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    Default Juggling faves, when faves collide.

    I go to a few different clubs, and generally have a fave at each one.
    The biggest problem I run into is that a lot of girls don't stick to one club around here. Occasionally, my fave from one club goes to another club I go to, but I already have a fave there.
    I try to avoid these situations, but sometimes it is unavoidable. Sometimes, I'm visiting one girl, and the other girl shows up out of the blue. I hate to hurt someone's feelings, but I think the girl has to take some responsibility for an unexpected schedule change.
    For the most part, girls are pretty good with me in keeping me apprised of their schedules, via text message, email, etc.
    I don't want a girl to think I am just kicking her to the curb either. I can't really say I still lke you, but not as much as so and so. If you work when she's not here, or work at your other club, we can still get dances, etc.
    Some girls seem to pick up on things, and figure out their role in the pecking order and are at least tolerable of things, but some girls take it very badly, and we are unable to go back to our old friendly customer/dancer relationship.
    Just interested if anyone has any advice to smooth things over, or work things out gracefully.
    Thanks.

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    Chicks are possessive.

    Stripper management issues should be taken up here:



    I can guarantee you the answers will be a lot more entertaining!

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    When I wind up with two number ones in the same club on the same shift I look for a new club...
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    Unless prior arrangements were made...it's first come, first serve.
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    ^^ Yep, I agree.....as a dancer, lets say one of my regs is in the club, and when I show up he is with another girl (assuming this is a new club or an off night for me) well, so be it....it's her turn. Not every dancer is mature or rational about that...but that's the risk you take for enjoying all of our wonderful assets!




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    Default Re: Juggling faves, when faves collide.

    "oh I didn't know you were going to be here tonight. Sorry, I'm already on Gina's dance card. I'll be sure to get on YOUR dance card NEXT time."

    no hurt feelings at all though she might be a little bummed. Maybe send a tip her way via another girl when she's on stage.

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    Default Re: Juggling faves, when faves collide.

    One night I went into my favorite club and ran right into one of my favorites. After we sat down and started having some drinks I noticed that my 2 other faves were also working that night. I actually felt like I was cheating! I spent most of the night moving around trying to hide out from the other two. I didn't want to hurt their feelings or make them think l didn't like them anymore. I just happened to run into the one girl first. The only time I'd kick a girl to the curb is if she lies to me, scams me or feeds me a bunch of bull#$%@.

    Last week I went into my local club but my favorite girl is out of town until after New Years. I spent the entire night hanging out with the shot girl who is my favorite girls close friend. I would have felt guilty getting dances from the other girls. (Would have been cheaper though. Between her drinks, my drinks and all the shots we had and tips I gave her, I blew about $250.00.) Now, if I'm at another club, the guilt trip thing doesn't kick in and I'm free to enjoy myself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by radar View Post
    Just interested if anyone has any advice to smooth things over, or work things out gracefully.Thanks.
    ...obviously they are having stripper cat fights over you back in the dressing room. You better fork over a few thousand more to make 'em forgive your cheating ways.
    "Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by WiseGuy_TX View Post
    ...obviously they are having stripper cat fights over you back in the dressing room. You better fork over a few thousand more to make 'em forgive your cheating ways.
    Best for you if you do it at the same time too...

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    Actually, it was fun to watch two faves at my table at the same time. Within a minute or two they forgot all about me as their claws extended Priceless entertainment

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    i have a couple cusys who handle it this way...

    tell the girl you are not there to see at the time that you are there to see *insert dancer name*. let her know that you'll be there to see her on a future date and try to scedule a basic day with her. then, of course, tip her on stage or whatnot just to keep it polite. (iow, don't -completely- ignore her)

    any professional dancer should be totaly fine with that. i'd just be completely honest about it with them. you're not in commited a relationship with them, and they should actualy be thankful that you don't see it that way. a dancer should never think she "owns" a customer. however, if you want to keep her as a fave, it's in your best interest to be polite and honest about it (as i mentioned). if she has a fit about it, it's her problem and not yours.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny View Post
    any professional dancer should be totaly fine with that. i'd just be completely honest about it with them. you're not in commited a relationship with them, and they should actualy be thankful that you don't see it that way. a dancer should never think she "owns" a customer. however, if you want to keep her as a fave, it's in your best interest to be polite and honest about it (as i mentioned). if she has a fit about it, it's her problem and not yours.
    Penny maybe in a perfect world. But whos kidding who. Dancers view customers as property. And a big spending regular is prime real estate and worth fighting for. We custies see it all the time.

