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    So I have an odd dilema and I wonder if it is just me or if other dancers have this same problem. Everytime I get hit on by a cute guy outside of work, I turn into this akward little dork and get all embarrased. At work I flaunt my shit around a freaking pole, grind on guys laps and flirt shamelessly no matter if they are smoking hot or butt ass ugly. I dont have any problem chatting up complete strangesr, whom I find attractive, so why do I when I am clothed? I completely "get" the whole stripper persona thing, at work its not the real me its just a show, but I am NOT a shy person at all. It almost seems like I am more like "me" at work around guys than I am in real life situations around cute boys. Does this happen to any of you, or am I just wierd? Now in responding take into consideration as I previously stated, I am NOT a shy person in the least bit...not even kinda. Thats why its so wierd. Feedback would be perfection. (Feedback would be perfection?) haha My daily spin on a "Friends" quote. Sorry.

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    Maybe because chances are the guys in the club will never get to see you outside of the club, and you are the hot stripper controlling there fantasies.

    As opposed to a normal chick OTC that doesn't have the "stripper confidence" because there's a chance he'll see you again.

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    Maybe you're able to have confidence because the men are paying, and begging for your attention, but with an outside guy, you'll actually have to work for his appeal and have a good personality, etc, not just a nice body and face like in the club.

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    well, if I'm out at a club or bar (which I guess can kind of be a substitute for the club), I'm my stripper self. When I'm at school, I'm usually shy. I think it depends on my mood at that moment, though.

    Maybe you just feel out of your element?
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    ooooooo, that's and easy one. When you are working a rejection by a customer is only a loss of money. IRL, a potential relationship with someone carries a lot more potential for being a life altering expierence. Anyone would be more nervous about meeting a potential mate than merely a potential client. You are merely guarding yourself emotionally. Totally natural.


    Promote yourself and earn more money! This is a business that is owned by strippers for strippers. Let's make that money!


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    Paris is wise.

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    Paris is wise...

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    Paris has boobs...
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mastridonicus View Post
    Paris has boobs...


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