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    I hate nights like these-I've been going through a very rough patch lately and just went back to work this weekend after taking a couple of weeks off while working the occasional day. I normally leave the house around 7, but found myself finding excuses to do anything other than get ready for work and get my butt out of the house (surfing the net, wrapping Christmas presents, writing e-mails..)! I even went as far as taking a shower, fixing my hair and makeup, getting dressed just like usual, but when it came time to go, I would've ended up getting there at 9:30-so my justification was that I would get there so late it wouldn't really be worth it! And the thing I don't understand is that money is tight right now and I really needed to work! I think part of my problem is that I've been having relationship issues and have been pretty down, so its been hard for me to put on my happy/smiley/having a great time stripper persona when I just generally feel like shite because what is going on in my personal life and I can't seem to completely leave those feelings at home-you know what I mean? Has anyone else gone through this and have any advice/words of wisdom to share? Thanks, and *hugs* for any responses!

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    well hun all i can over is sympathy and a hug but unfortunately i don't have any wise words.
    i have been feeling like it's impossible to have that as u said happy stripper persona because im so upset on the inside over my dog who is very sick.
    when i was at work on friday night i spent most of the night sitting in the dressing room coz i just could not force myself to put on a happy face.
    every time i decided to go out and try to make some money i just got the feeling that i was going to burst into tears. like how can i act all happy and encourage customers to spend money on me coz they will have a good time when im fighting to hold back the tears.
    i regretted even going in on friday as i felt it was just a waste of time.
    i ended up making money only coz one of the other dancers who is really cool basically took me around with her and we did lots of doubles dances.
    i owe her big time, she really went out of her way to try to cheer me up and make sure i made some money.

    so i don't know what to tell you except offering my understanding to how u r feeling right now in regards to work. *big hug*

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    I hear you. I had a really rough week and then this monday I thought would be a fresh start. It sucked too, and I ended up crying, feeling that I'm not cut out for this (even though I've been making a good living at it for a year now) because I see every girl I work with promising guys they'll go home with them, etc.

    I wanted to just suck it up and go back in tonight, make money and get over it. Instead I went to the bar with friends and drank. I'm looking for an excuse to take a week off and possibly find a new club. Sometimes you just need a break or a change. But, if you really desperately need money, suck it up for a few days and make that cash, then decide what you should do before you get down again.

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    Awwww, Virgo! I know how you are feeling - sorta. I had a really really bad week last week and I just couldn't force myself to go in to work besides the one or two nights you saw me there. And today I realllly needed to go but I got really drunk last night like an idiot and felt really sick today. All I can say is that I have felt like this, too, and that next time I see you at work I'm going to give you a huge hug!!!!

    Also, if you ever need to vent, or talk, or need someone to tell you to go to work or something PM me and I'll give you my number.


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    AWWW... This must be contagious! I have been feeling all moody (Maybe due to my period, but Ill explain later) but I just dont have the drive, when I do talk, I dont ask for a dance, I just sit there and stare into space ;( Gah... i just bought my mother in-law a ticket to philipines, and I need to make $$ so I better snap out of it though! Tonight was not that bad, but I still found myself tearing up :-S
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    Awww-you girls are so sweet! Thanks for all the encouragement and kind words That's one of the reasons that I love coming here so much!

    *hurries up and packs bag for tonight*

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    I'ma be there, tonight, too, Virgo! I sha'll be your support system and you sha'll be mine! Just don't let me sit in the dressing room and smoke - I needa make up for some missed days. My minimum tonight is one million dollars. I even thought about going onstage...but.....

    nah.

    See you there, gorgeous!!!!! Wear your black boots!

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    I hear you, Virgo! When my husband and I are fighting, it's all but impossible for me to go to work. I guess I just need to learn to be a better actress.
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    Sadly this is why I drink 1/2 pint vodka/redbull before i go in! Im not falling over, but I am nice.

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    But Virgo you got a new BIG BEAUTIFUL PINK locker at work tonight to share with a lil PookaShell!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    *loves-her-new-locker-and-locker-mate*


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