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    I did a private party tonight for a bachelor. I showed up before him so he could come in to find his "surprise." All of his friends were super cool so I thought it was going to be cake. I chilled with a glass of cranberry juice and waited. When the bachelor arrived he was a piece of work. I wasn't dancing for him 30 second before he started grabbing all over my entire body and trying to finger me. I finally stopped and just sat on his knee and told him to behave.

    He started whispering something into my ear and I couldn't make it out. I kept asking, "What?" and he kept saying, "Aw, nothin'. I'm just tryin' to holler at ya." Uh, whatever. Finally, he mumbled it again and I understood: He was asking "How much?" I demurely asked, "How much for what, sweetie?" and he said, "To FUCK!" He said it several times and just stared at me with this look like we were already doing it. This guy is getting married TOMORROW.

    Now, this is not the first time I've been grabbed. It's not the first time I've been propositioned. But, for a split second, I got a picture in my head of this poor girl he is supposed to marry TOMORROW and thought, "FUCK this guy."

    I poured my entire glass of cranberry juice on his head, threw my clothes on and yelled, "Your wife is a VERY lucky woman" on my way out the door.

    Tart--I know you're having a "done with the bullshit" phase right now as well. A younger me would have smiled, played along, found out where he was getting married tomorrow, marched right in and introduced myself to his fiance. She needs to know what she is getting into. The current me just wanted to get the fuck home to the man who loves me and forget about those assholes. I kinda wish now I had done the former.

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    ^ hugs to you.

    I took a week off and slept it off. But I dont do private parties, I think im commit a murder if I did lol and im not joking.

    I know how you feel though. I hope when you got home you had some positive attention Chris feeds me full of that stuff and it really helps.

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    Thanks, babe

    Quote Originally Posted by Tart View Post
    I hope when you got home you had some positive attention Chris feeds me full of that stuff and it really helps.
    I did! He's great that way. He's the kind of guy who can't fathom treating someone like that, so when I tell him these stories he's very sympathetic.

    After I told him what happened he was like, "I'm so sorry, baby, etc." After a while I said, "So anyway...how much?" while motioning to him and he said, "Oh, I'm going cheap tonight." And he did

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    i think you handled it with grace but going to the wedding like that would have been kodak worthy. this last month a bachelor party (like many) was held at my club and the best man invited the bachelor's favorite dancer to the wedding..she declined but considered the great laugh she could have had.

    men like that are what make divorce laywers happy. maybe she'll catch him cheating and sue him dry for it. things always seem to have their way of coming back in the perfect way. did you at least get compensated? i hope his friends were nice enough to do at least that.

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    What a pig! Why in the hell do you agree to marry someone, when that is your attitude?! Glad you have a good man at home to help maintain your sanity.

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    Dottie Rebel,good for you!!!This is ridiculous,this guy's behaviour,but over the last few years we run into this BS more and more often.At least you taught a lesson to one of them.
    I wish his poor fiance would see him acting like this and dump him right at the altar!

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    Yes, I'm sure she'd be furious to find out that he tried to fuck a hooker at his bachelor party instead of the delight she'd feel at his fidelity having a dancer grind all over him naked.
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    ^^^ Personally, I would see a big difference if it were me.

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    what a nasty guy I would have done the same thing, he sounded disgusting.
    also, Dottie, I saw your myspace pics has anyone ever told u you look like Mariah Carey (in her younger hot years)?? Youre gorgeous

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    Wow... I hope he remembers his bachelor party for the rest of his life! WHat a DOUCHEBAG!
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    Ugh I am so happy to have made the decision to stay single ....men are just mean , they do not seem to care how their actions affect people they supposedly care about . Most of them are just little boys , fly away peter pan .
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    ^I don't think all guys are like that... That thought makes me want to cry, lol. (Or maybe it's just the PMS.) As for this man in particular, let's add stupid to being a douchebag... I mean, what is he DOING by getting married?! How old was he, Dottie? I hope you got your money upfront.
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    did you at least get paid for the party?

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    ^ lol.

    Not all men are pieces of shit. I have myself a grade A boyfriend.

    But dottie, you know I dont know if I'd call this "snapping". Its more like you stood up for yourself.

    Snapping would have been going up to his bride to be and stating the obvious. But standing up for yourself, was leaving.

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    Yes, I got paid. I always get the money upfront for just this reason. LET THIS BE A LESSON TO ANYONE WHO DOESN'T!! It sucked, though, because my private party income is mostly tips. My upfront is pretty meager. But it didn't take much effort. And I totally ruined his night. His bachelor party was fucked. There's no way they could have recovered from it. Everyone was floored.

    Bella21--The guy was probably about 24-26. He wasn't terribly young. He was in the Army, he had that whole macho, meathead thing going on. No offense to anyone in the army or with family in the army--hopefully you know what I mean.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Yes, I'm sure she'd be furious to find out that he tried to fuck a hooker at his bachelor party instead of the delight she'd feel at his fidelity having a dancer grind all over him naked.
    This doesn't make any sense to me. First, it's fairly typical to get a stripper for your bachelor party. I think the majority of women can accept that. It is not acceptable to have sex with another woman if you are in a monogamous relationship. There's a world of difference there.

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    ^ agreed. this is one of the few jenny statements I mentally responded with, "huh?"

