I go to a few different clubs, and generally have a fave at each one.
The biggest problem I run into is that a lot of girls don't stick to one club around here. Occasionally, my fave from one club goes to another club I go to, but I already have a fave there.
I try to avoid these situations, but sometimes it is unavoidable. Sometimes, I'm visiting one girl, and the other girl shows up out of the blue. I hate to hurt someone's feelings, but I think the girl has to take some responsibility for an unexpected schedule change.
For the most part, girls are pretty good with me in keeping me apprised of their schedules, via text message, email, etc.
I don't want a girl to think I am just kicking her to the curb either. I can't really say I still lke you, but not as much as so and so. If you work when she's not here, or work at your other club, we can still get dances, etc.
Some girls seem to pick up on things, and figure out their role in the pecking order and are at least tolerable of things, but some girls take it very badly, and we are unable to go back to our old friendly customer/dancer relationship.
Just interested if anyone has any advice to smooth things over, or work things out gracefully.
Thanks.



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