And no, it doesn't bother me a bit. The thing that gets you confused, I think, is thinking that we are attaching emotions to our customers. We aren't. As long as I don't lie, cheat, steal, or do something that crosses my moral boundaries, I give myself a "check at the door" emotional inventory -- an d I leave it there. When I am at work, I am selling ideas to you. To be a good saleswoman, I can't have my own personal feelings tied up in it. So I can't really feel bad about anything I'm doing, because I've set up my boundaries and code of ethics before I hit the door, and after that, it's not emotional at all.
Personally, I provide great GFE. It's my knack, it's the something that I am really good at, the something that gets me lots of regulars. As such, it also gets me a ton of guys who can't seem to seperate the fantasy from the reality. I never lie to them about where things are going - they know upfront. Anything after that is their own issue - they are a big boy, and it really doesn't bother me if he has no money management skills. I can't afford to get all emotional, and be his mommy, or cut him off cause I think he might have too many feelings for me. It's my job, bottom line.
Besides, men who decide they love me is what keeps me driving a Lexus.
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