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    UGH!

    the other day when i was working, i was doing a little "show" on stage for this guy who sat next to me and started tipping me. as soon as i started spreading my legs, these two old guys standed like RIGHT behind him - obviously to watch a free show. it was quite distracting, and probably annoyed my tipper so he said "thanks" and then left.

    i was pissed, and as i got off stage, i walked up to them, and said "so i see u enjoyed my show there. how bout some apperiation?" and i held out my garter. i said this nicely. he was japannese, and said he couldnt speak english. but how could someone go to a strip club, and not know the sign for "tip me" with the holding out of the garter?!!!

    he then started to ask me my name, and how old i was, etc. i then held out my garter one more time, and he did nothing. i just walked away and rolled my eyes.

    i guess i made a big deal of it. i was just pissed. sometimes guys do really annoying things yet i dont tell them off because i dont want to risk being perceived as a bitchy stripper.

    but its killing me, leaving all this "GRRR" towards these men inside me! i must let it out! i just dont know HOW! what do you do???? sometimes i juss wanna say a rude comeback just to make me feel better. maybe i can just say it quietly so nobody can over hear?

    UGH! thanks!
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    honestly windy, being a dancer, u have to let these kind of things go. shit like this is gonna happen every day you go to work. sure, this stuff pisses me off. but at the same time, i think to myself "i can let this petty shit go and find me a better customer who wants to spend money on me..." and walk away. let it go. u are better then that. look at the guy like hes stupid, go find a guy who wants to spend money, and enjoy the money. when u get home, dont think about the customers who made u mad that day, think of the customers who gave u money to spend! when a customer pisses u off, immediatly erase them from ur memory. thats how i handle it. good luck and hold ya head up!

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    Well, I can definitely understand your frustration, but I agree with LuckiCharm. The longer you dance, the more it will roll off like water, babe. I have those nights as well but my motto when I deal with custies like that is, "Aw, fuck that fool!" But you will have a night once in a blue where a drink :accidentally: falls in a very rude custy's lap. (I've seen a lot of girls do that one. Not my style, though.) Just think of it as a learning experience. You're gonna have balls of steel by the time you're done dancing.
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    Go out in the back lot, with a bouncer perhaps that will humor you, and scream.

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    It sucks but you're always going to get some really cheap pricks in there that will watch a free show and then not tip, it's just the way this business goes. Thankfully, not all customers are like that and don't ever let the ones fool you that they don't speak english, they knew damn well what you were saying! Think of it as this way, yeah, they may have gotten a quick, show, but it was not for them and they're not getting any shows that are for them, it was and all of them that night were all for someone else. They're such losers that they can't even get 1 show for themself, they have to steal the show from someone else. So walk away with that thinking, this show is not even for you, loser!!!

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    When this happens to me, I just gesture to them to move away whilst Im dancing. You can be friendly about it and sometimes people will appologise and / or tip you afterwards.

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    This stuff just happens. Being a stripper especially, but I worked at an italian restaurant before this and just about the same number of people pissed me off a day there as they do at work now that I'm dancing. People are just getting cheaper and don't realize that the reason they are enjoying themselves is because people are WORKING and should be PAID.

    Bah. People suck sometimes.

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    I know it sounds silly, but I ask the DJ to play we're not gonna take it, and then I abuse the hell outta the pole. I guess the adrenaline from pole tricks just makes me feel better.

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    I'd go to the DJ or other (male) staff nearby and make fun of him really loudly. Haha, but I'm junior high like that.

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    Default Re: How to let out anger...?

    There always will be someone who will piss you off on the job.While it's not great to keep the anger inside,but it's not that great to show it on the job either.Try to look at a situation like this with humor.Go tell someone about it and laugh.Laughig is better than being pissed and it won't ruin your mood for the night.

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    Heh, that's why there are SO many threads on here about guys who don't tip. It pisses me off, too.
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    Laughing about it does work. Another trick that I do, is to position myself so that only the customer that I am dancing for can see "the good parts". If you practice at home you can figure out how to do this!

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    thanks everyone!!!

    all of u had very good points. thanks!!!!
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    i love being percieved as a bitchy dancer but cheap asses. it's a perk to be smug and say you're not worth my time, loser. I enjoy it.

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    Maybe use it to upsell. If there's a guy who is tipping you, he's interested. So if he's becoming distracted by the looky-loos, you could lean in close and murmur, "Let's get away from all these prying eyes," or "I'm ready for a little private time, aren't you?" Add a nod toward the VIP and I bet he goes.

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