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    Hello to all. Got a wierd question. My hubby has never been to a strip club in his entire life. Kinda led a sheltered life, and I'v been his only partner. He has expressed a want to go to one but just never went. I would like to take him but I'm not sure if it is really a good idea. Do a lot of couples go? Has anyone ever danced for a couple? Is it too wierd and am I better off letting him go by himself?

    Also we will be in the Orlando area on vacation for the 1st of the year and I was wondering if there were any nice stip clubs? If I do take him I want it to be a nice place. Not too high class but just a nice place. Any help will be greatly appriciated. Sorry for the noobness. You guys/gals have a great site.

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    Nice Orlando club: Rachel's on Orange Blossom Trail. Couple friendly.

    Couples come to strip clubs alot. Best word of advice: don't be jealous. The strippers don't want your man and whatever they do there is just part of the job. So if a stripper approaches and wants to dance for you / your man, don't sweat it. It's just what we do. We're not gonna do anything crazy and he's not gonna want to leave you for the stripper. He's not gonna expect you to look or act like the stripper either. He will feel the same for you after seeing strippers as he did before - maybe even better for being cool about the strip club thing for him.

    Many women come into the clubs with their husbands, wanting to 'see', and they get all jealous and make the whole thing uncomfortable for everybody. Please don't be one of those women.

    Enjoy it for what it is, and have fun. Maybe you'll get some hot sex out of the deal after

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    Default Re: Question about taking my husband a club

    thanks for the reply and I have to apologize cause I really shouldve searched, theres a million threads on this..sorry

    MissMack

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    Yeah but your question was slightly different than most the usual ones

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    Default Re: Question about taking my husband a club

    very good advise bridgette i wish we could have a sign up at my club saying conditions of entry for women:
    then put what you wrote.
    i don't mind cool women coming to the club but i hate jealous one's its pathetic. a SC is the least likely place that u have to watch you're man coz we aren't interested in customers in that way.

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    Hello MissMack
    I am a married male and I too had questions on this forum on that very subject. My wife and I go to Strip Clubs very often and throughly enjoy ourselves. Its a different atmosphere than a bar or the regular club scene.

    I honestly recommend Strip Clubs for any couple. But, as I have recently learned, you-the wife-must have an open mind. Understand that these clubs are geared towards men and the atmosphere in most clubs I have attended are testosterone havens. Guys go in there to let loose. BUT-that absolutly does not mean you cannot have a good time in there. In fact, if you have an honest and open relationship with your partner-you will have a blast and find yourself going more often.

    I think strip clubs is the perfect place for couples to either light the fire-or fuel one. If you are interested in making your mate squirm, have a private lapdance and instruct the dancer to focus on you only and have your hubby watch. You'll love the look he gives you back. The first time my wife did that for me-she said I was "beet-red" for a solid hour after it was over.

    Above all--keep an open mind around you try and enjoy yourself. If you want further advice-let me know.

    Check out this post:
    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=79109
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    What Bridgette said...
    People always ask me, did I ever learn anything when I was a stripper? Yeah, I did. One man plus two beers equals 20 dollars.
    -- Anna Nicole Smith

    Myspace is an obsession...much like Stripperweb...
    http://www.myspace.com/cameronkeys (real myspace)

    http://www.myspace.com/sexyhotdancer(work myspace)


    Just remember...if the world didn't suck, we'd all fall off.

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    Once again thanks for the replys. I'm not really the jealous type so I'm fine in that department. I just want us to have a good time. We've both never been so it will be a great experience. I like the idea of a private dance. I think that will take a lot of the nervousness out of the situtation. Just me my hubby and the dancer....

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    Have fun.
    Some dancers shy away from couples so you might have to "shop" around for the right one. Most often they won't come to you. I recommend having a seat-drink a few drinks and look around for one that suits you guys best (IE: energetic, flirt, Gothic, etc.) When you see one you like, you'll probably will have to walk up to her and ask for the private dance and describe to her what you want in that dance.
    Whats really great about this is what you mentioned about this being your first time. You guys will have a blast and your hubby may never be the same. Private dance is the best option for first timers. Your right-it does take the load off.

