So I have an odd dilema and I wonder if it is just me or if other dancers have this same problem. Everytime I get hit on by a cute guy outside of work, I turn into this akward little dork and get all embarrased. At work I flaunt my shit around a freaking pole, grind on guys laps and flirt shamelessly no matter if they are smoking hot or butt ass ugly. I dont have any problem chatting up complete strangesr, whom I find attractive, so why do I when I am clothed? I completely "get" the whole stripper persona thing, at work its not the real me its just a show, but I am NOT a shy person at all. It almost seems like I am more like "me" at work around guys than I am in real life situations around cute boys. Does this happen to any of you, or am I just wierd? Now in responding take into consideration as I previously stated, I am NOT a shy person in the least bit...not even kinda. Thats why its so wierd. Feedback would be perfection. (Feedback would be perfection?) haha My daily spin on a "Friends" quote. Sorry.



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You are merely guarding yourself emotionally. Totally natural.


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