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    Thi sis yet another example of stupid, nonhustling strippers.

    The gambling gods were feeling generous today, and as a way to start the new year off right, my boyfriend hit a small jackpot on a slot machine on his way home from work this morning.

    So, what does he do? Calls and wakes me up(this was around 3pm) And tells me get dressed, we are going to a strip club with our winnings.

    We hit the club at about 4pm. Day shift. Maybe 10 girls max. With 2 grand in our pockets.

    Not one stripper came over to us. We sat there and drank fo 3 horus straight with not one dancer.They woudl walk past us, pause, and keep walking. There was mabye 6 other customers in the club. The girls were standing around. Silly girls. On our way out, I stopped one dancer who had walked past us a few times and said" do you dance for guys? She said, umm...yeah? I said, then why wouldnt you stop at our table? My guy wanted a dance. Oh, cause I dont talk to couples. I just shook my head. BIG MISTAKE, silly girl. you never know who has money, and who wantes dances unless you ask. Whats the worst that can happen? A jealous girlfriend says go away. Big deal. How many guys tell you to go away every single night?

    If your a new dancer, or one who tends to pass up couples, this has been said over and over, Dont pass them up! You never know......

    And for the dancers on dayshift at the rhino today. Silly girls. You had money right under your nose, all you had to do was ask.

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    wow... that's absolutely pathetic. well, hey, now you can put your money towards something (or someone) willing to prove itself more deserving! But yeah, girls laze around and then complain why they don't make $$. sad. very sad. yes, occasionally there will be the total rejection day, but come on, guys, girls, and couples WILL get dances, and the more you hustle, the better your ratio gets. My New Year's resolution for my club is to hustle more hispanic and asian guys... because we have LOTS of them in the club and i get very litt.e.. many do not speak very good english, but they DO get dances... they just require a hard hustle and I get shy because i do not speak the languages so I often stick to the Caucasian people who make up most of my customer base... but I know my earnings potential and ratio of "yes's" could be increased by killing the lazy hustle with ESL's and learning some simple espanol, and just being cute.... and by getting rid of some of my OWN basic insecurities that tell me "asian guys don't like me..." "hispanic guys always say no to me..." and ridiculous stuff like that which isn't true to begin with. sorry about the tangent, there.... but some of the girls may be dealing with some of that themselves... many girls are TOTALLY uncomfortable dancing for another girl, or a couple, or have no idea how to handle it. (maybe not SW'ers, but others) so some may be lazy, others may be shy/insecure. but yes, you are right... they didn't get tha dolla. sad for them.

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    If you will permit a customer to add 2 cents, it may not even be the fact that you were there as a couple. I am amazed at the number of times that I sit in a club -- well-dressed, reasonably fit middle-aged business man sitting alone, presumably a pretty good target -- and the dancers are too lazy to stop by. Despite the good sense regularly displayed at this site, there simply seems to be a significant percentage of lazy/clueless dancers.

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    Not all dancers have the confidence to come up to people and ask for lap dances. I have alot of confidence and know taht hustling is the only way I can make money.
    Sorry to hear tha t these girls are not so wise and didn't hustle you and your man because if they did then they would not complain about money.
    Alot of dancers think hustling people isn't the way. I don't care how pretty you think you are, you have to ask people if they want dances.



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    Damn....I would have been all over you. I made tons of money off of couples (probably because I didn't "pass" them up).

    I've never understood the concept of standing around bitching about no money being made...instead of working the floor...

    But, this is in the day and age where most younger folks think that its ok to text their friends all day at work, get paid for it, and not do any of the work they were hired to do...


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    I don't understand it when people get lazy about working the floor and then whine about not making enough money either. But I think sometimes girls are hestiant about sitting with couples. They don't want to piss off the girlfriend, they may feel like a 3rd wheel, they just feel weird about it. But if you specifically asked them to dance for your guy, then there should not have been any reason why the dancers should have felt shy about coming to your table.

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    I love dancing for couples, thats silly those stupid girls passed you guys up.
    Most the time the girls who go in there probably idolize you and appreciate that hard work you do and will tip you well. Feed the girls compliments- the guy will appreciate that and tip you as well. Say wow you are a lucky man- look at how beautiful this lady is! Couples are my fave fave custies. Very easy to talk to.
    I did a dance for a couple this past weekend- You charge EACH one. You make more money with them. after the second dance they started kissing and FORGOT I was in the room LMAO. as soon as the dance was done they tipped me extra and then they LEFT so fast I knew they were going straight home to bang lmao. I felt like that was a job well done. I hope they come back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by VenusGoddess View Post
    Damn....I would have been all over you. I made tons of money off of couples (probably because I didn't "pass" them up).

