I just had to tell everyone about this weirdo last night! This customer came up to me on stage a couple times, tipped me and asked me to come see him. When I was talking to him while I was on stage, he seemed really (for a customer) seemed understanding that I was busy, blah, blah. You know how some will get so mad when you don't come down and see them right now! Well, he was all don't worry, whenever you get a chance. So, I finally made my way over to him and he said he'd prefer me to just talk to him instead of dance and that he'd pay me the dance price instead of me dancing. I thought ok. Well, within a minute of our conversation he was just getting waaaay too close! He was trying to hug me, was doing it hard & trying to pull me really close to him. I had my head way back because he was just getting too close for comfort. He was touching my butt or anything like that but was really invading my personal space. Before a chair came available he kept trying to get me to sit on his lap, I wouldn't anyway but we're not allowed to at our club and he couldn't understand why. Well when the chair came available I sat down which was next him and then he actually took my arm and was trying to place it around his neck & shoulders!!!! He said "I just love to cuddle". That's when I said "well, it was really nice talking to you but there's just a few minutes left in the night & I need to take care of some things". So then he paid me $10 and then I left him. As he was leaving, I was dancing for another customer and I saw that guy wave bye to me. I pretended to not see him. Eeeeewwww!!!! He was sooooooo creepy and I've met some real creeps before but he was one of the top! I've never had a customer actually try to take my arm and physically put it around him! Can I say what a clingy, annoying, desperate loser!!! Has a customer ever done anything like this to any of you? *still shuddering over it*



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I've tried reasoning with those types and any interaction positive or negative keeps them there. I'm receiving emails from some dude I blew off online. I told him we weren't compatible and he still won't go away!

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