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    Friday night, I had a few glasses of wine at work. This is not a big deal, because I can drink wine all night and still function. Funny thing is, the 3rd glass was sort of forced on my be a new regular. I didn't really want it, he just bought it for me. He had it waiting for me when I came out of the dressing room. (Yes, I know I should not have drunk it.)

    A little bit later, I was feeling pretty buzzed. Then I got ripped off for a couple of dances. The dollar amount was only like $20. I had done four dances for him ($10 each) and he tried to pay me only $20. It is against club rules to stack up dances like that; we are supposed to collect after every dance. I know that, but of course it's easier to sell multiple dances when you don't have to break the spell after every dance. We all stack up the dances and collect at the end, and when we get ripped off we all know to keep our mouths shut.

    So I normally would have taken it at a loss and walked away, but for some reason I went ballistic. I was screaming at the customer and scratching him and actually dug my nails into his face and Literally attempted to rip his face off for $20! (I really thought if I pulled hard enough, the face would come off in my hands. I have no idea what I would have done with it!) Another customer, who I know well, came over and tried to help me resolve the problem, and when he saw it was pointless to continue, he tried to get me to give up, but I was just unshakable. The result is, I got fired.

    It occurred me later that that reaction was so uncharacteristic for me. Normally, I would accept the risk I had taken, and walk away with my $20, then get my revenge by warning all the other dancers not to dance for that guy. I would never have become that violent, and I certainly never would have jeopardized my job. After I got fired, I scrammed and bawled in the dressing room for at least half an hour, then I went to eat and kill some time because I knew I could never drive home in the condition I was in. I was absolutely incoherent and just kept saying my son's name over and over again, along with the occasional comment about how was I going to feed him. Completely blitzed on 3 glasses of wine.

    I did go to another club down the street where I have worked, and in the confusion I got in and earned another $100 while I sobered up a little, but I had the jitters all night. I felt weird and shaky for hours afterward and even well into the next morning.

    There is a guy in the O'Hare airport area who has been drugging dancers' drinks intermittently for years. Several people think they know who it is, but of course nobody can prove it. I wonder if I could have been drugged, and if this is the guy.


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    wow!! That's such a scary story, and a lesson to us all.... I think it's quite possible you were drugged, but who can really know......

    You should go back to your club and talk to the manager calmly about it. Tell him how out of character that was, and about your suspisions.

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    It's probably too late to do a drug test now. Next time you think you might be drugged, it might be worth your time to go get tested in case you might need any kind of treatment. It does sound like you were drugged with something, what, I don't know. I've done some partying back in the day and I can't think of anything that would have made me act that way, but then again, everyone's body is different. If you really like the club you were at, go back and talk to them, tell them you are convinced you were drugged. If you're one of the good girls there that never causes problems and if that was totally not like you, they may let you have your job back. It wouldn't be an unreasonalbe thing to happen in this line of work to be drugged, it probably happens way more than it's reported or known. Sorry that had to happen to you, just be glad that you're alright and you didn't OD and die or something. Please, from now on, BE VERY CAREFUL, and don't drink a drink that's been sitting there. I know you learned your lesson and thankfully, it wasn't a really hard lesson because you're still alive and ok.

    This one girl I know went to a SC (as a customer) and her drink was drugged, she came home and was passed out for 2 days straight, when she woke up 2 days later, she'd peed all over herself and puked all over herself. She said she only had 1 drink too and doesn't remember anything! Gotta be super, super careful, I think even more with us being dancers.

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    I'm really sorry to hear your story Colleen. It sounds very likely that you were drugged, which is scary enough but that you also lost your job as a result is just terrible. I think the fact that he had it waiting for you is highly suspicious.
    I'm really sorry about this, I'll take this as a warning to be extra careful from now on.

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    That is really weird, alright! Do you remember the third glass tasting unusual at all?
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    Wow, what could you have been drugged that makes you so.. violent and mean?

    Ruphynol puts you straight to sleep at least.

    Not that I don't believe you were drugged, I just have no clue. It totally sounds like it, though.