    I've never understood the concept of standing around bitching about no money being made...instead of working the floor...

    But, this is in the day and age where most younger folks think that its ok to text their friends all day at work, get paid for it, and not do any of the work they were hired to do...

    What you mean we're not paid to text our friends and stand around bitching? Damn!! I've been doing it wrong the whole time! *cries*

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    Did you happen to get up and tip at the rail? This is what I do when I go out with Brad.

    I make sure that I'm the one that does this, so that they know I'm not there against my will or being a bitch.

    After doing this, I have no problem with the girls coming over and either hanging out or doing dances.

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    Okay, I'll say it. I pass up couples. All the time. Inevitably. Every time. Not only is there a certain amount of grief, couples are hardly ever looking to buy dances. Hardly ever. And in those very few occasions that they are interested in buying dances, they are very seldom interested in being hustled. They have a good idea of what they want and seek it out. So yeah. I view couples as a waste of my time.

    Actually this sounds a little obnoxious to me; like the guys who are all "why don't dancers come up to me, they're all missing out, blah, blah, blah" completely ignoring the fact that they can just as easily spend their money by asking girls to come to their table, and then coming here to exhibit to us how they are punishing strippers for misjudging them.
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    I am one who doesn't hit up couples either. The ratio of couples who come in intending to spend enough money to make it worth my while picking through the rest is too small. I'd still rather stick with the men. As has been said here many many MANY times, if you want dances as a couple, ASK the girl(s) that you like. Yeah, we never know who has money and wants to spend it with us nicely - but we also get tired of sifting through the 50 shitty couples just to find that ONE who will spend AND BE NICE. Odds are better with the men, plain and simple.

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    My club has an extremely high proportion of couples and groups of women who come in (by far more than any other club I have worked in or seen), so many of the dancers who have figured out how to work this angle do very well with them.

    I like it when couples and women come in, and always have--though I can understand how certain dancers will often feel otherwise.

    It does tend to make the single guys and (worst of all) the large groups of guys in 'Neanderthal' mode behave in a somewhat more gentlemanly and circumspect fashion. Not that you don't still see plenty of loutish behavior, lol--but it helps to keep it more tolerable level, from what I've seen.

    The other advantage is that if you can get the women up at thetip rail (very easy to do in my club), the guys go crazy to see the women tipping women thing, and will then tip more themselves, especially after I tell them to, lol. In fact if it is slow I will send a dancer up with a dollar to get the guys tipping--it works at least 50% of the time.
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    I usually approach couples. But sometimes some couples give off body language or weird vibes that I learn early on indicate "please do not hustle us." Those are the couples that I will either not approach, or if I approach them, I will tell them "have a great night" and walk on without pushing them to get a dance. I usually gage it by how the couple acts, and most importantly, how the girl reacts to me.

    But then again, some couples are great! They will strike up conversation, we will laugh and relate on things, and they will buy drinks. Usually when the couple offers to get me a drink(esp if the girl initiates it), I know that it is a fun-loving couple that mutually WANTS to be in a strip club.

    How were you guys sitting? Were you guys sitting up at the tip rail, or away from the stage sitting around one of the tables? Did you guys look around a lot, trying to get the eye contact of the girls? Or, did you guys sit huddled together, cuddling, and engaged in deep convo? I'm guessing that you guys were intently watching the dancers and showed interest. In that case then, yeah I'd say that the strippers were ignorant not to approach you guys. It was especially lame when the one stripper said that she didn't dance for couples! I mean, I can understand not wanting to dance for a guy when his girlfriend is looking all jealous and pissy about it(but I would still dance for him anyway...I mean, money's money!), but obviously you had no problems with it, when YOU were the one who initiated it!!

    Perhaps the stripper simply didn't want to dance for couples because it involved a girl, and maybe she was a homophobe? Again, that's kinda silly! I can't stand it when some strippers refuse to dance for other girls because "they're not into that." It's a LAPDANCE, it's not like they're going down on a girl or something! I like girls a little, but even if I didn't, I don't see how dancing for another girl is worse than dancing for some ugly guy that "isn't your type."(Lucky for me though, I like girls and I like dancing for them LOL) I don't understand how homophobic some strippers act! I'm not necessarily saying that homophobia was the reason...I'm just mentioning a common reason that I heard from other strippers as to why they won't dance for couples or for a guy's girl. I think their mentality is silly!

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    OK I just discussed this with M--k. He suggested that another possible reason that a stripper might not want to dance for someone's boyfriend is because maybe she is an "extras girl" and knows that she wouldn't be able to get away with offering extras to the boyfriend?(since his girlfriend would be there and all) I don't know...maybe possibly, for some situations.

