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    So.

    If you are a lesbian, or were a lesbian, would you tell this to your customers? Or would you just pretend to be straight? Or bi?

    I just wonder if you were to tell men you were a lesbian, if they would be turned off at the club because they think you are totally unobtainable--Like more so than if you were married.

    Or just not bring up sexuality at all...? But that seems hard to do in a totally sexual enviroment.

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    I'm bisexual anyway, but even if I wasn't, I would say I was at the club. They want to think they could do you, but they love the idea of you with other women too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    I'm bisexual anyway, but even if I wasn't, I would say I was at the club. They want to think they could do you, but they love the idea of you with other women too.
    Exactly what she said. I had one customer that was going to make me "work for my money" in a VIP, after I had sat with him for 30 min! GRRR! He wanted to me to tell him the best hookup story of me and another dancer at the club. Well, I've never mixed business with pleasure so I had to totally make up this girl, describe her what she looked like, tell him we started in the dressing room, then the cab, then the elevator at my apartment (I don't even have an elevator) and then my bedroom. I was pulling shit out of my a$$, so in case that ever happens, think of a good story or think of your fantasy and tell him that really happened, that's how I came up with that story at the spur of the moment and made it believable!

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    There was a lesbian I worked with. She said she didnt tell customers because she thought it might ruin the fantasy.
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    Yeah...I agree.
    Guys like to feel like you are into them. They don't want to feel like you are with them only because of the money. (They're so stupid)....so if you tell them that you are a lesbian, they will know that you are obviously not attracted to them and that the only reason you are sitting there with them is because of their $$$.
    I always say I am bi curious.... I tell them that I love to be with girls only because it is sexy and outrageous. And always make sure to tell them that you if you have to choose, you would pick a guy, specially if he is handsome and sexy just like "you"....
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    Ok, I would usually tell customers that I'm bi BUT I think it really depends on how the customer asks you and how his body language is. For example, I had a regular who asked me if I were interested in women. For some reason I told him, "well I tried it out once and it's just not for me, I love being with a man" and he just sighed relief. He then confided in me that he was glad that I wasn't into women because that would've been a turnoff to him.

    So again, I really do think it depends on the person.







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    I usually tell the "pesty" ones, that no I can't see you OTC because my "girlfriend" isn't into that. I am in fact straight as a pin, though I admit having a curiosity... mostly directed at Paige and Cally at the moment.

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    I am pansexual.. I used to tell men that but a rumour went around I liked to fuck pan handles... right.


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    ^^Wow, LM tell me you're joking.
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    No, apparently I'm inanimate-sexual. *eyeroll*


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    For a second i thought this thread was about my EX! Damn it.

    Bi-sexual i thought would turn many men on in the clubs. Although i don't remember saying i was (i am not) but thought they would be all curious and buy more...dunno.

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    Every lesbian I've worked with (that I know of) lied and said she was straight.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lilithmorrigan View Post
    I am pansexual.. I used to tell men that but a rumour went around I liked to fuck pan handles... right.
    So... how's that working out for you? Jk, jk
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    Quote Originally Posted by Classic'sMontana View Post
    I usually tell the "pesty" ones, that no I can't see you OTC because my "girlfriend" isn't into that. I am in fact straight as a pin, though I admit having a curiosity... mostly directed at Paige and Cally at the moment.
    Ay, the Paige part I will confess too.

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    heh and here i thought this was going to be a rant thread.

    bi for real but in the clubs it's whatever i think will get the men going more. if i think the girl girl thing will work then Emily is my girlfriend, and she's the "only one i will get naughty with" so that takes them out of the pic. plus she's only situationally bi; and the situation usually involves green.

    sometimes i have to be straight, if they are uber-conservative and then i have a very difficult time playing that off especially without spitting my liberal politickin in their faces.

    Love it!

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    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire View Post
    Ay, the Paige part I will confess too.
    Me tooo. But I'm not gonna lie. Throw Cally in too.

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    OK, Cally comes too, but only if she brings toys

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    I tell them whatever I think will make them spend money, the wild boys, I am Bi all the way, the conservative guy I am straight as an arrow, Lesbians...I am a full blown lez and only dance because it's such easy money and I can pay the high insurance on my 'family' truck! (I have had many lesbian custies becomes semi regular!)

    In real life I am basically a lesbian married to a wonderful man , but my real life never comes into the SC.




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    I'm bi with somewhat of a preference for men. I sometimes imply that i'm bi with a preference for women, because it actually seems to help guys identify with me -- part of it's because I'm such a tomboy, I do "one of the guys" attitude very well, so if I'm "one of the guys" socially BUT I have T&A and I'm sorta into them, then it's cool, and talking about my girl is less threatening to custies than me talking about my guy.

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    I like both natural genders. Yes, it helps to tell guys this at work
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    ^ On the other hand, it doesn't help to tell them I like even the 'unnatural' genders, like I really do. >_>


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    Oh god. I'd hate to dance if I were a lesbian. I've hooked up w girls playfully, and once had an all out 3some where everyone came for hours---yet still, giving girls lapdances at the club makes me all shaky for reasons I don't know--chemistry problems--I feel a sense of RELIEF going back to the boys, and that's weird. Not only would I never tell the men I was gay, I'd find it incredibly difficult to do this job, but hey that's just me.

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    Oh yea and I used to lie when they asked if I was into girls "hell no--strickly dickly baby" but of course as everyone knows, just say what they want to hear--and what they want to hear is exactly what leogirl said. I wonder if I could ever lie to women as good as ExoticEngineer does tho--hahahaha but I guess that's what makes lying to men so easy.

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    I probably wouldn't say you are a lesbian. Gives them no chance and kills the fantasy for a lot of guys. However most love to hear that you are Bi. They still have a chance in their twisted little minds this way. I'm straight, but always claim Bi in the club (except with some older custys). I can say "I can't date you I have a girlfriend." which leaves me unavailable, but doesn't piss them off (which saying I'm married, or don't date customers tends to do).

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    I think customers must already think I'm a lesbian (or have high hopes) at my club--My first night, I was asked on multiple occasions if I have a "Husband or a wife".

    Weird,

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