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    I have a black VIP Hustler card that's pretty much only useful for sliding in through the back VIP door. I can get up to VIP through a private, key-operated elevator ride with none of the dancers on three stages being able to see me. I figure I can at least sneak up on the cute waitress in her Christmas outfit, give her a hug while she gives me a quick kiss and I order my vodka martini (insert shaken, not stirred joke here) without being seen.

    This works for, uh, about 30 seconds. That's when the dancers spot me and come running over to give me a kiss, order our drinks and do our dances. I think this cat and mouse game just makes being treated like property even more enjoyable. It also obligates me to take care of each and every one of them, of course, which keeps the cycle in motion.

    The craziest case of "ownership" wasn't even a dancer, come to think of it -- it was this crazy 6' tall Hooters waitress who used to scream my name when I walked in the door and then charge across the length of the restaurant and actually jump into my arms. The first time this happened, I almost fell over laughing (not a good idea when you are holding her in your arms.) We eventually had so much fun with this little act that it became a tradition that even the tight-assed managers always allowed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    Penny maybe in a perfect world. But whos kidding who. Dancers view customers as property.
    not always. that's the same as us saying "all customers view girls as non human peices of meat"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny View Post
    not always. that's the same as us saying "all customers view girls as non human peices of meat"
    Penny, youre right. That was a generalization. I should have said "many dancers"

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    Yeah, I've got to go with Penny. Fighting over a regular is beneath my dignity. Would I be thrilled if a "regular" of mine moved on to another girl, or eschewed my company for someone else as long as she was there? Well, obviously not. But I would NEVER approach a guy - no matter how regular - who was sitting with another girl unless I was specifically invited over.
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    Yeah, this shit can definitely create some awkward moments. LOL

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    I've seen it work both ways, with a few actual fights breaking out.
    My old ATF always seemed like the shyest, mild-mannered girl you would hope to meet. Except when another dancer was approaching in on me. If a girl sat next to me, she would sit on my lap, and make a catty comment.
    I've had some club faves stay away when I had another girl sit next to me. I always tell them to come over, so I can make a graceful exit.
    Sometimes, a random girl just sits down next to me at the bar. If a girl asks if I mind she sit there, I say no, but make it clear that I'm there to see so and so, if she asks for a drink or dance. I figure the bar is free space, and often there are not other open seats available.
    I consider sitting at a table as more private. If a girl asks to sit, I tell her no, that I'm waiting for so and so to come back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner View Post
    I almost fell over laughing (not a good idea when you are holding her in your arms.)
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    Wow, I've never had fave's collide (meet yes, collide...not yet). I didn't even think they minded. (Don't jump on me for that comment.) I mean as a custie I don't mind that they got other regular's and if I get there while their with that reg. I'd rather they take care of them first and I'll either chill by myself, with a waitress, or another dancer. Now that I've seen some responses I gotta ask. Am I wrong? Is it wrong to get dances from 2 girls at one time? Is it really so bad having to share a piece of me.......at? J/K about that last part. I've always felt if I was honest about it there shouldn't be a problem and so far there hasn't. I don't wanna be a bad customer however. Is what I do bad etiquette? Should I just spend time with one girl at a time? I mean when there are more than one that I like up there?

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    Quote Originally Posted by doc-catfish View Post
    Unless prior arrangements were made...it's first come, first serve.
    exactly!!
    The other will just have to wait her turn at a different club or another day.

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    Speaking as someone that has multiple girls at any given club, i feel ya. I don't like the 'regular' thing. Get a girlfriend you don't have to pay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by tootsie View Post
    exactly!!
    The other will just have to wait her turn at a different club or another day.
    ...or approximately a half hour if the first girl drops the ball. God knows its happened.
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    I go to one club where I divide my time among three or four girls. I buy dances from all of them, we all sit at the same table and drink together, sometimes, if one is having a bad day her friends will ask me to buy a few extra dances with her instead of spending money on them (!!!!!!!)

    OTOH, a few years ago two favs of mine at another club who where,at one point, real good friends outside of the club wound up fighting in the dressing room over who i was sending more on and, eventually, the one who was losing in the LD tally called freekin' immigration on the other...go figure.
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    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    Actually, it was fun to watch two faves at my table at the same time. Within a minute or two they forgot all about me as their claws extended Priceless entertainment

    FBR
    One day the sc was short girls and the stage rotation was very short. My fav was cuddling up in my lap as usual but when she went on stage another fav would drop down in my lap, receiving scowls from the stage. Then when the other had to go on stage, plop into my lap the next would come. They literally were rotating and heavily molesting me while glaring at each other. It was total war, and I was the spoils.

    Priceless

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