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    I've been to one of the strip clubs in our town a few times, and I became sort of friends with one of the girls there. She told me I had a great body and that I should come strip there. She told me just to come in any time and I could try it out. So, I went in yesterday, she brought me upstaires to get dressed up, and then I was up on the stage dancing. Quite horribly, in fact. However, I hardly had to dance at all because ALL the chairs in front of the stage were filled at all times. They usualyl do two songs there, and they extended it out to four songs and even after that there were still people waiiting. I made about $65 just for that one dance.

    The owner of the place wants me to come back and work there. Thing is, I have two kids. 23 months and 6 months. I am still breastfeeding the younger one. I love being with my kids, but I like to get out and enjoy myself, too. II keep going back and forth on whether I want to do this or not. My husband sais he'd like me to do it. I think he wants me to do it more than I do!

    My reason for doing it is that I think it's fun, the girls ther are really friendly and nice, and I want to save up some money to make a down payment for a house next year sometime. But I am really attatched to my kids, and sometimes my youngest won't take bottles.

    Also, I'm on this journaling site and when I made a post about what people would think if I became a stripper, some people commented that since I have kids I shouldn't do it. My kids are not old enough to even understand what I am doing. And why because I'm a mother I have to get a "real job" if my husband has a perfectly fine job of his own?

    I rambled. I'm sorry.

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    You can pump your milk, and try to ween your youngest to bottles. Just because you have kids, doesn't mean you can't strip...alot of girls I know and here have kids. Our job is never well recieved to the general public...we're a taboo job choice. I've always thought that the ones who are against are the ones who are jealous because they don't have the balls to do it themselves. I say go for it!

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    I think that now would be the perfect time for you to do this... your partner's support is probably a key factor, you've already seen you can make $$, finding decent coworkers is tough and it looks like you've already found your niche.... most importantly, your kids are an EXCELLENt age for you to strip.... if/when your baby starts to take bottles, then they will still be young enough to not HAVE to explain anything to them, nor hide it, nor make up excuses that older children will see through. There are many, many girls at my club with children... young ones, kids, even adolescents, and it seems as though the ones with the younger kids have an easier time explaining things... and aren't worried about their daughter's/son's friends coming into the club!!! (i've heard paranoia stories once kids reach 16/17). so i say hell yea, go for it!!!

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    go for it it sounds like both you and your partner are happy about you doing this.
    it's better for you to support your children and be able to provide for them than worrying about what other people on this journalism site think.
    dancing is not for everyone but a lot of women that i work with have children of varying ages from babies to 18 year old children.

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    you will have plenty of time to spend with your kids during the day, and at night you can get out *and* make money doing it. plus you see it can be a lot of fun, and who would pass up making money *while* having fun? if you try it, and decide it's not for you, at least you have tried it, whereas if you just guess about how you'll feel doing it, you will never really know. plus, what do you really have to lose? even if your kids were school-age, i know parents who drop their kids at the bus stop and then pick them up after school (sleep while they are there) and then work at night. more than enough time with the kids, more so than a lot of 9-5er working moms have. go for it girl!

    Love it!

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    You'll have more time with your kids when you do stripping...you should give it a shot and then decide afterwards

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    I think it is fantastic that you are liberated and open-minded enough to try stripping.If it feels "right", do it.Some people will agree with you others won't.There are plently of close-minded moralistic people in his world ready to ruin your day.I applaud you for taking that first step and think that it is just fantastic that your husband is supportive.So go for it.The is alot of money to be made the industry and i think you definetely have the looks to do well. Stripping will allow you to expand your personal horizons.You will meet alot of new and intersting people,make new friends,chat ,exchange ideas and grow as a person.You will become a more confided and assertive woman as a result.It sounds that both you and your husband are happy about so go for it!

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