I am so sick of the bullshit that people attribute to dancing...
Heres the deal. I go out with friends, we meet up with some of their friends whom I dont really know to well, and they spend half the night talking to me about dancing. If it were girls I could understamd, I think most girls who dont dance are naturally curious about it...But I am talking about guys. They will ask me all these retarded questions and then expect me to act all "girls gone wild", its just like the B.S. that I have to deal with at work. They think I am going to get all drunk and start dancing on the bar or give lapdances in the living room, snorting coke off of fake tits and making out with any other drunk girl in the vicinity. I AM SICK OF THE STEREOTYPES! I am THE most boring person in the world. IN THE WORLD!!! I do nothing in my free time besides watch tv and play online, lay around with my cats and play with my ferrets. On the rare occasion I do go out with friends, I feel like I have to go out with other dancers or I will be getting accosted all night by drunk men who think I am going to act or be certain way because I am a dancer. What sucks even more is that usually when I go out, if someone I dont know asks me what I do for a job I tell them I am a hostess or a waitress just so they wont be "on" me all night expecting somethng or thinking I am a easy piece of ass! I am by no means ashamed of what I do, but I also dont go around bragging about it strange men because I dont like the kind of attention I get from it.
Second part of the rant.
I have lost a couple close friends due to the fact that I started dancing, and they didnt "morally" agree with it...most of them are hypocrites themselves in their own little ways but thats another story. I want to know this. I had one friend named Jessica that I had been best buds with since we were 14 and we hung out all the time even after high school...every weekend we hung out, kicked back with some beers and got drunk and had a good time. I started dancing and I knew she didnt agree with it but it was my life not hers so we let it rest. Then one night she got drunk and preoceeded to tell me that she doesnt really feel like we can be friends anymore because of my dancing...WTF?!?! She says I am "too smart to be taking my clothes off for a living" she says I am wasting my life, and I am a dissapointment because she expected more out of me. She says since she graduated from college, got married and is planning a life and family that we arent going to have anything in common anymore and there is no point in continueing our friendship. Um, excuse me? We still had all the same things in common! Before I started dancing I was a troubleshooter for the Domino's Pizza company...um, so when I worked at Domino's we have things in common but when I am dancing we all of a sudden lost everything? NO. Just a bullshit excuse. So what the fuck? Why is it that I am suddenly having to defend myself to people I have know for 5-8 years just because I am a stripper? I have to convince you that I am not any different now that I am not flipping pizza's? Why should I have to do that? All my other friends know I am exactly the same as I was before dancing and I will continue to be the same for alot of my life, I am sure. I just dont understand why as soon as people find out youre a dancer, you have to defend yourself until youre blue in the face to prove that you are still a good person and not some morally bankrupt, drug addicted, homewrecker with a hard on for every man and his checkbook. GRRRRRRRR!!!!
OK I am now done. When I go postal and start shooting everyone who puts me down for dancing, bake me a cake with a nail file in it so I can escape...(dont wanna further the stripper stereotype)



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