i had this regular that came in to see me for about 8 months on a weekly basis. all was fine but he slowly became very possessive and got pushy about meeting outside of the club. i was clear from the beginning that i had a boyfriend and never called him to come in, he always initiated the visits yet he still felt that i let him on. i guess doing my job and being sexy was too much for him to handleanywho, he came in about 2 months ago with some friends on a night i happened to be working but he didn't know that before he came in because i hadn't talked to him. he was extremely drunk and had management come get me to be with him when he walked in. i was already sitting with someone and was simply told i was needed in VIP but not why. once i got to VIP i saw my regular and went over to say hello. turns out i was called to stage back downstairs a few minutes later. when i got off of stage i went over to say goodnight to the customers i had been sitting with all night before my regular came in. apparantly, i took too long and when i returned to my regular he started yelling at me that i was making him look bad in front of his friends and so on and so forth. he then proceeded to yell at hospitality as well. after this, he stayed away for about a month and we eventually spoke and there were no hard feelings. but ever since then, when he comes in, he feels the need to do rooms with different girls, even ones he couldn't stand before. i feel like he's just "test-driving" the other girls to make me mad because he'll send me text messages while he's in the room to ask me if i'm mad at him. obviously, he's a bit crazy and doesn't get that i'm there for entertainment, not a relationship. the last time he was in a rumor got started that i said i was going to kick the girl's ass that was in the room with him. never in a million years would i say such a thing and i never did find out if it was her or him that started the rumor. frankly i'm happy i don't have to deal with him anymore. he's far too demanding and ridiculously possessive. i'm still cordial with him when he comes in but i don't sit with him or dance for him anymore. was just wondering if anyone has dealt with something similiar and can offer any advice. i don't care to get him back as a regular since he went psycho on me, too much drama, but i also don't want to snub him. any suggestions?


anywho, he came in about 2 months ago with some friends on a night i happened to be working but he didn't know that before he came in because i hadn't talked to him. he was extremely drunk and had management come get me to be with him when he walked in. i was already sitting with someone and was simply told i was needed in VIP but not why. once i got to VIP i saw my regular and went over to say hello. turns out i was called to stage back downstairs a few minutes later. when i got off of stage i went over to say goodnight to the customers i had been sitting with all night before my regular came in. apparantly, i took too long and when i returned to my regular he started yelling at me that i was making him look bad in front of his friends and so on and so forth. he then proceeded to yell at hospitality as well. after this, he stayed away for about a month and we eventually spoke and there were no hard feelings. but ever since then, when he comes in, he feels the need to do rooms with different girls, even ones he couldn't stand before. i feel like he's just "test-driving" the other girls to make me mad because he'll send me text messages while he's in the room to ask me if i'm mad at him. obviously, he's a bit crazy and doesn't get that i'm there for entertainment, not a relationship. the last time he was in a rumor got started that i said i was going to kick the girl's ass that was in the room with him. never in a million years would i say such a thing and i never did find out if it was her or him that started the rumor. frankly i'm happy i don't have to deal with him anymore. he's far too demanding and ridiculously possessive. i'm still cordial with him when he comes in but i don't sit with him or dance for him anymore. was just wondering if anyone has dealt with something similiar and can offer any advice. i don't care to get him back as a regular since he went psycho on me, too much drama, but i also don't want to snub him. any suggestions?
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