my boyfriend said sex with me frustrates him because i can't orgasm from the inside, just clitorally. i've always been this way and he knew it going in to the relationship but he says he feels like a failure because i'm not satisfied. i've never led him to believe i wasn't satisfied and it makes me mad that he's telling me how i feel. i knew another girl once that couldn't orgasm at all, and it was like every guy she met thought he would be "THE ONE" to make it happen. they never did and i feel like maybe my boyfriend is thinking the same way. it's like, get over your ego, guy. its all about him. about his ego, and its not even about me. what the hell! now every time i want to get physical with him all i can think about is how dissappointed he'll be and then it's like i just feel bad and i can't be with him. I feel like the failure, and i didn't do anything wrong!
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my boyfriend said sex with me frustrates him because i can't orgasm from the inside, just clitorally. i've always been this way and he knew it going in to the relationship but he says he feels like a failure because i'm not satisfied. i've never led him to believe i wasn't satisfied and it makes me mad that he's telling me how i feel. i knew another girl once that couldn't orgasm at all, and it was like every guy she met thought he would be "THE ONE" to make it happen. they never did and i feel like maybe my boyfriend is thinking the same way. it's like, get over your ego, guy. its all about him. about his ego, and its not even about me. what the hell! now every time i want to get physical with him all i can think about is how dissappointed he'll be and then it's like i just feel bad and i can't be with him. I feel like the failure, and i didn't do anything wrong!
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tell your bf he can take you the way you are or hit the road. there are plenty of other guys out there.
He was also young. I bet your guy is too. After we broke up he asked why I never faked it. ha! Right. Because screw what's in it for me. All sex revolves around the penis and the delicate ego attached to it.
. so he's the shit right? then i came along and suddenly there's a challenge.
so it's like this huge ego buster.. he's not a jerk or anything, he doesn't act like he's the shit... he's really sweet and he always treats me like a queen, he just has a knack for saying really stupid things. i guess it's just a shock to him that i'm not like everyone else. surprise! but he knew that coming in, so i don't feel too bad about it. it just makes me sad that he thinks that way. it feels so self centered and thoughtless.


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