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    Okay, so he's been calling.... for months. He wants me back. I dont' want HIM back. Whatever, that's not so much the point... He knows I was dating this guy and the guy ended up not wanting a relationship. That sucked. First time it ever happened to me, but I will deal with it, right? My ex wants me to hate this guy/never talk to him again/anything remotely like that. So, I'm on the phone with my ex tonight telling him that I don't want to see him tonight. THat I'm tired and I just want to go to bed. He pushes for info on the guy. I tell him he doesn't want to know. He keeps pushing. I'm like, whatever. Fine, and I tell him (which is basically nothing that exciting). So, his next plan of action? Make me feel like fucking ASS about myself! Apparently, he'd (the ex) been dating this OTHER girl in the first few (read:6) months of our relationship that he decided to "be honest" about tonight. Why tonight? Well, because he's fucking STUPID! Then he tells me that I should have been happy that he accepted me even though I was a stripper and that I should get back with him because no decent guy would want to date a stripper. When I ask why he would date someone else while he's starting a relationship, he said he didn't want to lose me. (GAH!) So, he was seeing this fucking bitch who was making my life hell at the time (apparently, she wasn't as crazy as I thought.... he was putting her up to it in a roundabout way) because she was "cute" and he thought her parents had more money than mine! GOD! I'm so upset, I'm shaking! He told me that by "the way that I was" I wouldn't find anything more than a fuck-buddy. Okay, so yea... I probably dont' have to tell you guys what the actual relationship was like... But I got out. But now my self-esteem is in TATTERS!

    I just needed to vent.
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    I'm so sorry you live across the damn country. I'd be more than happy to inflict my patented non-removable tuna stank upon that asshole's car (I just love hard-to-prove irreversible vandalism).

    The guy's a jackass and you know it. Unfortunately, there's always a difference between knowing something and not letting jackasses effect your self esteem. So I feel for ya and I hope it gets better soon.

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    is this the same guy in the corvette forum?


    hes a big steamy pile of shit. Tell him you can/have and will continue to do a lot better then him even though "gasp" you are a stripper.


    and don't talk to him after that.

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    oh and if it is the same guy YOU CAN DO SO MUCH BETTER. he wasn't even great looking to me.

    Your hot

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    Cut all ties.
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    Tampa, yes. The same dude! I feel better about myself this morning... and he's still an asshole. God, what a jerk! It just blows me away that he was doing shit like that and going through my email account (and insisting that he had the right to) and calling my ex bf at the same time! The amount of bullshit I went through with that crazy chick talking such shit on me and pulling all those "stunts" to "steal my boyfriend".... It was just him hanging out with her when he got mad at me and talking shit on ME! Then, he got over it and went over to MY house. No WONDER she was psycho (I mean, she already kind of is... that shit pushed her over the edge, I'm sure). Oh, and that bullshit party that I couldn't go do (ends up she was there and spent the night in his bed).

    Seriously, with the men I've come across in my life, it's really really really really hard not to just throw up my hands and go "all men are assholes"!

    Okay, I"m upsetting myself again.
    Last edited by Bella21; 12-07-2006 at 09:20 AM.
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    dating this OTHER girl in the first few (read:6) months of our relationship that he decided to "be honest" about tonight. Why tonight? Well, because he's fucking STUPID! Then he tells me that I should have been happy that he accepted me even though I was a stripper and that I should get back with him because no decent guy would want to date a stripper.
    Wow...this guy must be winner of the Exlax Smooth Moves Award for 2006.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    Okay, so he's been calling.... for months. He wants me back. I dont' want HIM back. Whatever, that's not so much the point...
    Seriously, does this guy have a vagina or something? What a bitch, you should slap the shit out of him and castrate him, he doesn't deserve a penis

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    there are better men out there when you stop wasting your time with losers like that!!!

    Look for warning signs next time! You deserve so much better!

