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    So I have a few girls at my club that have this amazing talent of just asking random men for money and getting it. Usually handed to them in $100s. Ive watched and asked around and these are not theyre regulars or anything usually they are just random guys that they havent even talked to during the evening.

    There is one that when she sees anyone is making money off of somebody she will come over when your not there and just ask for it and she gets it and walks away. What is the most amazing part is that they dont work for it in anyway. They just say thank you and walk away.

    So many of us girls that dont have the ability to do this wonder how exactly do you get the guts to do that and really make it work? So if there are any of you out there let the rest of us in on the secret.

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    hey i'd like to know the secret too?
    men don't usually give away money without getting something in return?
    i might be too suspicious but could these girls be up to something dodgy or promising something later in return for this cash?

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    hey i'd like to know the secret too?
    men don't usually give away money without getting something in return?
    i might be too suspicious but could these girls be up to something dodgy or promising something later in return for this cash?
    That's what I was wondering or maybe they keep bugging the guy so he pays her to leave him alone. I can't imagine a guy just giving a girl money for nothing, because we all know, nothing is actually free in this world.

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    I agree one of these girls could be doing something a little extra on the side. But theres another that Ive seen and heard her do it. She giggles and acts kindof ditzy and says "I want some money too" In response the guy says well why dont you do a dance for me?" she says "Well Im really not in the mood to dance but Im really hot dont you think?Maybe you could just give it to me?" And there he is just shelling out houndreds from his wallet. WTF!!!

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    ha! thats just funny. i can picture 1 specific girl doing that but other than that, i'd think men would laugh at ladies using that line... i ask for a tip sometimes after a dance, sometimes i say something like, "oh it's just 20, and of course if you want to tip me you can put that here." (or and you can tip me on the other side if im holding out a g string's side)

    Love it!

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    I knew a girl like that. Once she went downstairs for 10 minutes and came back with 600 bucks. I asked how she got it and she said, "I just asked him for it. Another girl confirmed the whole fucking thing. To be fair, she is a prototype stripper: long blond extensions, big tits, pretty face. Men fall at her feet all the time.

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    I knew a girl who would actually reach into the guys pocket and take out his wallet, then take the money out and put his wallet back in his pocket.

    That girl could get money out of anyone.

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    I want to know the exact words they say to get this to happen! It's all in attitude, I know that much, but even my huge ego can't just walk up and ask for serious cash.

    Maybe I should try it.
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    I've seen some girls who are just that amazing, like the girl frances mantioned.

    but mostly, I think it's the "pity me" hustle

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    Does anyone else thin its a bit cheap just to ask guys for money? Its like begging. Id rather dance and vip for my money otherwise surely your just begging in high heels and a bikini.



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    I have a hard time believing this is happening to these girls on a regular basis, without something to motivate the guys other than them just *asking*. Come on. This is the real world. Guys don't just hand over hundreds like that to strange girls simply because they asked. There are a *FEW* moneyslave types who might, but they are generally looking for something in return as well and they are a rare breed.

    I've worked with alot of girls in alot of clubs and only seen this ONCE, and guess what? The guy who gave her the money was expecting her to dance for it, and when she didn't he was pissed off and wouldn't spend anymore. I suspect it's shit like this that causes guys to be so *afraid* of paying for their dances up front these days.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Polekitten View Post
    Does anyone else thin its a bit cheap just to ask guys for money?
    Not if it works.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Polekitten View Post
    Does anyone else thin its a bit cheap just to ask guys for money? Its like begging. Id rather dance and vip for my money otherwise surely your just begging in high heels and a bikini.
    I'm thinkin the same! I don't have it in me to ask someone just for money without giving them a dance. Honestly, I think I'd be hesitant if it were a regular. But, that's just me. If there's girls out there with the cojones to do that, more power to them!
    Now if I could just grow some of those cojones...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Polekitten View Post
    Does anyone else thin its a bit cheap just to ask guys for money? Its like begging. Id rather dance and vip for my money otherwise surely your just begging in high heels and a bikini.
    I'd rather just ask. There's enough guys out there making me work for my money (or trying to make me work for a single dollar bill.) I'd like to think there's a balance and that there's men out there that won't make me work for it but will just enjoy my existence.

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    Quote Originally Posted by fancygirl View Post
    I'd rather just ask. There's enough guys out there making me work for my money (or trying to make me work for a single dollar bill.) I'd like to think there's a balance and that there's men out there that won't make me work for it but will just enjoy my existence.
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    I talked to the girl (she's moved, so didn't mind sharing her hustle tips) and it is a pity me hustle. She says she has 2 kids, needs xxx to pay the rent or get evicted, car's getting repo'd, whatever. Sometimes she just asks (I need xxx$ to buy xxx). Or she says she wants to buy these great pair of boots from the costuem person, gets the cash, then puts on boots she already owns.... Idk that I could do that.... but I'm gonna think about trying (the costume thing, not the pity me).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lola Rose View Post
    I talked to the girl (she's moved, so didn't mind sharing her hustle tips) and it is a pity me hustle. She says she has 2 kids, needs xxx to pay the rent or get evicted, car's getting repo'd, whatever. Sometimes she just asks (I need xxx$ to buy xxx). Or she says she wants to buy these great pair of boots from the costuem person, gets the cash, then puts on boots she already owns.... Idk that I could do that.... but I'm gonna think about trying (the costume thing, not the pity me).
    There is a girl in my club that uses this "pity me" hustle. Ive never heard her do it but I know from custys of mine that this is how she tries to earn her money. Both guys when they told me about this seemed a bit disgusted, one was even like, " Im so glad your here, I can see that girl who moans about her kids heading my way, keep her away from me!"
    The guys who come in the club are coming in for a good time and some relief away from their own hectic life/kids/bills or whatever. The last thing they wanna hear about is someone elses money worries/kids/bills ect. This will put them on a downer which means they will ultimatly spend less money. This tecnique might make these girls some cash in the short term but I doubt that they will have many returning customers. In general, guys will spend more money when they are having fun and are more likely to come back and see you again if you make the experience fun and light hearted.



