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    So as someone who has the lowest self esteem in the universe, haha:

    Would you rather be the beautiful girl at a low-class bar with sub par women?

    Or would you rather be the subpar girl in the highest class club in the city..?

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    Beautiful girl in the subpar club.

    ...but maybe it's because I could probably fight you for that lowest self esteem in the universe prize.

    Still, I'm not the prettiest girl where I am now, and I'm ok with that. (I've never danced somewhere where I was the prettiest, and that really doesn't bother me). But it would bother me to be SUBpar...I think it takes guts to be on the low-low end, or actually just personality and sales skillz, neither of which I am flush with unfortunately.

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    I like to be big fish in small pond now. I used to be obsessed with working at the biggest name clubs, and while I made great money there, I made better and more steady a lot of times in the smaller clubs where there were very busted girls.
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    Big fish in the small pond for me, too.
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    I'd rather be the sub par girl at a fancy club. Just because the clientele would be better off money-wise and I'm just not as good at relating with the blue collar guys. I think I'd make more money just by being around more money. There are always guys who are intimidated by girls who are too beautiful. So as the "sub par" girl, I'll get all those custys. Maybe I'll even make up for being the "sub par" girl by not being a bitch and then I'll bank. I think if I made lots of money I could handle the jolt to my ego, and even strive to get in better shape and look better from the experience.

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    Zabrina, you're right about that. I guess I wish I could have a white collar, little club ideally. Some blue collars are great, but the ones I've been running into lately have been a little rough for me. I like a little of both, I guess.
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    If I had really low self esteem, then I'd probably want to be the big fish in the little pond, however, since I do not have low self esteem, I consider myself to very confident (as I've gotten older-30-lol) I like being in a big classy club and prefer that type of clientele and atmosphere. Since this is my first club and starting out dancing at 30, I really don't have anything to compare to. If I had started out at 18, I would have been extremely intimidated by the big classy club and the smaller one would probably have suited me better back then.

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    Mmm...I work at a fancy club and am not the hottest shit there by any means, and it doesn't bother me or my money, as of yet. But it could be fun to be the star of a club, even if it was a little dumpy.

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    hmm...Ive been both. When I first started dancing, it was at this small, shitty hoel in the wall, where we had on the best night, 10 dancers, on the worst night, just me. But even when we had 10 dancers, I was the hottest one, and I was the biggest earner, and best hustler. I ran that club. All the reguals came in for me. Most nights, there was a line for me to go to VIp, and guys happily waited hours for me.
    Now Im in Vegas, and I am just another girl out of hundreds. I dont stand out, and Im not special. Im attrctive, but not the most attractive one in the club by far. This doesnt bother me. When I look back to my old club, and even when I was in VIP for 8 hours straight, that money doesnt come close to what i make out here in Vegas. Back in my old club, in a one hour room I made $100. the price was $200, and the club took half. so even if I had 8 hours striaght of VIP, I still walked with $800, before tipouts. In Vegas, you can make $800 in slightly over an hour, and very realiticially make that in one hour, if you are tipped well enough. That would never be possible in my small club.

    So my point is, Ive been in both spots, and I perfer being just another girl in a big club. The money is way better. The clientele is better. I dont have self esteem issues, so I dont care if Im the hottest girl or not, as long as I make my money.

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    Big fish in a small pond. I'm still not that comfy when I go to big clubs and I'm medium at best...something I want to work on.

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    Big fish in small pond...always. Just didn't like the high hustle factor at the big clubs and it messed with my game. Less hustle makes for a more relaxed me and means more money in my pocket.

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    kailynn, you can make 800 in slightly over an HOUR in vegas? wouldnt that be around 5,600 dollars, for a 8 hour shift...i dunno bout that...i havent worked at a club yet so i cant really say what i prefer, but I think starting out i'd probably want to be at a smaller club, as i have no self confindence in stripping for strangers and hustling. But then again, if your not with the best..how can you learn from them? hmm..ahah, this is an interesting thread,

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    ^^^ You're not in VIP the whole time sweetie... But if a guy keeps extending...

    I prefer to be a bif fish in a little pond, but unfortunately I find that the bigger wallets go to the bigger pond.... I follow the $$$

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    at the beginning of my dancing career I would have said big fish in a small pond because I was afraid to leave it.....but I make more at the big pond. So little fish is fine with me because I've realized I'm only in competition with myself. If I compare myself to other girls, I can always find something to fall short on.

    So ultimately, it's work and money rules.

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    Clarify:
    you can make 800 in slightly over an HOUR in vegas? wouldnt that be around 5,600 dollars, for a 8 hour shift...i dunno bout that
    yeah, a VIP room for an hour is $500 bucks, so in a about an hour and a half, you COULD make $800 bucks, well, would be $750.

    Theres no way you'd be in VIP for 8 hours straight, unless some kind of miracle happened. The longest I had a guy extend with me was to 4 hours.

    My point was that you had the POTENTIAL to make that in a large club, but in a smaller club, there is a ceiling to how much you could possibly make.

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    It honestly doesn't matter to me at all-if the $$'s good, I'm there! It would be fun to be number one though, but meh, here's to dreaming!!!!

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