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    Bella21, the drugs that people put in drinks are tasteless and odorless...
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    ^I did not know that... Wow. I DEFINATELY need to be more careful, myself!
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    Yes, ladies...Let us ALL be careful. None of us is immune.
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    I can't think of any drug that would affect you in that way if slipped into a drink....

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    Wow, so sorry to hear that, sweetie! Damn, I don't claim to be the expert, but it sure sounds like you were drugged, since you said he was insistant on you drinking that drink. I would also recommend you talk to mgr, see what he says. &, please be careful (I know you will) from now on.


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    Drugs affect people in all differant ways. You dont know what she was slipped...so theres no predicting the result.

    This has happened to me...now I NEVER drink anything that has left my sight or the sight of a trusted friend.

    Sorry this happened to you, but thankfully you are ok now. I would DEF> go back..esp if you are friendly with the staff and apologize for your outburst, explaining what happened. Hopefully they will see that this was not your fault and re-hire you. If you dont normally act like that...they should understand(if they have half a brain!)
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    I've had it happen to me too, with a regular also...totally nice guy (not now) that I had hung out with several times in CR.

    That feeling of not being in control of your own body (expecially when you want to be) is just awful.

    Never EVER drink something that you have not had in your hand or your eyes on the ENTIRE time. I left this guy long enough to walk to to bar and grab two smokes to bring back to our table. Stupidly figuring that I knew this guy pretty well and had seen him so many times..... After that, the night went a bit coo-coo.

    So sorry that happened to you sweety, and yah, try to talk to management if you like that club, and explain what happened. Heck, even if you don't like the club all that much, still talk to them, no sense leaving a burning bridge.




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    Few of you have had the misfortune to be around meth addicts. Meth can make people mean & unpredictable. He might have put Ecstasy cut with meth in your drink & you didn't get violent right away because of the wine.
    Yeah definitely tell your old club what this guy looks like. Was he still there when you had your outburst? If not he might try to come back and pull this on some other girl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine View Post
    Yeah definitely tell your old club what this guy looks like. Was he still there when you had your outburst? If not he might try to come back and pull this on some other girl.
    Good idea...if for no other prurpose but to warn the other girls. The guy who drugged me had done it to another girl the week before...but sadly nobody was there that recognized him until after I had already drank my drink. He's now banned from the club and will get the shit beat out of him by several HUGE pissed off bouncers if he tried to come back in.
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    I had planned to be off work this week anyway, so I may go back next week and see what is up. They tell me the owner who fired me was drunk, too, so maybe the whole thing will blow over with an apology.

    I am not that crazy about the bar, but I do have a lot of good regs there, and my money is steady and better than many girls' there. OTOH, it is a long f'ing drive from my new house, and I have found a new bar that is much closer. I am also having second thoughts about a bar that would value a once-a-year, draft-beer-drinking cheapskate customer over a clean, reliable dancer who has been there more than 2 years. I have been trying to get away from that bar for about a month anyway. Just, I wanted to ease away slowly, not walk out one night and never look back.

    Now that I think of it, there were at least 2 of my regs in that night. One was Ricardo, who bought me the drink and who I originally thought had slipped me something. But guess who else was there? Jon from the Jon, Eddie, and Mari drama . He was there, then he left, then he was back right as I was leaving with my shit. From what I know of this guy, he seems a very unlikely culprit, but why, when I ma in really deep shit, (exactly 2 times in 2 years and 4 months), is he always connected with it somehow?

    So I am feeling quite confused and frankly, a little bit betrayed and angry. Thanks for all your support. Any more comments are always appreciated.



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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876 View Post
    It's probably too late to do a drug test now. Next time you think you might be drugged, it might be worth your time to go get tested in case you might need any kind of treatment.
    I wish I had thought of it earlier. Trouble is, this happened to me Friday night, and it didn't occur to me until Sunday morning that I was more than just drunk. Because I had been drinking, it took me a little while to make the distinction between normal (for me) alcohol induced behavior (I am a happy drunk) and what I did that night.

