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    are all strippers bitches?

    So...I recently started working at this new club. The club is really nice and the girls are super hot. Most of them are really good looking. But, the only problem is that...they are rude, aggresive, and bitchy.

    Honestly, it's never been in my nature to be bossy or rude to other people. But I don't like it when people try to boss me around either. It really pisses me off and I don't move along with it.

    Let me tell you a couple of examples of what I'm talking about:

    1. There are two girls, who by the way, are always together and are "friends"
    A: Oh...I'm so tired....I woke up like at 9:00 am cause I had to go to class and
    I have a head ache.

    B: Oh, god damn it, would you just stop whining and bitching around, I'm
    honestly fed up with you. If you are that tired then get the hell out of here,
    go home and shut the fuck up!

    2. Another two girls....One of them is trying a new outfit on. It is a white one and she's wearing black shoes.

    A: I don't think you look nice with those shoes. Why don't you try white
    shoes?

    B: And I don't think you look nice with those 10 extra pounds you got in your
    ass, but I don't say anything, do I? If i want your advice I'll ask for it myself
    Until then shut up!

    3. I am talking to this guy, I ask him if he wants a lap dance and he says yes. I dance for him, and when I'm done I go to the dressing room to refresh my self. When I go back to the floor he tells me that this girl approached him and asked if he wanted a lap dance. He says no, and she gets mad and tells him: "I don't know why the hell you're spending money with that bitch. She's new and doesn't know what she's doing. You are obviously retarded if you choose her over me." (I'm not new! I'm new at the club but I've been dancing for almost 2 years now)

    Honestly, it makes me wonder...are all strippers like this? I know dancers can be a lot more aggressive than other girls....but I myself don't see me as someone bitchy. And I don't understand why these girls are like that.

    Do you think this kind of behavior is acceptable?
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    Well we know that all strippers arent bitchy. I mean, WE rock, right?


    Yer gonna get at least one, no matter where ya go and whatcha do.... some places just have more. Does it suck? Yes. Can it be changed? Prolly not, unless you have a really good cattle prod. As long as it isnt killin yer $$$, I say let it slide. Come here and tell us about it and we can all laugh at the bitches!
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    I've met a few girls like this at my club, but then again, I was a waitress at Johnny Carinos before this - and I met more than a few girls like this that worked with me there.

    Its more a question are all GIRLS bitches. Some are. And they definitely make it known!

    Sucks to them!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by PookaShell View Post
    I've met a few girls like this at my club, but then again, I was a waitress at Johnny Carinos before this - and I met more than a few girls like this that worked with me there.

    Its more a question are all GIRLS bitches. Some are. And they definitely make it known!

    Sucks to them!!

    I'm a sweetiepie and I'ma dancer.
    I see your point. I mean, we...girls...tend to act like princesses from time to time wich is cool. I can handle that. My best friend is really bossy and I constantly need to put her back in her place...lol...

    but never, in my entire life, have I ever met a group of girls like these ones...and they all happen to be dancers....

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    I think that they do it just to make themselves feel better. Point Blank

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    In some clubs it seems like the dynamic plays more to bitchiness among girls. Especially if it's a really competitive place (high money potential and/or too many girls) or one of those really small places where everybody knows a bit too much about each other.

    This is partly why I like bigger clubs where I can be more anonymous at work. Less of this type of bullshit to deal with.

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    More like they need an attitude adjustment.

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    Strippers are bitchy where competition is high/ money is tight. Strong correlation there.

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    Strippers are bitchy when they know you are prettier and sexier (and ESPECIALLY if you make more money) than they are. That is a proven fact.
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    Just shake it off, ignore them. Thats what I learned, sometimes theyre just bored and want to bully someone especially if theyve been working there a long time they get all territorial. And if they have their little group of friends its even worse...

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    Quote Originally Posted by scarlett_vancouver View Post
    Strippers are bitchy where competition is high/ money is tight. Strong correlation there.
    Yep that is my club to a tee.. the only time people are nice is when everyone is making money.... otherwise its super cut-throat!!

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    Yep, you are bound to find bitchy girls at any club you go to. Any place you put a bunch of women together (esp in competition) you are going to have catfights. My club isn't too bad, competition isn't too high, which I like. But there is always going to be something. Just do your own thing and ignore the drama.
    With all the stupid things guys will say, stay cool.