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    i usually don't hit up couples either, not because i dont know how to hustle them, believe me, i do. Usually the woman in the couple is either overly bitchy and drunk (=mean, angry, etc.) or an attention whore and drunk (=grabby, sloppy, trying to make out with you (EW!), etc).
    the man in the couple is not usually that great either, and neither of them spend that much money. so it's just not worth my time.
    of course, on occasion there are the really nice couples that are worth my time.

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    uhhhhhhhhg that's so frustrating. it happens to my boyfriend and i about 75% of the time we go.

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    Actually this sounds a little obnoxious to me; like the guys who are all "why don't dancers come up to me, they're all missing out, blah, blah, blah" completely ignoring the fact that they can just as easily spend their money by asking girls to come to their table, and then coming here to exhibit to us how they are punishing strippers for misjudging them.
    Agreed. Exactly. Why didn't you just ask the girls you wanted for a dance then?

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    Well, for the record, I cannot tell you how many times I got more dances from the couple with the guys around them paying me to dance for them. I made $400 off of one couple because of this. They bought a handful of dances...and were having so much fun that the surrounding guys were buying dance after dance for the woman.

    I find it easier to just approach the couples. If they give off the bad vibe, I'd just smile, walk away and go about my business...but, more often than not...I would get dances from them.

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    I personally dont like getting dances. They just dont do anything for me. However, I love to watch my boyfriend get them. If he sees a dancer he is interested in, I will go up and tip her on stage, however, in Vegas, a lot of girls are off stage. Sometimes, if I feel ambicious, I will tell a bouncer that we are interested, send girls over.

    We always make sure to look like an aproachable couple. Im a dancer, I know what types of couples I wouldnt approcach, and i make sure we dont look like that. I dont sit close to him, or try to hold his hand, or act all kissey face. I smile and make eye contact with girls that walk past. We defiantly have a "type" we like, but will usually buy a dance from any girl who has a nice personality, even if her looks are not so great. Granted, we usually buy only 1 or 2 dances per girl, but if there is one who my we are particularly tickled with, we will buy several, and have gone to VIP. I like to go to VIP with him, just cause when we are in a club together its our experience, and I like to watch. He also goes out with hsi guy friends to clubs, I dont mind that at all, and usually, he gets less dances than if he was with me. When we are out together, its more about the girls, and when he is out with his guy friends, its more about drinking and partying, with a few dances thrown in.

    But ,like other have pointed out, selling a couple is quicker than selling a guy. If you walk up, are hot, and friendly, we are sold. We actually dont want to sit and make conversation. My whole point was, it only takes a second to ask. Dont have anything to lose.

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    I've seen both sides of the coin on this. A customer doesn't want to have to work to get attention, though simply asking the waitress to send over an appealing dancer isn't all that hard to do.

    In eight years of working clubs, I have seen it both ways many times, the idiot customers too shy to figure out a way to get what they came there for, and the dancers who will ignore a good potential customer for the losers they usually sit with.

    But in the extremely unlikely event I ever did go to a club to get a lapdance, I wouldn't be inclined to chase a dancer around the room to get one, I'd ask the waitress to help me out.

    I have gone to clubs many times with a SO who wanted to get dances, and had to go ask the dancers for her. Of course it helped that I knew them, but I might be inclined to do a little more work for her sake in a strange club, too.
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    These girls just don't know how to hustle. It doesn't make them stupid. If you wanted to get dances, you could have approached them at the rack or anywhere else in the club. I am in agreement with Jenny on this one.

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    I wouldn't have approached you. I dislike approaching couples, and tables with women sitting there.

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    I always bank off of couples. I see why some girls. Do not bother with couples. Considering what happen to me last week. A guy brought his girl in the club. Than when I approach them and said hi. She just shot me down and left. So he had to run after her. But That still did not stop me from approaching couples. To me they are like free money. Because nobody approaches them! If I was there we would have had a good ole time. To me couples are easy money nine chances out of ten. They came for me to entertain them, at least that is how I put it
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    You would have been so MINE!! I did dayshift at the Rhino before, it can be dishearteningly dead, and the girls are discouraged. If you are too shy to approach everyone, you have no business as a dancer!

    Face it, the club is changing, dancers need to adapt. Its not all single older men and their expense accounts anymore. Couples are relatively easy money. So what if they try to take you home, its not like every single guy doesn't.

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    My hubby loves to watch me get dances. We often go to clubs with another couple and he likes to watch his wife get dances just as much. Our combined experiences are that we have to go ask a girl. Dancers do not often approach us.
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