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    Angry This bitch is trying me...[RANT]

    Ok, so I just recently started working at a new club. I LOVE it here, and the customers love me back Anywho, there is a girl there who is a major thorn in my ass. On my 3rd night of working..I was sitting talking with a girl who also dances down in Florida at Rachel's. She was telling me I'm beautiful, and I could get hired no problem. She goes and asks "thorn in my ass" we'll call her Kate, "Isn't CK beautiful" So Kate totally ignores here and keeps doing her makeup. Every time I work with this girl I see her watching my every move. When she gets dances, she always trys to dance close in my area in hopes that the customers I'm dancing for will notice her. But little does she know that HER custy's are watching me, and my custy is all focused on me

    Anyway, the other night she tried me. I was sitting w/ a customer whom I had met the week prior. "Kate" was sitting at a table next to mine talking with a lady and guy. I ask the lady if she minds if I steal a chair to sit next to my guy. Don't you know in the process of doing this "Kate" walks around me and wraps her arms all around my custy!! She's all like, "come on baby let's go dance. Lets do a 2 for 1...blah blah..and I'm sitting here thinking like but my face was like, (thank god I'm on Zoloft lmao) So after like a minute of hearing her beg for dances and continue to get turned down I excuse myself. Don't you know that wench left him alone after I walked away. I avoided the custy until I got on stage. He came up to tip me and apologized for earlier. I told him I was fine I just thought it was rather rude of him to continue talking with her since he and I were talking first. He apologized and told me he felt like the girl "kate" is intimidated by me. I think she is too.

    I really wanna say something to this girl but I'm still the "new girl" and I aint pulling weight yet. "kate" has a couple of regulars and I'm starting to think that maybe I should throw a flirt or 2 in at them, when she is not around of course. I've noticed them smiling and winking at me more than a couple times. Any other suggestions?







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    Default Re: This bitch is trying me...[RANT]

    I don't think it matters that you're new, u have to show that u are not a pushover now or she is gonna get worse.
    i don't think flirting with her regulars is a good idea, that might get u a bad reputation with ALL the dancers. i think u should have a word to her. it actually sounds like she thinks u r really hot and maybe she wants to be like u, maybe turn it around to your advantage.

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    If even a custie can pick up on her being intimidated by you, leave things alone. If you have a chance to do well at this club & even make connections to good Florida clubs, don't spoil it by picking a fight with a drama queen.

    I KNOW it's tempting to whoop a*s, but it'll make you look like a bad investment if trouble starts right after you arrived...You're equipped to make money in this business, so "pick your battles so you can win the war."

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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine View Post
    If even a custie can pick up on her being intimidated by you, leave things alone. If you have a chance to do well at this club & even make connections to good Florida clubs, don't spoil it by picking a fight with a drama queen.

    I KNOW it's tempting to whoop a*s, but it'll make you look like a bad investment if trouble starts right after you arrived...You're equipped to make money in this business, so "pick your battles so you can win the war."

    ^^^ She's right, I would'nt waste my breath on the tramp. Just make that money. Just maybe her custy will see how obsess she is with you, and become your custy.
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    Ignore her and do your thing.

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    The more she tries to steal your custies (and not pay the proper amount of attention to her own), the more of hers will come over to you because you treat yours right.

    Just do your thing and ignore her.

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    She has envy of you , CK. .....I say either ignore her or kill her with kindness. Don't lower yourself to her level by getting defensive or catty. I know ( better than most, lol) easier said than done but you are better than that
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    Default Re: This bitch is trying me...[RANT]

    CK is too hot for insecure girls to handle. She's just pissed that shes not the cutest thing there and gets reminded of it by well...the cutest thing there. Haha. I agree with I beleive Katrine said it...just do your thing, ignore her, but don't be a pushover. (we all know you're not) Good luck with that hoe.

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    Girl i hear you; exact same thing going on w/me (well, except I'm not new...otherwise, same crap). It's damn hard not to start something with that kind of person, but really, you don't NEED to say anything. Just keep getting more dances and making more money than her, and that will say more than words ever could!

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    Smile and ignore. You're way above that kind of thing.



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    what everyone else said!

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    Girl don't let her bring you down to her level! Kill her with kindness, the other girls will see that, and then youhave them liking you. You know you have to P.M. me an let me know who it is! LOL

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    Default Re: This bitch is trying me...[RANT]

    You don't have to do a THING to get back at her... apparently, just doing your job like you are NOW is getting under her skin. Just show her that you're not a push-over, like someone mentioned before... hopefully she'll find some other drama to entertain herself with soon... Oh, and yea... thank GOD you're on Zoloft, lol... That's a bunch of bullshit!
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    Agreed with the other reponses...just leave it be. Know that you are already under her skin and nothing you do can help the situation.

    Just keep making your money and let her keep losing hers because she's paying more attention to what you are doing/who you are talking to to really make her own money.

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    Yep yep yep, what they all said. Kill her with kindness and don't let he distract you from what you're doing. She's spending so much time obsessed with YOUR work, well, shyt, keep up the work!

    But, the next time she walks up to your custy that you are with right then...smile sweetly and stand right next to him as well. (assuming he's worth the time=money)

    I started a new club not long ago, and the same thing sort of happened with me, girls trying to see what my boundaries are and to set theirs (pissing on custies)....just be firm and sweet at the same time. Good Luck!

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    Darlin Kates customers are not ONLY hers. TAKE EM! Hell they wink at you...GO

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