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dottie Rebel View Post
    This doesn't make any sense to me. First, it's fairly typical to get a stripper for your bachelor party. I think the majority of women can accept that. It is not acceptable to have sex with another woman if you are in a monogamous relationship. There's a world of difference there.
    I think you might be putting forth our own rather specialized perspective there. Just saying. Not one of my married woman friends would have been okay with their husband getting strippers before they got married (and, incidentally, not one of them did). I think there is a difference, but I think the world may be smaller than what you might imagine to most people; that is, I think most women would probably be less inclined to think it was just hunky dory and fine for a woman to take off her clothes and intimately touch her husband as long it stopped short of penetrative sex than what you are positing. And if you marched up to his wife and introduced yourself as a woman who was willing to strip, grind on and touch her husband for money, but was disgusted as his suggestion of sex, she might not be as grateful and appreciative of your strict morality as you might imagine.
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    ^ i'm a stripper (obviously) and i wouldn't be ok with my boyfriend having a private stripper at his bachelor party.

    *shrug*

    you know why? because i don't want ANY woman 1/2 naked (stripper or not) or fully naked touching my boyfriend without me present. sex or no sex, doesn't matter to me.. and i am one of the LEAST jealous people i know.

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    the whole time i was reading that i was like damn i woulda told that poor girl but dont worry, its not your place 2 say anything. who would she listen 2 n e way? her fiance or a stripper? screw that! i belive in karma, n wat goes around comes around, and everything happens 4 a reason so who knows...mayb he wanted one last nit eof fun n thought u were extremelly hot OR hes just a disgusting piece of shit who will always remain the same n like i said...everything happens 4 a reson

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    I would be pissed as hell if my boyfriend acted a fool at a strip club or private party! Bachelor parties are a dumbass American tradition.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Pretty_Penny View Post
    ^ i'm a stripper (obviously) and i wouldn't be ok with my boyfriend having a private stripper at his bachelor party.

    *shrug*

    you know why? because i don't want ANY woman 1/2 naked (stripper or not) or fully naked touching my boyfriend without me present. sex or no sex, doesn't matter to me.. and i am one of the LEAST jealous people i know.
    I feel that way too. Fortunately I didn't marry the strip club type. But, a week ago I bought him a killer private dance from one of our best girls. I told her to take it easy on the grinding, but other than that he got a really good dance. That didn't bother me at all, maybe because I was supervising.

    It's a double standard considering all that we do in a private dance, but somehow in my mind it's different. Maybe I just tell myself that to feel ok about it. When I dance for a guy I feel like my body is covered in a sheath of heavy plastic and that nothing I do to him really touches me at all. Ah the mental games we play...

    (And Dottie, I'm sorry that happened to you. Sounds like it was an ugly situation.)
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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    I think you might be putting forth our own rather specialized perspective there. Just saying. Not one of my married woman friends would have been okay with their husband getting strippers before they got married (and, incidentally, not one of them did). I think there is a difference, but I think the world may be smaller than what you might imagine to most people; that is, I think most women would probably be less inclined to think it was just hunky dory and fine for a woman to take off her clothes and intimately touch her husband as long it stopped short of penetrative sex than what you are positing. And if you marched up to his wife and introduced yourself as a woman who was willing to strip, grind on and touch her husband for money, but was disgusted as his suggestion of sex, she might not be as grateful and appreciative of your strict morality as you might imagine.
    Fair enough. I do have a specialized perspective. And don't get me wrong--I don't see much difference, really, between stripping and hookin'. Thin white lines. It wasn't the fact that he insulted me, a "good, clean stripper" by assuming I was a prostitute. It was the *way* he was talking to me, slurry and spitting into my ear as sleazily as possible, grabbing me when I obviously didn't want to be grabbed, ordering me around, etc.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dottie Rebel View Post
    Fair enough. I do have a specialized perspective. And don't get me wrong--I don't see much difference, really, between stripping and hookin'. Thin white lines. It wasn't the fact that he insulted me, a "good, clean stripper" by assuming I was a prostitute. It was the *way* he was talking to me, slurry and spitting into my ear as sleazily as possible, grabbing me when I obviously didn't want to be grabbed, ordering me around, etc.
    Dammit. Now since you're being all reasonable I have to be reasonable too. And I hate that.
    I may have come across a little short - I was referring only to the act of informing his fiance, etc. I would never tell you not be offended either at being propositioned (although, if he didn't hire you he might not be aware of your paramaters) or at being drunkenly spit on. Drunk people can be really annoying.
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    ^^^Oh yeah? Well...Screw you. You're dumb.

    Better?

    The fact is, you do have a point. Me going to his fiance would likely backfired on me--almost guaranteed. I realize that. I didn't expect her to say, "Oh, you ethical and benevolent stripper, thank you for saving me from this mistake!!" I figured she would be mad at me, too, for one of three reasons: a) what you said. A stripper, a prostitute, what's the difference? b) women in these situations rarely have the strength and integrity to blame the one who needs to be blamed. They want to blame YOU and c) I burst her happy little bubble.

    The only reason I wanted to tell her was because I felt it would have been the right thing to do. Honestly, it wasn't even out of retaliation. Just a sense of obligation. I mean, I can't imagine the decision this girl has gone through with!! If you could have seen this guy you would have hurled. He was a barbarian. But, you know, maybe she knows that. Maybe they're open. Who cares? Either way, I doubt I'll lose much sleep over it.
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