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    So as most of you know, I am a retired dancer. Hubby and I havent been to a strip club in ages so tonight we decided lets go hit a few. Ahhhh yes, the infamous "couple" in the club. But we had money to spend and wanted to find a dancer to spend it on. The first club we went in to we left within thirty mins after getting in there. There was a dancer on stage when we came in. Way over weight. She finished and left. I saw one other dancer sitting with a custie. One other dancer sitting at the bar getting trashed. NO HUSTLE anywhere. Never saw another dancer go on stage. There were about maybe 20 guys in the bar total. No one being approached at all, and some obviously waiting and hoping for someone to come talk to them. It was sad and bordered on pathetic. So we left.

    On to the next club. This one pretty much kept someone on the stage at all times and there were some very pretty ladies there. We stayed for about 2 hours. It was topless but damn the beaver was flying in peep shots everywhere. Not one dancer talked to us or approached us. Like we had a disease or something. There were more dancers than custies so a few were just sitting around. I was disappointed no one even tried. Hell the majority never even made eye contact. Those that did, I smiled at in hopes of appearing at least friendly but no, no one came over. I just kept thinking WTF is wrong with these girls. Even after tipping a few on stage, still no one. So I continued to watch each girl on stage. Apparently it has been awhile and the days when I danced truly are the days of your because hardly any of these girls really danced. I danced when you really danced, and your time on stage was a SHOW. Most of them spent their time sitting on the edge of the stage trying to do as many beaver shots as they could to bleed the guys on pervert row out of any singles they might of had. They did 3 song sets yet most were topless within the first 10 seconds of the first song. WTF!! No artistry to it at all anymore. So after 2 hours, hubby and I were like you know, fuck it. Time to go home. I stopped one dancer on our way out and gave her $40, told her this is for you to thank you, because your the ONLY one who actually danced when you were on stage. She thanked me and gave me a hug and we left. And the remaining $460 came back home with us in my purse. How sad that if just one person had bothered to come up and talk to us, they would have made good money off us. Bottom line is, as a couple, we want you to come to us, we dont want to have to come to you. When I danced I danced for couples quite a few times. I would always at least approach their table and say hello then play it from there if they were receptive or not. But I at least tried and acknowledged they were there. When I danced, I wanted your money, didnt matter if you were a guy or a couple. And if you were willing to give it to me I was more than willing to take it, and the only way you'll ever know if someone is willing or wants to do that is to APPROACH them and ASK. This whole night was just unreal!!!

    K... done with my rant now... even though I'm still shaking my head....

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    So true! Long ago before I started dancing, a friend (girl) and I went to check out a club. I was ready to blow $300. After two hours of being ignored, my friend and I were cracking up with laughter. I told her that I would GIVE, just hand the money to any girl that made eye contact and smiled!!!

    I went home with all of my money.

    However, now as a dancer I make it a point to go over to chat up couples and the ladies. Why would we ignore our sisters???

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    the FIRST item on my hustle hut tip sheet is "Hustle Couples!!!". i've spent plenty of time as both a female custy and as a couple-ignoring dancer to know couples are a potential gold mine. i just gotta quit being afraid of fire-spitting wives/gfs and go for it.

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    I dunno. I was a female custie too before I started dancing. But once I started, I got so sick of having female custies talk shit about us, or, when we actually dance, act as if they were discusted, that it's hard for me to dance for them. I get nervous- they judge much more harshly. But then, maybe I care more about what they think as I'm more likely to be attracted to a female. BUT I always, always, always approach couples, have sat with them, and am super friendly to them.

    And the dancing thing- at my club, more "artistry" put in to dancing dosen't always mean more dough. If taking my top off within ten seconds, even though I'd rather sensuously strip slowly out of it, means more money, you bet I'll be bare within seconds.

    Sorry you had no luck at the clubs, but I'm sure you'll find a place where the dancers would be happy to have your company!

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    well it seems as though female customers want to see the dancers actually dance and put on a show while men for the majority just want to see the exposed private parts. when i'm at work, since i'm not really good at actually putting on a show as opposed to just getting naked, i can see that my dance style doesn't really appeal to the females. that's the main reason i dont try to hustle women since i feel they would not be interested in the basic grind dance as opposed to a show. that being said, when i go to clubs it sucks that the girls wont come up to ask for dances but that's why i send my partner to ask them for a dance for me. after a few dances other girls will start to notice that you get dances more i guess.

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    I'll admit that I'm a bit shy when it comes to couples b/c I never know if when dancing for them both the girl is getting upset, jealous, or really having a good time. I've seen couples come in and have a ball and then I've seen guys bring their girlfriends/wives in who clearly did not want to be there. (Those are the mean nasty ones who are ultra-critical.) That being said though, on the occasions when I've said "Aw fuck it" and gone up to couples, for the most part it's been a lot of fun and the women are sometimes more into it than the guys. In fact, one time this girl has such a good time that she even went out to her car after I spent some time with her and her man and got a buch of new Dermalogica products and gave them to me. Turns out she reps for the company them and wanted me to have some. That was definately cool.
    "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, and fabulous? Actually who are you not to be?" -- Marianne Williamson.

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