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    Ok, before I get into this whole situation/story please let me say that I have never taken advantage of anyone before that were offering their money for friendship. I would never have a relationship for money and I just want some helpful pointers. I dont want to have to defend myself in this thread.

    I have a guy who has attached himself to me, giving me a serious amount of money in the club and wiring money to me when Im at home. He has offered to pay for my boob job and a new truck for me. He lives in the next state and is not a bad guy at all really.

    To be on the safe side he has my name and my cell number but doesnt know where I live (I know he could easily find out if he really wanted to, but I dont think he is that type of guy at all)

    Anyways, I just wanted to know if any of you have had this kind of customer relationship before and how did you keep them happy and content and keep the money coming without hurting their feelings or getting yourself into a situation you didnt want to be in.

    I go to school and have a lot of bills. So his money is being put to good use and I could really use a new truck. So its not like I am spending his cash on drugs or alcohol.

    Thanks for any help.
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    yes, i have had this kind of customer relationship. and i did just as you seem to be doing and we never were super alone OTC without being somewhere public like, for example, a mall. he wired me money when i wasnt working due to a broken foot, and he spends absurd amounts when he comes in for a few days from fla. it's not having a relationship for money, but look at it this way: he is seemingly not asking for more than you are willing to give, and he will probably give his money to someone if it's not you, so why not be the receiver?? once he does, if he ever does, ask for something you aren't ok with, be straight up and say something to the effect of, "We are friends so i am going to tell you how i feel and i know you'll be ok with it because i'm being honest, but i'm just not comfortable with [insert here]." if he is a good guy he will respect that and not push again, and will probably respect you more for being honest. you could even add something like, "thanks for being so udnerstanding, i was worried you wouldn't be but then i told myself how good you are at listening[/whatever fits] and i knew you'd respect my wishes and be a gentleman about this."

    only at one point did i feel in my situation that it wasn't ok to continue forth and keep taking his money, so i laid off calling him for a while and then things were ok again. it was because he was drunkenly saying things like how he knows we are meant for each other etc etc. and i finally told him it made me uncomfortable and he told me that he was glad i brought it up bc frankly it wasn't really true he just wanted to say those things to someone, anyone, and have it be recieved well and later realized it was foolish because it was simple projection. things are all smoothed over now, although he doesn't send me money anymore unless i ask.

    you may eventually have to work him a lil. oh, and get the truck in your name. no. matter. what. or. who. is. paying.

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    Eventually he'll likely want more, and that's when things will get messy. As long as you don't lead him on by telling him or acting like you feel things for him that you don't then enjoy it.

    I have a close friend who has had one client for years who has been very generous to her, giving her money to fix up her house, paid for trips for her and her boyfriend and all the boundaries have always been very clear and everyone seems happy. But that's very rare. It happens, but it's rare.
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    Hustle good and get what you can fast and make a dash unless you want this person as a regular custy



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    Go for it. I wish I had used my opportunities like this in the past much better than I did at the time...."Don't look a gift horse in the mouth."

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    I am in your same situation! I met a guy OTC at a nice bar who ended up being like that. He has taken me on countless trips in the past two months I have known him, and bought me a boob job, liposuction, a new car, tens of thousands of dollars in gifts, etc. Even though I told him up front I was not ready for a boyfriend, he tried to buy me. Now he is upset b/c I have not slept with him and dont want a relationship. He tried to put a guilt trip on me to sleep with him and I didnt and I am glad I didn't. Keep your morals when dealing with guys like this. Don't do anything you are not comfortable with. I was very upfront with him, but being the business man he is he tried to "close the deal" and sell me. Guys like this are used to getting what they want and if they think they can't get it, they will keep doing more and more, until they start to feel like you are using them, even if you never were. Be very careful! My advice to you is to be charming and everything else like a stripper, but be upfront. Do not lead him on or he will become hostile.

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    Quote Originally Posted by NinaDaisy View Post
    Eventually he'll likely want more, and that's when things will get messy. As long as you don't lead him on by telling him or acting like you feel things for him that you don't then enjoy it.
    This is true, I had a great customer who gave me $500 - $1,500 just to sit and talk with him, he never like to go to the private rooms so I spent hours sitting and talking and a dance here and there. He would always buy me gifts ( flowers, perfume, candy, teddy bear, etc. ) then he wanted to go out with me, then he started calling me everyday on my cell phone and this really started to upset my life so much that I didn't want to have anything to do with him. The problem was his friends got jealous said he should be getting some considering all the money he gave me. I told him I'm an entertainer and he paid me for my time and that I don't usually give out my phone number or get too personal meaning telling them about myself so they get to know me better. It got to the point where I had to cut him off. I suggest do what's in your best interest and goodluck.
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    Quote Originally Posted by SultryTemptress View Post
    It got to the point where I had to cut him off. I suggest do what's in your best interest and goodluck.
    Is that from telling your phone company not to put him through? Changing numbers or did you do it in person?

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    Ill tell you what... it is just exhausting trying to keep up the act while Im at home. When Im at home I want to be with my family and just be a person again. Attend school with just school in mind and not have to worry about the men at work.
    Generally I leave work at work.
    Talking to him everyday and texting back and forth all day and them the guilt trips if I miss replying to a text or cancel a hang out session.
    For gods sake he lives 3 hours away from me and it seems like he is smothering me to death.
    I cant complain about the money and hopefully the new truck and the boob job next month.... if I can keep it up.
    Wow, he really is getting on my nerves... hahaha

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    I think this sit-ee-ay-shun is only possible if you are single. My boyfriend is mad suspicious. Even though "it's for work" it is very hard for me to get beyond number swapping with anyone potentially fitting this description...

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    Wish I had one of those myself...lol Go for it but keep your eye open and always be safe no matter what.....
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    Sinful 333! Of course he want&#180;s something. Only you have to decide if you&#180;re going for it. BTW I was in SLC for 6 years and every day except Sundays in Trails and did something similar...the dancer from SLC visited me 3 times in the last 2 years over her in Southern Europe!

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    This sounds janky but it's best to get a pre-paid phone to talk to custys, it's safer just incase mr.nice guy turns into a wacko stalker! you'd be suprised...

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