Hello
Hope you all had a good Christmas.
I just wanted to know what your thoughts were on when it is ok to have sex with a guy?
Some of my friends say the 3rd date while my Mum says three months!
I just dont know anymore!
xx

Hello
Hope you all had a good Christmas.
I just wanted to know what your thoughts were on when it is ok to have sex with a guy?
Some of my friends say the 3rd date while my Mum says three months!
I just dont know anymore!
xx
When you're both ready. I seriously doubt there's a manual out there that specifies the exact "right" time for sex but if you find it let me know- I want to see how far off I was by sleeping with my now husband on the second date![]()

Phew that makes me feel better as i only waited a week with the guy i am seeing now and my friend said he will go off me.
cheeky
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Well, as a guy (if I may) I'd have to say whenever you're ready for it in conjunction with not doing it too early. That is, if it's the first date then it's a 99.9% chance that he won't think twice about you. Past that 3 days vs 3 months probably won't matter. Sorta depends on what you're both trying to achieve.
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After you've gotten something substantial out of him. Only then.
Don't be giving it away for free honey!





After a lot of trial and error, I have discovered the right time to have sex:
After I have woken up but before I have fallen asleep.
damn, MM, mercenary much?
Oh god, whenever you're ready and it feels right. That might be in next to no time or not for ages. You will know when its a good time if you use your intuition (-:
I choose to not have sex on first dates anymore as I think theres no harm in waiting, but I dont see the pointin waiting too long unless youre really not sure about who youre dating.





Well the 3rd day is way to soon for me. Unless you just want some nookie. I like the three month wait. The only thing that really matter is when you are comfterable enought to give yourself to him or her.
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I agree with the majority opinion here - the right time is when you are ready.




Hehehe, I think I waited 4 HOURS when I met my fiance Troy! LOL! But then again, at the time I met him, I was only lookin' for a piece of ass! Turned out for the better for me!Yep, I waste no time....





It just depends on your expectations from the guy in my opinion. If you give a shit if he calls the next day - wait. If not - get busy. It just depends on when you feel comfortable.
Some decisions we should be more than well equipped to handle on our own. When we choose to close the doors to the bedroom is one of them![]()
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