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    Default Convo before lapdance

    Okay, so the way I work is I sit down with a guy and get all of his general info like his name, where he's from, etc... so when the time comes to get a lapdance I don't really have much else to ask him, and the song before it is only halfway thru, I'm sitting on his lap in the booth waiting for the next song to start and I'm not sure what to talk about in that 2 minute period. Should I talk about how nice the lapdance is going to be or what?? I hate uncomfortable silences!!

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    I have had that problem, too. I usually wait until the song is almost finished (only works if you know the song, obviously, but at my club they play the same crap every night so I know how long pretty much every song is) before I ask. Within the last 30 seconds or so of the song. By the time you ask, goad (sp?) them into it if you have to, and get an affirmative the next one is about to start. I've become pretty skilled at timing it. If there are still a few seconds left I'll touch his arm a little bit and say something like, "You're in for a treat! I give great lap dances!" Cheesy, but it gets them excited and an excited customer is a good customer.

    Similarly, when that dance is close to being over I'll lean in a say, "Wasn't that a fun dance? I'm sure you're not ready for me to stop yet, right?" Usually get another dance that way too....
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    Default Re: Convo before lapdance

    the other night at work I plopped down on a guy and did the whole chit chat thing for a minute...then it just died. He only gave me one word answers and seemed really sort of shy...so instead of sitting in silence I started talking about how hot the girl on stage was, and how cute she was to me, etc...Seems weird to talk about another dancer with the guy you're trying to make money off of, but it seemed to relax him and he loosened up a bit after that.




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    Default Re: Convo before lapdance

    I like saying things like, "So have you ever had a lapdance here?" "What's your favorite thing about getting lapdances?" ("Oh yeah, my tits! Those are my favorite thing too!") "I love this song! What about you, are you into ___?" "Want to take your jacket off and get more comfortable?" This is also a good time to use assumptive statements like "I'm looking forward to doing these dances with you".

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