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    Since I would like to do private shows without an agency, i was wondering what the level of contact (or lack of) should be. I understand we can make are own rules (kinda) but where is the line drawn? I've seen and heard of parties that ended in prostitution.
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    Errr, 'heard of'... it's always 'heard of'... has anyone ever SEEN it?! Really?!

    Anyway... I don't allow licking or genital contact... I only let them touch me when -I- want to be touched. I use a soap and sponge and they can wash me... etc... or random things like that.

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    I also agree. You are the one that must set the limits. I allow similiar to LM. I will allow them to smack my ass or feel me up when they rub moisturisor on my body or legs or ass or what have you however it is all very controlled contact IMO.

    Then again, I do private PARTIES where there is always a min. of 5 people (usually more) and my security is very close by.... and I get to smack the person (the victim/volunteer) if they touch where they aren't allowed etc and the audience loves it!!
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    I dont allow contact when I do private shows. Reason being was because I was usually alone in some strange dudes house. On occasion I MAY let them rub up and down my legs or back. But no lapdances, or boobie touching. If they want all that, then they need to "tip" you extra.







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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl View Post
    I also agree. You are the one that must set the limits. I allow similiar to LM. I will allow them to smack my ass or feel me up when they rub moisturisor on my body or legs or ass or what have you however it is all very controlled contact IMO.

    Then again, I do private PARTIES where there is always a min. of 5 people (usually more) and my security is very close by.... and I get to smack the person (the victim/volunteer) if they touch where they aren't allowed etc and the audience loves it!!
    When the guy attacked me in Toowoomba, I took his belt off and started beating him in the crotch with it after slapping him and making him bleed from kicking him in the chest.

    The audience cheered.



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    wow! they really cheered?
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    yes they did.... and i've done parties where I've removed the guy's belt or a friend of the "victim" has lent me his belt to spank the "victim" with... and then they started getting in on the action !! lol !! so violence being done on the "victim" (usually a birthday boy or buck) is actually quite readily cheered on here in australia .....

    granted, for legal reasons, i will hold back or let someone else (not me) hurt the victim thus the blame of the welts don't lye with me in the end as I didn't hurt him....


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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl View Post
    granted, for legal reasons, i will hold back or let someone else (not me) hurt the victim thus the blame of the welts don't lye with me in the end as I didn't hurt him....
    GCG, print up some release forms and make em sign them. Then you could join in the fun

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    Quote Originally Posted by Damia View Post
    wow! they really cheered?
    He attacked me.. the guys said they cheered because he deserved it... they even ADMITTED they paid me more up front ("for a raunchier show") in reality because they knew he'd touch me and wanted to compensate me more...wtf.


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    I think you should draw the line wherever you feel comfortable drawing it. There's plenty of precedent for a no-touching rule, so if that's what you would be happiest with, there's no reason not to go for it. If you do want to allow contact, but only in certain areas (eg no genital or breast contact), then that's also fine. Do what pleases YOU. If you're clear and firm about the rules, the customers will (mostly) accept them.

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    Default Re: deciding on contact

    lillith, that's really shitty they didn't give you a heads up. I've gotten heads up from guys throwing the show on who might be a problem.

    Also-- no matter what your typical boundaries, that will always change slightly from situation to situation. Thus, my rule:

    "No touching unless you are invited to do so"

    I also never allow them to touch my boobs or my crotch so I always tell them

    "No touching unless you are invited to do so, and that will never be to touch my private parts."

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