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    Ok I booked a shoot last night on my own. Never again. IT says in my profile that I am escorted to all shoots, but when we got there he said it was a closed set....red flag #1 that I should have left. IT was supposed to be a light fetish solo ....turned out the guy was the camerman,director AND in the show.....tyed me up and tickled me, put a vibrator on me......

    If I had been prepared it may have been ok...but this is NOT what I thought I was walking in on. My wrists today are all marked up and very painful...that isnt what I'd call LIGHT. And I wasnt told anyone would be touching me.
    When he started talking about handjobs and stuff...I told him to untie me and I was leaving. I had to tell him twice before he stopped. I cut the shoot short by half the time.....

    While nothing really bad happened...I still feel so violated. and stupid. I've never felt that helpless. If I said no, and he decided to keep going....there was literally nothing I could have done.

    I am a complete idiot. NEver again will I go anywhere that 1)isnt booked by my agent or 2)doesnt allow my to bring security.


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    file a lawsuit. Take that prick public!

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    I feel like it was at least partly my own fault for not following gut instinct.

    And if you are on OMP...he is #175504 - Eroge Video Productions - Hollywood, Florida...beware
    People always ask me, did I ever learn anything when I was a stripper? Yeah, I did. One man plus two beers equals 20 dollars.
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    Wow, I'm glad it was nothing worse. IMO, you got off lucky, and it's a better way to have learned that lesson then G-d forbid being raped or hurt. Thank G-d you're okay!

    uhhhh. I've got mad shivers!

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    Oh baby girl, I am so sorry. Fuck assholes like that guy, it's people like him that give the xxx business such a seedy reputation. I wanna fly to FL and beat the hell out of him for that, you are so sweet and didn't deserve something like that to happen.

    Thank you for warning people about this creep show.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gingerlee View Post
    Oh baby girl, I am so sorry. Fuck assholes like that guy, it's people like him that give the xxx business such a seedy reputation. I wanna fly to FL and beat the hell out of him for that, you are so sweet and didn't deserve something like that to happen.

    Thank you for warning people about this creep show.
    Yeah...I just hated feeling so helpless. A;though I guess I'm a lot stronger then I thought..I broke the restrainsts once....and managed to knee him in the nuts while tied up.
    Even scarier was how he kept asking if I wanted any wine....over and over...how most girls wanted a buzz. I told him I was going to be DAMN sure I stayed sober. I asked for club soda and sipped it..then looked at it..it was tinged yellow...WTF??? And every time I put it down he handed it back to me. Hmmm...looked wierd and he was REALLY interested in me drinking it. Yeah...I've been drugged before..no thanks to that.
    He also kept asking if I was going to come during the scene. I told him no...this is work, not pleasure and I would never be relaxed enough for that. So he kept telling me to relax and enjoy it. TOO creepy. A true pro wont care if you come as long as you can fake it on film. I've NEVER had an orgasm and I did 4 films this week. I highly doubt I ever will...it's all just too staged and all. So the fact that he seemed to REALLY care if I had one......yet another red flag.

    I cried when I got home. I never cry.
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    A) Make this all known on OMP. Seriously.

    B) CALL THE COPS. Yes, yes yes yes.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PaigeDWinter View Post
    A) Make this all known on OMP. Seriously.

    B) CALL THE COPS. Yes, yes yes yes.
    I contacted OMP to see how to report him..I dont want to call the cops...nothing actually happened..it was more how i was made to feel. I wasnt assaulted or raped or anything so I cant see how they would do anything.

    I just feel stupid for not listening to my gut...I know better
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    Jeez...that's seriously scary. I'm glad you were able to make it out like you did. Be careful, hon!

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    I'm so sorry that happened to you. Yes, please contact OMP and let them know what exactly happened. I do feel like you should go to the police though. I look at what happened as assault/rape. It's something that you didnt' want to happen AND he didn't stop until you told him not to 2x. Look into it babe.







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    G-d I'm just so glad you are okay

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    If you do book gigs again freelance just realise that if the person doesn't want you to bring an escort along then you do not do the booking. Simple as that.


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    a closed set is closed for the safety/comfort of the actor/performer, not for the sleazy, diddler dude.

    for that reason, if you want your escort there, then he's there. definitely a lesson.

    people say having a diva attitude is bad - but only because it prevents THEM from exploiting you. next time you'll know to say, 'what-fucken-ever' and walk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by GoldCoastGirl View Post
    If you do book gigs again freelance just realise that if the person doesn't want you to bring an escort along then you do not do the booking. Simple as that.
    Yep.....I'll never go against my gut again....
    People always ask me, did I ever learn anything when I was a stripper? Yeah, I did. One man plus two beers equals 20 dollars.
    -- Anna Nicole Smith

    Myspace is an obsession...much like Stripperweb...
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    http://www.myspace.com/sexyhotdancer(work myspace)


    Just remember...if the world didn't suck, we'd all fall off.

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    OMG, how terrifying. I'm so glad you're okay!

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    What a fucking creep. I'm so sorry this happened to you!

    I hope you can still continue to do your job without feeling constantly on guard or frightened. I was attacked by a BDSM client once. Freaked me RIGHT out for months. I was super sketchy with new clients after that.
    I started getting more strict with my screening process, having them fill out questionaires and such before agreeing to see them. I always had defense weapons (mace, stun gun) or another person on the premises. You might want to bring these items with you. And now I always trust my gut instinct. If ANYTHING feels strange or "off", run away as fast as you can. Screw the money. Get out and don't look back.

    Please take care of yourself, and do all you can to out this guy. Make sure everyone knows and always protect yourself from now on.

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    Oh, lord! Thank god you're okay!! *hugs*
    This is definitely something the police should hear about. Assault is assault. If nothing else, get a report on file about him so that if other girls report him, there'll be a record!

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameronfl View Post
    I contacted OMP to see how to report him..I dont want to call the cops...nothing actually happened..it was more how i was made to feel. I wasnt assaulted or raped or anything so I cant see how they would do anything.

    I just feel stupid for not listening to my gut...I know better
    Nothing happened? Sounds like assault to me. He touched you in a sexual manner correct.

    For the record photographers shouldn't ever be touching you.

    Report the fucker.



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    make sure you post something in the OMP forum.... blacklist him on as many sites as you can, and contact the police- fill in the report....maybe he is a rapist already and known to them?

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    That sucks girl!!! Def. let it be known on OMP that hes a perverted asshole that is tryin to hump young girls! I haven't had that happen to me before, but have talked to a few sketchy guys from there...So many photographers on OMP that claim they have all of this print work and promo work for you... ALWAYS trust your gut feeling!!!!

    Good luck & stay safe
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    Quote Originally Posted by mermaidnz View Post
    make sure you post something in the OMP forum.... blacklist him on as many sites as you can, and contact the police- fill in the report....maybe he is a rapist already and known to them?
    he could of raped other girls and they are to scarred to come foward if the cops raid his place and find date-rape drugs he will go to jail if you press charges for sexual assult maybe other girl will too.

    lets keep fuckers like that locked up

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    Eroge... that's Japanese for the seriously fucked up fetishes, like shitting dick nipples (yes, I saw a photo of those). God, the name says it all.

    Good luck. Do not blame yourself. This was an assult and battery case.

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    shitting dick nipples
    And what are those, may I ask?

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    Quote Originally Posted by AlexxaHex View Post
    And what are those, may I ask?
    Google Image search. Don't say I didn't warn you.

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    Wow. Not just any dicks, but brown ones. Thank you. O_o
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