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    Last night, the owner of fave club invited me to the club Christmas party. She said they planned on a few friends, a few customers, and a select few dancers, at a nearby restaurant.
    I mentioned it to the ATF, who said she wasn't invited. Less than a ¹/² hour later, she said the owner called her aside and invited her. She seemed excited to hang out together OTC, and also suggested I meet her and 2 other dancers out clubbing in my town, (SC is over ¹/² hour away from me, and she is the same distance away in the opposite direction).
    While it seems like a no-brainer on one hand, I was wondering if I should not take it slower? I only met her 3 weeks ago, but I seemed to click with her personalitywise more than any other girl I have ever met.

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    She wants you to take her out and buy her drinks. Booze ain't cheap. But the fact that she's willing ot hang out with you OTC at least you know she doesn't find you abhorant and disguisting....

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    Default Re: Invited to club Xmas party.

    what kind of club christmas party invites customers and only a few dancers? That's the part that I find odd.

    Sounds like someone's personal party. I guess someone's gotta bring the party favors?

    You know, I've read your post a few times. What is the question? Should you hang out with your ATF OTC? isn't that the holy grail? What are you afraid of happening by "going too fast"?

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    Yeah - a club christmas party would normally include the staff, wouldn't it? And, it would normally be AT the club.
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    The party setup does seem odd to me. I would think that a lot of dancers would be PO'd to find out afterwards that they were not invited. Not sure what the reasoning is. A lot of girls are transient though, and not too many HG's perhaps?
    I'm somewhat gunshy of a dancer relationship OTC, due to a few bad experiences. One jealous ex vandalized my car, another ex sent me death threat emails, and another girl tried setting me up on a phony pregnancy. I am head over heels for this girl, and she does seems genuinely sweet and sincere.
    I guess the more I think of it, I will just take my chances, and hope for the best.

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    Well you don't have to jump in feet first. KISS. Keep It Simple Stupid

    If you want to go, GO. Just, don't read too deep into everything. Just Go and have a good time. If you begin to get uncomfortable, leave.

    I know we where chatting on this in the other thread, but I wanted to bring it back here.

    All I am saying is, you'll enjoy YOURSELF a lot more if you don't invest your money and time into what she's doing. Just invest in the enjoyment you're ALREADY getting out of it. If you want more, keep it simple, be direct about it. Get a direct answer. If it's good, GOOD. If it's bad, GOOD cause you don't have to worry and analyze everything.
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    ^^ I like this guy!
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    Quote Originally Posted by radar View Post
    One jealous ex vandalized my car, another ex sent me death threat emails, and another girl tried setting me up on a phony pregnancy.
    Maybe you should consider not dating.

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