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    So hello all im coming back after having my beautiful baby girl in september. Now I am really erxcited but i have doubts about telling my boyfriend. He thinks its not a good idea, he doesnt like the idea of others seeing my body. See, personally i love exotic dancing i think its beautiful, so sexual and alot of fun. The money doesnt hurt and i love it. Now i love my boyfriend but i dont want to telll him im going back....I really want to make money and live well. I loved being a stripper...and still do, now i need help..what do u all think i should do...tell him (i dont think i can) not do it...or do it nd not tell him?? help

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    If you value the relationship then you should tell him.
    you live like an ivy vine
    you can only survive by clinging onto trees
    that's your flaw
    put down some roots so you can stand on your own
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    I would tell him. Think about it, if you start dancing and don't tell him and he finds out he is gonna be pissed. He will lose all trust in you. I know you don't want that. Do what you know is right and tell him.

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    He'll find out whether you tell him or not. Best he hears it from you right away.

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    cks i love dancing i want to get into it soo bad

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    hes not gonna want me to do it..so i dont know what to do i know what u guys mean though and i love him alot and dont want him to find out..the wrong way

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    Well, is he fully going to comfortably support you and your child? If not, tell him unless he has the ability to do this, he doesn't really have any right to stop you.

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    Default Re: Question from a Returned Dancer

    valuable advice:
    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk View Post
    If you value the relationship then you should tell him.
    Quote Originally Posted by CorsicaFire View Post
    He'll find out whether you tell him or not. Best he hears it from you right away.
    and, as for this:
    Quote Originally Posted by cindythebellydancer View Post
    hes not gonna want me to do it..so i dont know what to do i know what u guys mean though and i love him alot and dont want him to find out..the wrong way
    you have to tell him something along the lines of, "look im going to do it whether you like it or not, and i just *hope* you will support me in my decision, because i love you and i hope you love me enough to realize it's just a job that makes me great money and i like it."
    otherwise, you could be facing deeper and longer lasting troubles with trust (him trusting you) if you go back and dont tell him 1st.

    Love it!

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    You guys are so right..I will tell him I mean he wants to support us but its hard..I can make 100 times he makes. Im sure he will understand. thanks girls wat would i do with out u

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