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    ok girls does this happen to u?

    i finish a private dance and the customer is not buying a second one - cool but then they sit there and watch me get dressed again and keep chatting.
    then i continue to say thank-you i hope u enjoyed it, if u feel like another one later dont hesitate to come and find me again.
    but they still continue to sit there until i finish getting dressed so then i get up and bid them farewell and then they follow me!!!!!!!
    geez go away already!

    any ideas to combat them, u know after im done its on to the next customer i dont want them following me around trying to continue to talk to me.
    it happens with nearly every customer of mine too.
    they will follow me downstairs and try to buy me a drink - what do i do?

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    Urgh! i get this ALL THE TIME. And then I get the "here let me help you tie that, etc." Or follow me back to the table I'll pay you and have a drink with you". wtf!

    It's very annoying. Now when it's dead during the day, I don't mind it. And most day guys know we don't mind it IF there are no other custys around. But these jackasses that come in at night when we're jammed and pull that crap, that's another story....

    So sorry I can't give you any advice; I haven't found a way to deal with it, either
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    well at least i know im not the only one having this problem!
    it was happening on saturday and the club was packed - very very busy night and come on i mean time is money and im not there to make friends and get drunk!

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    You can just say, thank you soo much for the dance, but I have other people waiting to dance with me, so I gotta run, but I really enjoyed our time, and if Im not busy later, I will come back and we can chat for a bit.

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    Lol, you guys are funny. I am pretty sure they sit there because they think it would be rude to just walk off while we are still getting dressed. And because they enjoy our company! That is what they are there for, after all.
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    That's never happened to me probably because our club doesn't have a separate lapdance room, we dance either at their table, at the bar where they're sitting or in the VIP room. If I did work at the club like that I'd just say thank you, give them a hug and say, it was nice dancing for you & enjoyed your company but I gotta run because there's some other customers I promised I'd dance for them too. They'll get the hint. Maybe they feel like they're being a jerk if they just walk off in another direction, like the "No cuddling after sex type of thing". Who knows why men do what they do, the world may never know! lol

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    You guys! I am 99.9% sure that when they do this, it is for one reason: they are waiting for their hard-ons to subside! "Oh, hey . . . uhhhh . . . [tries to think of other things] . . . let me help you with that. [thinks about baseball statistics] So, yeah, thanks for the dance . . . . uhhhh . . . let me walk you out there."

    Even though stimulation is more than normal in a strip club, most guys still don't want to stroll on out into the public area pitching an obvious tent.
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    ^ ^ YUP! Here's what I do at the end of a VIP dance.....

    "Well...that was fun! Can you walk yet?" (answer) "OKay sweety, I enjoyed that, now I have to go freshen up! If I see you out there I'll come say hi in a few! Thank you!" (Kiss on the cheek and I'm gone!)

    This gives him time to relax and gives me my escape...because yes...they linger...and yes it's probably because they have a boner, or had a lot of fun...either way, everyone gets an out!




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    i always tell the guy to give me a hug, which gets them up off the seat and then say i'll come find them after i get dressed which hints for them to get the hell out and it usually works

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    This happens to meee toooo.

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    I actually like it when the guy stays to talk while I get dressed. I think its rude when the guy gets up n walks away. He sits and talks while you get dressed.. possible letting some 'excitment' settle then gets up n walks out of the VIP/Lapdance area with me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Lol, you guys are funny. I am pretty sure they sit there because they think it would be rude to just walk off while we are still getting dressed. And because they enjoy our company! That is what they are there for, after all.
    Yeah... I mean I don't sit around for more then a min or so just so they are dressed, but that seams so rude to just walk out while they are getting dressed...that yeah couldn't do that.....Id think the dances would think that would be rude as well I guess not....

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    Just say thanks, pat them on the arm or give them a hug, and say I've got to move on and make my money. Tell them you'll check back with them later if they want more dances.

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    i am soooooooo naive lol it did not even occur to me about the boner thing lol
    oops, well im going to let them sit there and let it subside while i dart off then!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Lol, you guys are funny. I am pretty sure they sit there because they think it would be rude to just walk off while we are still getting dressed. And because they enjoy our company! That is what they are there for, after all.
    Thats exctly what I was thinking!!!

    I don't really mind it, b/c the only dances we do in booths are vip rooms, so they've spent more then.

    But if they're really dawdling, I may say something cute and silly like, " are you sure you don't want another dance/ to spend more time with me here, I think your subconscious really doesn't want to leave" I've had guys say yes to this, so try it out.

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    Well,our dances are counted so I just say hat if he doesnt want another dane,we have to go or he'll be charged anyway....
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    I actually DID get charged for a second dance a time or two at this one club I used to work at. It was so annoying. One time in particular, this kinda weird guy got one single lapdance from me, then counted out 20 individual $1s! He lingered around and this caused the half-obnoxious bouncer to charge me for a second dance, even though I kept telling him that it was only one. And the bouncer knew that I was telling the truth, I think he just wanted extra money and knew I wouldn't bitch too much about it.

    At a few other clubs I've worked at, management isn't as anal about counting dances. At one club, the couchroom guy sat in a corner of the couchroom and when you stood up, that signalled that you were done dancing so that he didn't overcharge you if the customer lingered around, took a long time counting his money, or if it took you a while to get dressed. At another club, customers prepaid for the dances and the couchroom guy put us on the honor code that we would pay him for the dances and redeem tickets at the end if we did any extra dances after the ones that the customer prepaid. I don't like when management is anal...it seems to hurt the "good girls"(like me) more than the bad ones sometimes.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Cally View Post
    I actually like it when the guy stays to talk while I get dressed. I think its rude when the guy gets up n walks away. He sits and talks while you get dressed.. possible letting some 'excitment' settle then gets up n walks out of the VIP/Lapdance area with me.
    Right. I usually prefer to part ways with the customer as soon as we exit the dance room, or when I walk them back to their seat. I think it's more polite on the dancer's end to rather than just shoo them off, it really boils down to showing your gratitude and manners even if you don't talk to them the rest of the night.

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