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    I just have to share this creppy ass thing that happened to Me at work the other day, That I have read simular stories about it on this board.

    So about a month ago I dance for this werid guy whos 21 years old. It was horriable I never felt so fialalted (Sp?) in My life, He was way to close to Me and rubbing Me so hard I thought I was being effing mulested! So I only did one dance and he asked Me for more and I said no way! I've never felt so fialated (Sp?) in My life just from giving a dance as I did with You. So I walked away and he left.

    Last week he came in again and came up to Me and said he liked that I was the only girl that ever turned him down for another dance and that he wanted Me to give him another one but this time he promised he would behave him self, So I said alright I'll give You one more dance but the second You do anything wrong I'm leaving. So we wen't for the dance and surprisingly enough everything wen't fine. We talked for a bit and I mentioned one thing that I got made fun of in high school that really must of pushed a button in his head....

    3 days ago this guy comes in My club tells Me he is in LOVE with Me. He said I opened up to him! ( just cause I told him I got made fun of in high school?, Doesn't almost everyone get made fun of??) and he told Me he got made fun of 2. And he tells Me he wants Me to break up with My boyfriend and he told Me not to be scared of him stalking Me because he psychotrist (Sp?) is going to help him not to kill Me! And he wrote Me a 3 page letter explaining his feelings!

    Alrite thats it ladys I just had to vent there because nothing like that has every happened to Me before and I thought it was way creepy! Thanks for reading and please girls be careful!
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    Um...wow. Don't even know what to say about that one. Be VERY careful. Creepy.
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    I read a book called "Why Girls Are Weird" by Pamie Ribon. There is this one part that says "only psychos say that they like you too much to ever meet you. It's because they are trying not to kill you." And this guy isn't even trying all that hard.
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    Guys like that are walking pity parties & when they can't suck/er people into giving them what they want, they get all scary to retaliate/ have a sense of satisfaction.

    Tell the bouncers & management...you don't even have to embellish. If you fear he'll do something weird, it's best you say something...He'll just keep on trying it on other girls if you don't say something.

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    i agree inform management about it. stay away from him and don't dance for him again - not worth the money IMO. u want to put a stop to this unhealthy obsession.
    also make sure when u leave work that he is not lurking around somewhere, he sounds llike the type that would.

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    I told managment and the doormen. They said they won't even let him in the club anymore. One of the doormen walks Me to My cab everynight too.

    Its just a creppy thing to have happen to Me. Like I read other girls stories on this board before talking about stalker situations and such but You never think You'll get one of thoese guys.

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    whoa... you have every right to feel violated! i would agree, talk to the club manager, tell him that this guy is stalking you, and thinks he is in love with you and (if i read that right) is mentally ill and has a psychiatrist who wants to help him NOT kill you! that is more than enough to ban him from your club but my oh my girl, if i was you, i'd switch up my working days just in case!

    Love it!

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    That's way creepy! It gave me the heebeejeebees!!!

    Hey would you mind posting the letter, or at least excerpts?

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    ^^!! L0l! Omg I would love to! I gave it to My boyfriend as soon as I came home from work I dunno where he put it I'm home now and hes gone to Quebec City for the night he's going to be back in a few hrs tho! Hahaha! I so wanna post it! =p ....

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    Yikes! Keep an eye out in public to make sure he's not stalking you. *is worried* Hopefully this guys done being creepy. The things we put up with sometimes. *shivers*

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    Quote Originally Posted by candie00 View Post
    ^^!! L0l! Omg I would love to! I gave it to My boyfriend as soon as I came home from work I dunno where he put it I'm home now and hes gone to Quebec City for the night he's going to be back in a few hrs tho! Hahaha! I so wanna post it! =p ....
    Oh, I can't wait! I don't know if I'll be able to sleep now!!

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    ^^ L0l!

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    Eeek! that's.... just.... eeek!
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    Quote Originally Posted by candie00 View Post
    ^^ L0l!
    Okay, is it time for the letter let? LOL...

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    Oh my word! Argh! Ooh...that's horrible. I hope you make sure you're safe. In some way you just have to laugh though, what a thing to say to someone!
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    I had a guy like that but this was before dancing. This guy that lived in my apartment complex was stalking me! He was sending me letters, waiting in his car until I got home and then getting out of his car to say hi to me, always just happen to be near my apartment when I'd leave and come home, etc. I had to move because I started getting scared to even leave or come home to my apartment! Keep the letter and document everything because you might have a potential stalker on your hands. If you see him again, you might want to make a police report! I know exactly how you feel but I think I'd feel even creepier if that had happened with a customer that I danced for! Eeeewwww!!!!!

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    Wow, creepy! My friend had a guy follow her home once! She said she had an un-easy feeling leaving work and kept thinking someone was tailgating her. Finally when she was pulling in to her co-op something told her not to get out of the car as there was another car RIGHT behind her (not the kind of thing that happens in Ottawa at 4am). She ended up turning around and came straight to my house, sure enough she saw Mr.Creepy looking at her while she drove past him. Ever since that night she gets walked to her car, and calls someone while she walks to her house from the car. Be careful ladies, lots of weirdos out there! I just wish they would understand that we'd give them ALL the time in the world, just within the limits of the VIP.
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    It sounds like you should consider, if possible, working at different clubs or moving your schedule around a little bit. Do this for a month or two and wait for this guy to latch on to someone else (though warn the bouncers at your club so they can keep him from getting attached to any of the girls at your club.)

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    Save the letter.

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    Thats creppy hun...just keep your eyes open..and stay away from him...

    Just a quick question though...if you didn't enjoy dancing for him what so ever the first time..but gave him a second chance...why even open up to him about who you are at all? Get the dance and get out type of attitude I would have...
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    if hes talking crazy like that u may want to switch to a different club for a little bit until he forgets about you. out of sight, out of mind.

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