Ok I have a question and I wonder if anyone else seems to have this problem. Guys at work always try nasty things with me that they dont/havent tried with other girls who have danced for them! WTF? Do I look like a dirty-nasty-extras bitch or what? I dont get it one bit, not at all. I have asked this question on the blue side to try and get a customers point of view in regards to what makes them try something with one girl and not another. I didnt get an answer at all. I am not a super friendly looking girl, I wear mostly black and I dont look really innocent or naive. On the other hand I also dont look or act like a slutty whore-girl, they see me giving dances that are clean...nothing going on there. Still I get alot of guys who try to do stupid shit, which I understand for the most part-they try to get away with whatever they can. But if I think a guy looks creepy/handsy/licker whatever and a girl I like/know well has danced for him already, I will ask her..."is that guy normal and/or decent?" If she says yes he is nice/normal then chances are I will go over there...it never fails that he will try and pull some shit. Try to lick, kiss, suck, touch kitty, touch asshole basically anything or everything. WHY? Why do they try this stuff with me and not the other girls? One girl told me that before all her dances she sets out "dance guidelines" and tells the guy if he breaks a rule the dance is over and he still has to pay. Sounds like a lovely plan in theory, but isnt that the ultimate in mood killers? I mean its one thing to tell a guy this who you think you might have a problem with during a dance but not everyone deserves such a harsh speech. Not to mention being this crass might effect the money he was going to spend on you if he finds it insulting or thinks that you are judging him. I just dont understand why a guy would "choose" you to be the one he tries something with, especially when he has watched you give other dances and sees nothing to warrant this type of behavior. Also my club is completely out in the open when it comes to floor dances, nothing dirty can happen on the floor without everyone seeing it so the "maybe the other dancer was letting it happen" scenario is out the window. Anyone with any info on why this keeps happening to me, please tell me!



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