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    I guess managers like bitches

    After the boy's company holiday party at Gameworks tonight, I wanted to check out another club in town as a possible place to work. So we headed on to do some boobie recon

    Watched the stage for a bit, checked out the club. Place was busy, people spending, looked like a place I could make money. So I decided to ask the manager when to come for audition. The doorgirl got him from the office, and when he walked up I got straight to the point. He asked what shift I was interested in - nights. "We're not hiring right now." Now, to insert a little horn-tooting here, I ain't no ugly bitch
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    I looked at manager with disdain and said, "too many girls?" "Yeah we've got too many girls on nights right now, but you could come in for days." [also I'd like to add that at least half the chics there were in the 5-7 stripper range - and only one stunner, so it couldn't have been that I'm not attractive enough] So I copped an attitude, leaned up to his ear and said, "doesn't LOOK like that many" and walked off with my nose in the air, not even listening as he tried to reply.

    Within 2 minutes he was at my seat asking if I'd danced before and where, and told me to come in tomorrow night. LOL!! I guess that means he likes bitches


    Moral of the story ladies: Don't get all mopey and tuck-tailed if a manager initially turns you down. Cop a little attitude (not too much, just enough to show you don't buckle to bullshit), and you get more of what you want.

    I sat there laughing for a good 5 minutes after that. Sometimes I still can't believe what it takes to get what I want.

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    I bet he really NEEDED someone like you dayshift so he tried that first..... then when you walked on the offer he thought he'd better try another route because he'd rather have another hottie on nights then lose the opportunity to have you in his club completely.
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    Maybe. When he came to my table he said he was really not hiring now, being holidays and all, and I can respect that. But he told me I could come in tomorrow or Monday after 6pm and bring my dancer license.


    Also, I always think that if they really NEED girls on dayshift then it's not worth my time. My current club does NOT pull that crap - they have plenty of girls at all times and they have a rockin dayshift as well as nights. This other club isn't one of the "big 3" in town, but I've always heard it has good steady business and I know that the setup of the facility is great. It's a pretty nice club too. From what I gathered, it has plenty of business and money potential. And a MUCH better vip deal than my current club.
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    That's how it is at a lot of clubs out here. They'll offer to hire you for day shift. Most girls will accept with the promise of moving to nights. Usually if a girls turns it down they'll still hire her if she's good looking enough otherwise they just consider it a little "weeding".

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    Three things, all of which I'm sure you are already aware of, but WTF...

    1) A lot of clubs are desperate for dayshift girls, especially attractive ones. So they will try to make you do it first, then give up and say 'Well, OK, I suppose we could make an exception and start you nights.' if it doesn't work.

    2) Ye olde power playe. Make the women submit to whatever bullshit you deem necessary to assure your mental and moral dominance over them. Making them work dayshift is but one of several variants, and/or groveling to work nights, with the occasional hint that an arrangement could be made if you are 'friendly'.

    3) I fucking forgot, I am so spacey from work tonight (a kickass but tiring night). Maybe I'll come back.

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    Of course! The most important of all, and most relevant to the OP.

    Attitude will get you everything and everywhere in this business. True of dancers, DJs, and managers. The most successful managers are usually, but not always, the biggest assholes. They like bitches, and bitches like them--or sometimes more accurately, fear and respect them. Some few women just give it right back, and are respected as exceptional by those managers with at least a small glimmer of intelligence.

    All that being said, my club supposedly makes every dancer work a dayshift for as long as they feel necessary to make sure they want to really hire them. I don't know if there are exceptions, or how many are made if so.


    But who cares--I think Bridgette would agree, as I recently posted in a Newbie thread, to succeed in this business long-term you have to be a woman of power.
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    Hehe. Yeah, my ability to turn on the bitch has gotten me my way more than a few times in this business. I could rattle off a list just off the top of my head.

    But my favorite has to be the time I (long story short) forgot my CDs on the way to work and I CAN'T work without my music (especially when I've just burned new songs). My car was in the shop so I was cabbing it ($40 one way). I was PMSing and had a bunch of other crap going on that was stressing me. I got to work and realized I'd forgotten my CDs and started storming out of the club like a ball of fire, and the manager stopped me to ask what was the matter. I must've looked like I was ready to kill somebody so he led me out the front door, where I proceeded to pitch a huge fit, threw my bag on the ground all dramatic, yelling and screaming that I'd forgotten my CDs and it was gonna cost me 80 fucken dollars to get them and my car was in the shop and, and, and.....so he signalled the private cab waiting across the street, paid the guy to bring me all the way back to get my CDs, and let me work for free that night. LOL

    When other girls have pitched fits like that I've watched him send them home for a week. ha


    Now I am not a drama queen and I don't go around pitching fits at work. That's the ONLY time I've done that in 4-5 years. But it's still kinda funny. The cab driver laughed about it too, said he got a good laugh at the way I threw the bag cuz he could tell it was heavy but I still managed to make a dramatic show of it. LOL

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    Damn.

    That's quite impressive. I have pulled this sort of thing off a couple of times, but it's a dangerous ploy, and at worse can get you arrested if things get out of hand. I used to have a vicious, even violent temper when things turned to shit--like payphones that ate my last quarter, lol...

    One time on a downtown Austin freeway, I got a guy to deliver some drawings that were just past deadline, after getting up from a motorcycle accident that should have killed me, and pitching such a fit. I was way more pissed the drawings would be late, than that I'd just escaped death or maiming. I've had three nasty ones but that was by far the scariest, if least injurious.

    But I digress, sorry, and stripclub managers are way harder to win over than innocent bystanders who stopped to see what happened to that crazy guy on the bike.

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    Thata girl B!! Hehehe, reminds me of that one place we were in NOLA. Whatshisname, Ricki I think, was about to not let us work there at all, then not that night. Somehow we stood our ground and ended up working! Now that place wasn't so great, but it was such an awesome feeling to go from rejection to adoration!

    You are the bomb diggitty girl!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bridgette View Post
    Hehe. Yeah, my ability to turn on the bitch has gotten me my way more than a few times in this business. I could rattle off a list just off the top of my head.

    But my favorite has to be the time I (long story short) forgot my CDs on the way to work and I CAN'T work without my music (especially when I've just burned new songs). My car was in the shop so I was cabbing it ($40 one way). I was PMSing and had a bunch of other crap going on that was stressing me. I got to work and realized I'd forgotten my CDs and started storming out of the club like a ball of fire, and the manager stopped me to ask what was the matter. I must've looked like I was ready to kill somebody so he led me out the front door, where I proceeded to pitch a huge fit, threw my bag on the ground all dramatic, yelling and screaming that I'd forgotten my CDs and it was gonna cost me 80 fucken dollars to get them and my car was in the shop and, and, and.....so he signalled the private cab waiting across the street, paid the guy to bring me all the way back to get my CDs, and let me work for free that night. LOL

    When other girls have pitched fits like that I've watched him send them home for a week. ha


    Now I am not a drama queen and I don't go around pitching fits at work. That's the ONLY time I've done that in 4-5 years. But it's still kinda funny. The cab driver laughed about it too, said he got a good laugh at the way I threw the bag cuz he could tell it was heavy but I still managed to make a dramatic show of it. LOL
    Damn, you must be REALLY hot to get away with that shit.

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    Bridgette is hot! I swear its the red hair. hehehe.

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    <perk> Red hair????

    B, you'll have to let me know where you went, I just adore red heads!




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