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    Quote Originally Posted by A1D5F4C70RY View Post
    Seriously, does this guy have a vagina or something? What a bitch, you should slap the shit out of him and castrate him, he doesn't deserve a penis
    YES

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    After all hes done to you and now this. This guy is just pissed because he cant have you. Really Bella dont answer the phone or even acknowledge that he is around. Hes a fucking asshole who feels the need to put others down and put himself up all for something he seriously lacks: self esteem. Dont let him drag you down too hun. Rawr Im a raging bitch right now... I have cramps.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter View Post


    Want me to set his penis on fire for you?
    This is still my favorite suggestion thus far... LOL

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    Then he tells me that I should have been happy that he accepted me even though I was a stripper and that I should get back with him because no decent guy would want to date a stripper.
    Yeah, that's why eight bazillion guys ask you out both inside and outside the club every single day. They are so totally uninterested in you.

    Oh, BTW, what the hell would this brainless, manipulative asshat know about being a "decent guy," anyway? A cheating, sneaky, deceptive liar does not a "decent" guy make.

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    Kicking ass gets you in legal trouble, unfortunately. So we won't go there.
    But beyond nut-bashing, I'm here for whatever you need!

    Tell him to fuck off. Don't listen to him. He chose you because you are an awesome person (not to mention totally HOT!) and ultimately found out that you are too good for him. Now he's bitter and just looking to hurt you. So laugh in his face and slam the door on his ass.

    Then go have some vodka and .

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner View Post
    Yeah, that's why eight bazillion guys ask you out both inside and outside the club every single day. They are so totally uninterested in you.

    Oh, BTW, what the hell would this brainless, manipulative asshat know about being a "decent guy," anyway? A cheating, sneaky, deceptive liar does not a "decent" guy make.
    Well said. I second this.

    Block him on all computer communications, change your numbers, and just stay away.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter View Post


    Want me to set his penis on fire for you?
    You know, Paige, there are actually some guys who really don't enjoy that sort of thing.
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    Aiy. All of the above. Esp what The Other Owner said. He is just trying to make you feel bad b/c you left his sorry ass. Go forward and don't look back. They're ex's for a reason. Bastage. May his appendage wither and fall off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner View Post
    A cheating, sneaky, deceptive liar does not a "decent" guy make.
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    Next time he calls, just tell him "You are so...unimportant." Then hang up and never speak to him again. The two worst things you can do to a man? Disregard and then ignore him.

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    I haven't talked to him since. He still calls... actually showed up at my place recently. I was hungover and didn't answer the door... Can't say I would have answered it anyways. It just pisses me off that he can't respect my feelings on this issue.
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    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner View Post
    Yeah, that's why eight bazillion guys ask you out both inside and outside the club every single day. They are so totally uninterested in you.

    Oh, BTW, what the hell would this brainless, manipulative asshat know about being a "decent guy," anyway? A cheating, sneaky, deceptive liar does not a "decent" guy make.
    Totally.

    Bella, You're a beautiful & lovely woman who is deserving of love and respect. This guy is taking the negativity that resides within him and imposing it on you. Cut all ties & don't talk to him anymore. Ignore him. You deserve way better than how this douchebag is treating you. Don't let him drag you down. You're way better than that.
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    He blew any chance of getting your respect so the Hell with him dont have anything to do with him from here on out. Dont even give him the pleasure of speaking with you because you deserve much better then this or any like him .

    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    I haven't talked to him since. He still calls... actually showed up at my place recently. I was hungover and didn't answer the door... Can't say I would have answered it anyways. It just pisses me off that he can't respect my feelings on this issue.

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    If he shows up again, I`d tell him to leave or you`ll call the cops.
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    I'm sorry you're going through this, hon.

    UGH.

    *HUGS*

    Anyone that makes you feel bad about your job- because stripping is a JOB- is a fucking asshole. He doesn't pay your bills- YOU DO. He doesn't own you. He's not entitled to you or anyone else. The shit that came out his mouth tells a lot about him (fucking lowlife patronizing twit asshole) more than it does anything about you.

    So, he's essentially telling you to settle for him (aka crap) because you won't be able to find a man that can accept/respect you? Tell him to take his medical ass out of your life and go fuck himself. Being single isn't the worst thing that could happen to a person- being stucking with a pricknitwit that's a waste of oxygen is far, far worse.

    Keep your head up, girl. Shit that comes out of the mouth of shit is still shit.

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