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    Hello

    Ok, what do you do when a guy sits next to you, tipping you on stage...but then they just starting talking to you, when your legs or spread or WHATEVER, bout "where ya from" "where do u go 2 school" and all. i had alot of guys today that i guess just wanted to talk to a naked chick.

    at my club, there are 4 stages, and you just go on a stage, and wait for a guy to come up to you and then start dancing for him. most of the time your on stage. if yer not on stage, then your either getting a private dance or selling drinks.

    SO - its nice when you know they start tipping me..then all of a sudden, they just start talking and stop tipping. Theyre wasting my time because another guy could come up and i could dance for him AND get tips. IT makes me mad because here i am naked, and he's just wasting my time talking my ear off when im suposed to be getting tips. I dont know to make it clear to them WITHOUT being really rude that im up here for tips, not for chat. chatting is for when he wants to buy me a drink or something. i cant really move on to the "next guy" because usually only one guy comes up to you at time so u can dance for him, know what i mean?

    Thanks for any tips!
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    Default Re: Stops tipping and starts chatting...

    I would tell the guy "hey lets finish this conversation at your tabel right after Im done with stage." Youre not asking and now youre telling them. Nodding your head yes and get up to move on.
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    Default Re: Stops tipping and starts chatting...

    something that really works for me is this line:

    "You are so cute, or smart, or witty, or nice, or interesting, (whatever you think will sound nice) but my manager gets really mad if he notices that I'm not dancing or only chatting while I'm on stage. If you want to, we can talk for a while when I get off. ok?"
    and just smile and try to sound as cute and nice as possible.

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    Agreed with the others - briefest possible answer to the first question then "thanks for the tip *smile* I'll come by when I'm finished here and we can talk more" *nodding head yes slightly at the same time* And get up and move away.

    This is apparently their way of getting free talk time without having to shell out for a drink. You have to take control of the situation so they know they don't get free chat at stage.

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    As you start to dance longer, it will get easier and easier taking control. It took me a while and I'm still not 100% there yet, just remember YOU are in control of all situations and includes the conversations. Be nice and polite but don't let them eat up your time because when they do that reduces your money!

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    thanks guys!
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