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    At a club I worked at in Hollywood for awhile there was more than one occasion where I was bold enough to ask "Would you like to go and have some fun?" The guy would say, "I don't do lapdances. But you're really pretty, though" and I'd respond(in an "im just kidding" voice)", "Well, then, do you want to just give me money, then? Just for being so darn pretty?" And on more than one occasion was handed 20 bucks by different customers.

    Also once at a VERY slow club there was only a couple present as customers and they were sitting at the stage and didnt tip (You only dance to one song for your set here) and I kneeled down and said, "Can you please tip at least $1 so I don't feel like I'm working for free? And the woman reached in her pocket and pulled out a 20 (and she could clearly see she was giving me a 20). My next set they didnt tip quite as generously but told me they had a huge shoe fetish and loved that i had fake fish floating in my 70s style stilettos and they had just sort of "forgot" to tip the first time. Whatever's clever.
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    I wish guys would just hand all their money to us then leave it would be so much easier to go to work. But on the same hand i don't mind working for my money makes me feel better about empting the wallets.
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    Sparingly, though, it never hurts to try! I've worked far too hard for far little so many MORE times that I never feel guilty about getting money "for free" or "for nothing". There's some guys in the world I would do the same thing for if the roles were reversed simply because the moment was right or they were that darn cute....It's nothing to employ all the time at all (maybe when youre feeling esp. ballsy a few times a year or so)...but sometimes these things aren't completely inappopriate! And it's better when a)they otherwise really seem to be into you and 'really' dont get lapdances and b) the club is busy,not when it's slow and obvious that no one is doing well because it'll seem like begging.
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    I must admit, I am guilty of using the Costume hustle. I fall in love with a dress (right in front of a customer) usually ranging from 100-160$ and I get it 4 minutes later, put it on, walk the guy to the door, tell him to enjoy his night, walk straight back upstairs to my favorite costume man, Joe, give back the dress and take my money. Tipping Joe, of course.
    The pity hustle however, is a little too desperate for me, I'm a beautiful girl and I wouldn't feel right "begging" for money. Hard earned cash is just that much sweeter to spend. Don't you think?
    As for the men just "handing out" money.. Where are they? I've never seen one! Maybe if we play pool and I beat your sorry butt, but just like that? No way! Men are very tight with money in my expirience. If you see one, stick your claws in him! Or send him my way!

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    i might be too suspicious but could these girls be up to something dodgy or promising something later in return for this cash?

    bingo.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lola Rose View Post
    I talked to the girl (she's moved, so didn't mind sharing her hustle tips) and it is a pity me hustle. She says she has 2 kids, needs xxx to pay the rent or get evicted, car's getting repo'd, whatever. Sometimes she just asks (I need xxx$ to buy xxx). Or she says she wants to buy these great pair of boots from the costuem person, gets the cash, then puts on boots she already owns.... Idk that I could do that.... but I'm gonna think about trying (the costume thing, not the pity me).


    Ha! My very good friend, almost like family, came into the bar I used to work at one night.... He's filthy stupid rich, but you would never know. He dresses very low key, he's older and not flashy at all. Anyway, I was sitting talking to him forever (slow night for me) and then I had to go on stage...this girl comes up to him and I can see her from the stage talking to him, by the end of my second song she's walked away with money, I never saw her dance for him.

    I come down and sit some more and he says "I feel so bad for your friend, I hope her kid gets better."

    Huh?

    "Your friend, her kid's in the hospital. I gaver her some moeny, she was telling me about how she has no insurance and stuff, that's so sad."

    Apparently this girl knew her hustle, she had laid it on just right, made it seem like random conversation or something...anyway, he gave her 400.
    I laughed...that girl has no kids!




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    p.s. She wasn't a friend of mine either..... grrrr.




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    There is one guy that comes in here on occasion and has a variety of ladies he'll occupy himself with all night. It's fun when he picks me because he'll just give me lots of money and he acts as if he's totally helpless. As in I (or whoever he's with) says "Give me some money!" He'll sigh dramatically and hand over $20 or so and say "You women are gonna be the death of me, I don't know what I'm doing in here, this is crazy!" etc. He's fun to talk to too. But he loves to act helpless in the face of boobies demanding money. And that's ok with me!

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