    Have a blast and write back. "Kiss-N-tell".
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    My husband and I go together once in a blue moon. Make sure you're both really comfortable about it beforehand and just enjoy yourself.

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    I believe that this illustrates the problem with wives in a club:

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M7hO7CQuTTQ
    "He will come in one of the pre-chosen forms. During the rectification of the Vuldrini, the traveler came as a large and moving Torg! Then, during the third reconciliation of the last of the McKetrick supplicants, they chose a new form for him: that of a giant Slor! Many Shuvs and Zuuls knew what it was to be roasted in the depths of the Slor that day, I can tell you!"

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    You say you have been his only partner. Are you prepared for him to get very curious? The SC environment may bring this out in him.
    I date strippers, especially if they love to model for me.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Star Player View Post
    You say you have been his only partner. Are you prepared for him to get very curious? The SC environment may bring this out in him.
    Not all guys are like that.
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    All good advice here.
    Quote Originally Posted by Picaresque View Post
    Maria Callas said it best: "When my critics stop hissing, I shall know I'm slipping."

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    Quote Originally Posted by Masscott View Post
    Not all guys are like that.
    Tell that to all the married guys lined up on Friday nites to get into Treasures (Houston SC known for extremely dark lap dance area and gals giving extras) after the wife has gone to sleep. Heck, the place is so jammed packed you can't even find a parking place. Bruce, a banker who lives near that area tells me "on Friday nites once Carrie has watched her soap and had some vodka, she passes out in the bedroom - I put the car in neutral with the engine off, let it cost out of the driveway and a when a safe distance hit the ignition and I am off to Treasures."
    I date strippers, especially if they love to model for me.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Star Player View Post
    Tell that to all the married guys lined up on Friday nites to get into Treasures (Houston SC known for extremely dark lap dance area and gals giving extras) after the wife has gone to sleep. Heck, the place is so jammed packed you can't even find a parking place. Bruce, a banker who lives near that area tells me "on Friday nites once Carrie has watched her soap and had some vodka, she passes out in the bedroom - I put the car in neutral with the engine off, let it cost out of the driveway and a when a safe distance hit the ignition and I am off to Treasures."
    ...Star_Player aka Derek, he's telling the truth to you. Many married bankers walk out of Treasures and other clubs in America without getting extras or wanting another partner.
    "Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."

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    Well I finally got around to taking him.

    He was very shy/nervous at first, but we bought a couple drinks and just relaxed a bit. After a while he decided to treat it like any other bar/club, but with women dancing. There was more couples than single guys in the place. We found a dancer that we liked and she danced for us for a while. Very pretty girl by the way. Anyway we only spent about 3hrs there mostly just talking with my husband. All and all we had a very good time, but we were kinda dissapointed. The only two problems were that I guess it was Orlando law but the women had wear nipple stickies and they didn't do lap dances. But we still had a good time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Star Player View Post
    You say you have been his only partner. Are you prepared for him to get very curious? The SC environment may bring this out in him.
    Yeah I am his first but I told him he can be as curious as he wants as long as it includes me. I'm pretty much down for anything sexual as long as we communicate and are happy.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissMack View Post
    Well I finally got around to taking him.

    He was very shy/nervous at first, but we bought a couple drinks and just relaxed a bit. After a while he decided to treat it like any other bar/club, but with women dancing. There was more couples than single guys in the place. We found a dancer that we liked and she danced for us for a while. Very pretty girl by the way. Anyway we only spent about 3hrs there mostly just talking with my husband. All and all we had a very good time, but we were kinda dissapointed. The only two problems were that I guess it was Orlando law but the women had wear nipple stickies and they didn't do lap dances. But we still had a good time.
    But you had a good time. Thats the important part.
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    **A Code of Honor: Never approach a friend's girlfriend or wife with mischief as your goal. There are just too many women in the world to justify that sort of dishonorable behavior. Unless she's really attractive.




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