    I realized my nails were all loose. Which gave me reason to reflect on my actions, and then I flashed on the moment when I was absolutely convinced I could pull a guy's face off with my nails. Once I realized how unreasonable that idea was, I started putting a lot of things together.

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    Yeah definitely tell your old club what this guy looks like. Was he still there when you had your outburst? If not he might try to come back and pull this on some other girl.
    I wish. Unfortunately, as long as guys are buying draft beer and cheapo shots, there is way they are going to get banned. The owner regards us as necessary evils, interchangable and easily replaced. The one customer is a good, long-time reg who dumps a ton of cash. i doubt any of the other girls would believe he could be behind drugging a dancer.


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    All you had was 3 glasses of wine, right? Does 3 glasses of wine normally get you drunk, or does it take more than that? It definitely sounds possible that you were drugged. Sorry that this happened. This is a good lesson to everyone to always take your drink with you if you leave to go to the bathroom or dressing room. It only takes a split second for some asshole to slip something into your drink, and the bartenders get busy and can't be watching everything 24/7. I've been dancing for a long time and I'm still guilty of leaving my drinks with customers sometimes. I need to work on remembering to always take my drink with me.






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    Even if you had gone to the hospital to be tested, the drug might not have even showed up in yoru system. They do not test at the hospital for a lot of drugs, like Ruphynol.

    I thought I was drugged one night at a night club. I had only had a few drinks, and all the sudden, I started freakign out crying, and shaking, and just saying something was wrong. Like a panic attack. I also had no strength, couldnt walk or hold myself up. I was shakey and weak for 2 days. I couldnt talk right, kept stuttering, and forgetting words. It frustrated me because I could thinkt he words clearly in my head, but they just wouldnt come out. I was messing up words for 2 days after. I know I was druggeed with something.
    I went to the hospital to be drug tested, and the test came back all clear. They only test for a few different types of drugs. If you want the full drug panel, you have to pay extra to have it sent away to a lab.

    I KNOW I was druged with something that night, and the hotpial treated me like an alcoholic party girl because my system was clean.


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    I guess it doesn't matter now. Frankly I don't think you should go back anymore.

    What you could do is talk the owner into letting you come back occasionally & watch the reactions in the dressing room.

    I had some drama the last time I worked & I never look for drama...It can happen to anyone. Bars are full of lowlifes, & some dancers are total lowlifes.

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    Wow Colleen-I can't belive this happened to you! I remember thinking to myself when I read the letter you wrote to Glamour magazine that you were very level-headed, sweet and thought things out before saying/writing them. Unlike me, I was very angry and it showed in my letter, lol! Just from what I've seen and read on here, it's very hard for me to belive that you would have acted that way in any circumstance, let alone after only having three glasses of wine. It sounds to me like you were drugged by someone. I'm so sorry this happened, and I hope you're doing okay!

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    Quote Originally Posted by dlabtot View Post
    I can't think of any drug that would affect you in that way if slipped into a drink....
    Amphetamines make some people aggressive (as does cocaine).

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    Really, to me you just sound drunk. Yes, there are drugs that would alter your behaviour that way, but so will alcohol, and any number of things could have altered your tolerance that night. And yes, particularly stupid customers will try to drug you occasionally, but again, there is no point in slipping your something that makes you do that (as opposed to the traditional date rape drugs that make you pliant or unconscious). So yes, it is possible that this customer was just vaguely psychotic and drugging you just for the sake of it, but it is somewhat more likely that you just got unexpectedly drunk and riled.
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    When I went for my rape kit the medics actually told me that most things used to date rape are out of your system in pee in less than 24 hours. So if you've been passed out, probably, you're screwed.

    Sounds more like street drugs than date rape stuff and that does ideally take three days.

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    Also be mindful of your menstrual cycle. Sometimes I'll be overly emotional a week or a few days BEFORE my period and alcohol, even in small amounts, can sometimes exacerbate the problem and give me random outbursts of certain sentiments whether it is anger, sadness, nostaligia, etc....But, just in case, always watch your drinks!!!!
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