I try and try to keep the conversation focused on the customer, but the guys always want to know about me. How old I am, where I live, how long I've been dancing, my real name, if I do anything else for a living, if I'm in school, what school I go to, if I have a boyfriend, etc. I have tried both tactics at handling this and so far they seem to have similar results. I don't tell them my real name, but I have answered some of those questions as vaguely as possible but they always want to know more. Some times I have gone in depth (not giving them information that they could use to find me or anything, but giving them a good idea of the type of person I am) and other times I have kept it flirty and ditzy, etc. Like I said, I have had similar luck with each, but it seems when I am more real, they always want dances and seem like they could become a regular (some have) but it takes much much longer to get the dances. The other way is much faster, but doesn't seem to work as much so it's like, when it DOES work it's more profitable, but since it doesn't work as often, I end up getting about the same amount of $ after talking to more guys. I was just wondering how most of you handled these situations. Do you ever tell them about your real life? Day job, school, family, etc? I hate the boyfriend questions because I don't want to lie and pretend he doesn't exist, but at the same time it helps the fantasty if they don't know or think I'm single. Sometimes I have fudged it a little and said that yes I'm seeing someone but it's not serious or I'm sort of involved or whatever I can say to make it seem like it's not really a big deal, because if I say I can't tell you that they always assume that I do have a boyfriend or husband and it's just as good as saying yes I do. I'm just not sure the best way to answer these questions...



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