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    I recommend a book called Women's Inhumanity to Women by Phyllis Chesler. It will tell you why women are more prone to bitchiness and cattiness.

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    I envoke my right to be bitchy at any time I deem appropriate. At no time can you tell me I am being bitchy, unless I am being really bitchy, for you would be a royal bitch to not tell me.

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    I would have had a lot of trouble not laughing in the dressing room at that dialogue.

    The women can be like that at many clubs.. but then again, they can be like that at ANY job where there is competition over money/sales/clients/cute coworkers. So, any job, basically.

    I'm fortunate to work at a club where the cattiness is kept to a minimum.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Strippers are bitchy when they know you are prettier and sexier (and ESPECIALLY if you make more money) than they are. That is a proven fact.
    Bingo. Jealousy does weird things to people, but that's all people, not just strippers.

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    Wow, I can't believe she said that about you to a customer! What a DUMB bitch to act like a crazy jealous girlfriend! Like, that's going to make him want a dance from her... ever?!

    Some people are meaner than others... this goes for strippers as well. But yea, what andygirl and scarlett said.
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    They are definitely in the club.

    Another reason why I never really made "friends" at the club. Less drama, more money.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess View Post
    They are definitely in the club.

    Another reason why I never really made "friends" at the club. Less drama, more money.
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    Personally I also find that the less time the girls have to spend in the dressing room, the less bs you have to put up with.

    The stuff you do wind up hearing, just laugh at it, whether it's directed at you or not.

    And yeah, women can be INCREDIBLE bitches, worse to each other than men most of the time.

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    if youve been dancing 2 years , you have had to seen some of this somewhere along the lines.

    The nicer the club, the hotter the girls...the worse the attitudes get. The best way to avoid this damn near entirely is to stay out of the dressing room, the groups that sit together on the floor etc etc.

    Its not impossible and after you've been there a few months you can ease into knowing people.

    But they are probably acting like that to intimidate you. thats all they want. I can think of two girls I know that act like that at work, ONLY when other people are around. they do it as a way to show that their "bad"

    the shit is so fucking laughable.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Tart View Post
    The nicer the club, the hotter the girls...the worse the attitudes get. The best way to avoid this damn near entirely is to stay out of the dressing room, the groups that sit together on the floor etc etc.
    I beg to differ. The worse the clubs, the saggier the strippers, and the more jealous they are, the worst it'll get. I was a size 2, 20-year old cute Asian girl in a club famed for its retirement status. It was the club with lotsa sagging, lotsa stretch marks, a couple 40-year olds that used to have it but didn't know when to quit, a lot of so-so girls that couldn't quite make it in other clubs, and a few hot fresh 18-year olds who hadn't yet figured that they could make shitloads more money at a nicer club. I was eaten alive by the jealous bitches who were in their 20s-40s but still hadn't outgrown that middle school mentality.

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    Quote Originally Posted by scarlett_vancouver View Post
    Strippers are bitchy where competition is high/ money is tight. Strong correlation there.
    Very true.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Krazyjane View Post
    I beg to differ. The worse the clubs, the saggier the strippers, and the more jealous they are, the worst it'll get. I was a size 2, 20-year old cute Asian girl in a club famed for its retirement status. It was the club with lotsa sagging, lotsa stretch marks, a couple 40-year olds that used to have it but didn't know when to quit, a lot of so-so girls that couldn't quite make it in other clubs, and a few hot fresh 18-year olds who hadn't yet figured that they could make shitloads more money at a nicer club. I was eaten alive by the jealous bitches who were in their 20s-40s but still hadn't outgrown that middle school mentality.
    See now I work at a club like this, and lord knows my expiration date is way past, but we just love taking the new girls under our wings. No jealousy here and the girls that are bitchy get drummed out pretty quickly because we're all so close.

    The only time we don't like newbies is if they are coming in as a lark and not being serious. They're doing that now just to make Xmas money and taking it from the career strippers' pockets. That's a no no.

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    I agree about staying out of the dressing room. If you're on the floor doing your thing, it's a little easier to stay out of their drama. Another thing I was thinking about is how the management at your club deals with stuff like that. When I first started dancing the club I worked at didn't let any BS go on. If there was a problem between two girls it was going to be resolved with management. Once I moved to Nashville I saw that there are managers who won't resolve anything, they will let girls get into physical fights before they intervene. I hate that kind of person.

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