get the net-zero voicemail phone. We had a thread about it a while back. I have a number, and it works like a charm!







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    I think I put his # in my phone, then he asked me to call him right away. The point is, I don't need or want another phone. I havn't used my business cell since I quit stripping. I think the solution is, gasp, not drinking, lol. But hey, the Christmas party was pretty fun......

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mia M
    If a cupcake was tossed at me... well, I'd only be upset if it missed my mouth

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    I say god bless women like you. Sometimes it's the only angle I got!

    *sends a thank you card to Jack Danniels.*
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    Heh, I do this a lot, too! I only do it when I'm alone, though (like, waiting for someone). If I'm with a group of friends, it's embarrassing to give numbers to random dweebs so I don't.
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    Maybe it's a fun powertrip when your DRUNK

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    Heh, I do this a lot, too! I only do it when I'm alone, though (like, waiting for someone). If I'm with a group of friends, it's embarrassing to give numbers to random dweebs so I don't.
    Ha! I was with a bunch of work friends, why didn't they stop me??? Oh wait, they were hammered too and trying to hail a cab. Xmas party fun!

    I wish I could remember if he was cute or not. I think he's too young though, 24 or so...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mia M
    If a cupcake was tossed at me... well, I'd only be upset if it missed my mouth

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    Looks like someone brought Kat her Sexy back
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    ^^^YEP!

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    I've done this, too. And my friend did it the last time I visited her. I told her to just answer the phone and told the guy she made a mistake, but she wouldn't do it and the dude ended up calling, like, 7 times.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus View Post
    Looks like someone brought Kat her Sexy back
    Thank god, the world wasn't feeling right.

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    Quote Originally Posted by wonderkitty View Post
    I've done this, too. And my friend did it the last time I visited her. I told her to just answer the phone and told the guy she made a mistake, but she wouldn't do it and the dude ended up calling, like, 7 times.
    But see, when THAT happens you're like... Wow, like, what if I actually LIKED that guy?! Ever watch a potentionaly god-awful relationship sail by and go "THANK GOD I MISSED THAT ONE!"? Heh.
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    When I've done this (just twice, but I'm sure it'll hapen again) I just answer the phone, and tell him I'm sorry for leading him on, but I was pretty drunk, and I'm not really interested in seeing him. If he pushes it, I say I have alot of issues from past relationships, and I'm pretty damaged.

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    Here in England on our main radio station theres a show with a dj called scott mills and he's set up a phoneline for this very purpose. Its called flirt divert and its the funniest section of the show. They give out the number that you can store in your phone and when somebody you're not interested in asks you for your number you use the flirt divert number. Its genius all these weirdos call it up and leave a voice message unaware its being broadcast over the radio. Its the most entertaining thing ever!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lola Rose View Post
    If he pushes it, I say I have alot of issues from past relationships, and I'm pretty damaged.
    As if that would slow down a randy guy in hot pursuit.

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    Here is a good one:

    Damit!!!! My twin sister got drunk again and gave out *my* number to every Tom, Dick, and Harry she could find!! F*** I'm going to fillet her, do you know how many guys have called me this morning!!! I've had calls since seven am!!! Just leave me alone or hell why don't I give you her number, (and give the number as the rejection line)....


    I find drunk people tend to either give their number out, or call everyone they know. Watch them beer goggles Kat, you might go home at 2 with a ten and wake up at 10 with a 2.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lola Rose View Post
    If he pushes it, I say I have alot of issues from past relationships, and I'm pretty damaged.
    Does that work? I'd wager it would not deter some people.
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    I do this too. Sometimes I'm not even drunk, I'm just too frusterated with other things that I just give it out without an excuse not to... this happens at school all the time.

    I ended up meeting some douch in the cafeteria one time, gave him my # only because he kept asking me out and I told him to give me his before he could ask for mine ( I was hoping he wouldn't) he said " now call me so I have yours", and he stood there untill I did it. Well, he calls non stop now, has fallowed me to class, waits outside my classrooms, and I have started having a police officer walk me to my car afetr school now. I was even twenty minutes late for a class one time, ran into him in the cafe, and it was obviouse I was in a rush, but he kept following me and talking to me. Arrgggg.
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    I'm a guy first off. It makes me soo upset when someone gets my number and they don't call me back or they give me theirs. When I don't like someone I'll just tell it to their face, women are more than capable of defending themselves today, why is it that most women just blow people off instead of confronting them?

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    Because a lot o fthe times a guy just doesn't take no for an answer. A lot of the times. Sometimes, your just to tired or irritated about other things to put up a fight. Almost every time I tell a guy I'm not interested they ask me why not, and then try to make another attempt. It's annoying. Just as annoying as a girl not calling you back...... and, why do guys always bother me when I stop to fill up my tank? I hate that the most, and it's always annoying thuggish guys that wont shut the hell up when I tell them no. I drive untill I'm about to run outta gas because of this. Just don't do it guys, just don't!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fawn View Post
    Because a lot o fthe times a guy just doesn't take no for an answer. A lot of the times. Sometimes, your just to tired or irritated about other things to put up a fight. Almost every time I tell a guy I'm not interested they ask me why not, and then try to make another attempt. It's annoying. Just as annoying as a girl not calling you back...... and, why do guys always bother me when I stop to fill up my tank? I hate that the most, and it's always annoying thuggish guys that wont shut the hell up when I tell them no. I drive untill I'm about to run outta gas because of this. Just don't do it guys, just don't!
    This is the very reason why I love that you cannot legally pump your own gas in NJ. What makes men think I want to be hit on at a gas pump? Next time they annoy you, just spray some gasoline "accidentally" on them. I'm sure they'll learn their lesson.
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    Quote Originally Posted by cherryripeboy View Post
    Watch them beer goggles Kat, you might go home at 2 with a ten and wake up at 10 with a 2.
    Oh boy, you DO NOT want to know what I did that very night! Bad kitty! I walked into our entire office meeting this morning with makeup on my neck from covering the hickey!

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    If a cupcake was tossed at me... well, I'd only be upset if it missed my mouth

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    I used to do this to back when I actually went out to bars. I for some reason have a horrible guilt complex and therefore it is impossible for me to reject anyone. I just can't do it. I wish I could be a bitch but for some reason I'm always super nice to everyone. I mean if someone walks into me-I will apologize! It's ridiculous. Guess I have some need to please....

    Maybe you just really get off on all the attention?

    Nothing wrong with that...

    BUT...

    You should just start giving out fake numbers instead, or even better, the number of an enemy. There's nothing worse than some annoying guy calling your phone all night when you're trying to relax...it's even worse if you actually pick up and have to have one of those awkward, polite rejection conversations. And even then they never seem to get it....


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    My present to you all:

    641-985-7888

    Have fun giving that out ladies!

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